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In this episode, we discuss how couples are missing the blessings in front of us.

Kyle and Selina explore how couples often overlook common blessings because they fixate on what they lack in their relationship.

• Tendency to forget we once prayed for a spouse while now feeling desperate for the next best thing
• Recognition that blessings exist throughout all seasons, whether high or low
• How looking too much at the big picture makes us miss the small blessings for today
• Marriage as clay that God shapes throughout our journey together
• Importance of measuring smaller blessings to build momentum toward bigger ones
• Practical ways to embrace current blessings rather than waiting for perfect circumstances
• Connection between contentment with current blessings and our relationship with God
• Need to trust God's sovereignty and perfect timing in our lives

Take inventory of your blessings, pray for contentment and good vision to see what's around you, and trust that what God has given you in this season is enough until He blesses you with more.

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In this episode, Kyle and Selina discuss when self-sabotage holds your relationship back and how to press into new blessings and higher milestones courageously.

Kyle and Selina dive deep into the fears and insecurities that prevent couples from taking their relationships to the next level, exploring how self-sabotage manifests differently for men and women.

• Fear of rejection often leads to overthinking and second-guessing good relationships
• Women tend to project too far into the future, creating anxiety about making the "right" choice
• Men typically resist change when comfortable, avoiding vulnerability and deeper connection
• Self-sabotage in marriage appears as communication breakdowns, withholding vulnerability
• Creating a safe space for honest communication requires "30 seconds of insane courage."
• Recognizing that God's strength works through our weakness helps overcome relationship fears
• Vulnerability, though frightening, is the pathway to deeper intimacy and relationship growth
• Naming your feelings and scheduling specific times for difficult conversations prevents avoidance

Don't let fear hold you back from experiencing the relationship God intended for you. Take that step of vulnerability today, and watch how your relationship transforms.

🔗 LINKS TO REFERENCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE! 🔗

John Legend: "Cards on the table" ➡️ "All of Me"

Matt Damon: 30 Seconds of Insane Courage ➡️ "We Bought A Zoo"

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This episode focuses on the unexpected damages of over-criticizing your partner!

Our words can either build up or tear down our partners, and constant criticism can transform from constructive feedback into relationship poison that leaves lasting damage on both people and their marriage.

• The issue isn't always about the specific complaint (like dishwashers or comforters) but what they represent—feeling disrespected or undervalued
• Criticism often stems from our own insecurities and desire for control when we feel other areas of life are chaotic
• Repeated criticism creates a fight-or-flight response where partners either withdraw emotionally or respond with hostility
• The person being criticized begins questioning their worth with thoughts like "Why did they even choose me?"
• Identifying the root cause of criticism helps address the real issue instead of attacking surface behaviors
• Prayer provides perspective and helps couples remember who the real enemy is (hint: it's not your spouse)
• Breaking cycles of criticism requires daily intentional effort—your edges will get sanded down and your heart will become tender

If you're struggling with criticism in your relationship, reach out to us. This is a daily battle that won't change overnight, but with God's help and consistent effort, you can work through it together.

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Navigating relationships with friends of the opposite sex requires clear boundaries and intentional communication, especially after marriage.

• Setting boundaries with opposite-sex friends becomes crucial when married or in a committed relationship
• Including your spouse in all communications with opposite-sex friends builds trust and transparency
• Some friendships naturally dissolve after marriage, revealing potential hidden intentions
• Work "spouses" create dangerous emotional connections that should be reserved for your actual spouse
• Group settings are preferable for personal conversations with opposite-sex friends
• When someone is spiritually on fire for God, their attraction can be misinterpreted
• If inappropriate feelings develop, confession, repentance, and creating distance are necessary steps
• Two becoming one flesh means respecting both partners as a unit
• Guardrails protect marriages before problems arise
• Transparency with your spouse about all interactions prevents misunderstandings

If you're listening to this podcast, we ask that you give us a review. Like, share, subscribe, review. If you're on YouTube, do all the things Kyle just mentioned and come back next week for more spring cleaning topics you won't want to miss.

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What began as an attempted solo episode transforms when Kyle unexpectedly returns for his forgotten coffee, resulting in playful banter and a heartfelt prayer specifically for men in the audience.

• Kyle takes over the show after returning for his coffee
• Spontaneous prayer focused on men's spiritual needs and challenges
• Prayer emphasizes God as "our sword and shield" in daily challenges
• Special acknowledgment of men searching for purpose and direction
• Reminder that God works behind the scenes in our lives
• Brief announcement about new content coming in April

We'll see you in April with a brand new, fresh series.

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When Kyle rushes off to work post-podcast, Selina turns the unexpected moment into a special bonus prayer session specifically for women listeners. She offers encouragement and spiritual guidance for wives and women in serious relationships.

• The prayer focuses on communication challenges, finding rest in busy seasons, overcoming anxiety and fear
• Selina specifically addresses wives seeking to strengthen their identity within marriage
• She prays for women in serious dating relationships to have clarity about their relationship's future
• Encouragement for women to have the boldness to address relationship problems lovingly

We'll return with regular episodes in April! See you then!

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In this episode, we review "Preparing for Marriage" and recap how this book helped us prepare for the meaning of marriage during a season when it's often overlooked.

Preparing for marriage requires more than planning a wedding - it demands intentional investment in your relationship's foundation through continuing education, spiritual growth, and honest conversations about expectations.

• Biblical blueprint for marriage including finances, roles, and expectations
• Servant leadership transforms how husbands can lead by serving their wives
• Understanding submission as a willing, loving choice rather than loss of identity
• Importance of tackling premarital counseling early in engagement before wedding planning takes over
• Prayer and Bible study create spiritual intimacy that strengthens marriage
• Parents questionnaire opens communication with both families before marriage
• Fighting fair is a crucial skill that develops over time
• Marriage preparation should include ministry preparation for Christian couples

If you're interested in joining the beta phase of our Love by Faith premarital course, please contact us through this link.

🔗 LINKS TO STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE!🔗

Paperback: Preparing for Marriage: Discover God's Plan for a Lifetime of Love

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Here's a book recommendation that will help serious couples learn how to leave, cleave, and clean out their closets one question at a time!

The conversation dives into essential questions that every serious couple should consider before tying the knot. By exploring the book "101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged," we share our insights and personal experiences to highlight the importance of open communication.

- Introduction to the Serious Couples Series
- Book recommendation: 101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged
- Key insights from our personal experiences reading the book
- Tackling difficult conversations in relationships
- Real-life examples of essential questions that matter
- Encouragement to keep the conversation going

🔗 LINKS TO STUFF MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE! 🔗

Paperback: 101 Questions to Ask Before Getting Engaged by H. Norman Wright

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