On this episode, Caroline, Skye, and returning as guest cohost Torin Reilly Bowen meet with Lee Beineke to talk about authenticity, identity, and the journey of becoming. A dedicated special education assistant from Indiana, Lee opens up about his path from the fast food industry to the classroom, and the transformative years that followed. He shares with honesty and warmth the milestones of his transition—his marriage to his wife Jenny, his name change, and bottom surgery—all of which shaped his understanding of living a full, true life. Together, the group reflects on how the Trans Narrative Podcast itself has evolved, and how storytelling can illuminate the often-overlooked experiences within the LGBTQ+ community.

Religious trauma, community support, and chosen family are central themes in this candid and heartfelt conversation. Lee and Torin reflect on their Southern Baptist upbringings and the spiritual harm they endured, contrasting those experiences with the joy of finding inclusive spaces later in life. Skye brings in her own interfaith experience, weaving in stories of joyfully sharing queer representation with children in her Unitarian Universalist congregation. Throughout the episode, the hosts and guest uplift the value of safe adults, mentorship, and community infrastructure—especially for trans youth navigating complex environments.

From classroom advocacy to Big Brother mentorship, Lee offers a glimpse into what trans joy and quiet resilience can look like. He speaks about becoming a safe space for students, the importance of showing up with kindness, and the power of simply being visible. With deeply personal insights and practical advice, this episode serves as both a window into Lee’s world and a mirror for listeners navigating their own paths. The conversation ends with a powerful call to action: to be “that one person” for someone else, offering encouragement, compassion, and unwavering support.

“Lee Beineke is a dedicated Special Education Assistant with a passion for helping students reach their full potential. His journey to this career was shaped by resilience, self-discovery, and a deep commitment to making a difference.

Born and raised in Fort Wayne, Indiana, Lee navigated the challenges of self-acceptance before fully embracing his identity as a transgender man. With the unwavering support of his wife, he found the confidence to live authentically. His personal journey has strengthened his ability to connect with and support students, fostering an inclusive and understanding learning environment.

Starting his career in the fast food industry, Lee eventually pursued his lifelong dream of working in education. Now, in his role as a Special Education Assistant, he is dedicated to empowering students and creating a positive impact in their lives. Happily married since 2019, he continues to follow his passion, living a life rooted in authenticity, purpose, and compassion.”

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“Make it real to me” written by Athena Promachus, covered by Boy Bowser

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