In this episode, I dive into one of the biggest game-changers in my life and journey: investing in myself. I share how betting on my own growth — even when I was early and unsure — completely shifted my confidence, mindset, and trajectory. It’s not just about spending money; it’s about raising your self-worth before you even begin. I also break down why the right community can accelerate your growth and how even bad experiences can become powerful lessons. If you’re waiting for a sign to start betting on yourself, this is it. Let’s unlock greatness — together.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why investing in yourself is the first step toward real change
• The mindset shift that happens when you bet on your own growth
• How surrounding yourself with a winning community elevates you
• Knowing the difference between an investment and a cost

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This week I sat down with my 4AM crew homie, firefighter, and friend Kevin McFarland—aka K-Mack. This episode is one of the most powerful we’ve done. Kevin opens up about being blindsided by a cancer diagnosis, undergoing life-altering surgery, and still showing up with grit, gratitude, and growth. We talk about his comeback journey, the mental battles no one else can fight for you, and what real success actually looks like.

Key Topics:

• The power of mindset in recovery and adversity
• Showing up when it would be easier to shut down
• Why “what you focus on expands”
• "Improve, not prove" - personal growth and fulfillment

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In this episode, I break down two powerful mindsets: the bulldozer and the shovel. Most of us charge into our goals with intensity and urgency—but burn out just as fast. I’ve learned through life, fitness, and business that real success doesn’t come from explosive starts… it comes from consistent progress.

This episode is about choosing patience, persistence, and discipline over the hype. It’s about showing up daily, even when it's not flashy. I share personal examples and practical advice on how to build a life (and a mindset) that lasts. Because success isn’t about how fast you move—it’s about how long you last.

This one’s for the people ready to play the long game. Be the shovel.

Key Topics:

• The difference between the bulldozer and shovel mindsets
• Why most people burn out trying to chase fast results
• The power of small, consistent progress over time
• How to build habits that last in fitness, business, and personal growth
• Creating sustainable systems and expectations

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What does it really take to go from broke, grinding 80-hour weeks with kids at home, to leading real estate developments and 50+ employee businesses? Bryan McAnally sat down with me and laid it all out — the setbacks, the sacrifices, and the strategy.

This is not some highlight reel. We talk about the real journey — the late nights, the self-doubt, the painting apartments after a full-time job just to feed your family. But through that pain? Came growth. Bryan built a life of ownership — in business, in mindset, and in legacy.

If you’re tired of just surviving and ready to build something real — mentally, financially, and emotionally — this one’s for you.

Key Topics:

• Why school doesn’t define your future
• How Faith & Fear are Both Beliefs — You Choose Which One Guides You
• Why Net Worth Means Nothing Without Purpose, Time, and Relationships
• The Power of Building a Personal Brand (Especially If You're in Construction)
• Delayed Gratification: How 12 Years of Sacrifice Can Pay Off in 2

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There are seasons where everything feels heavy—where you start to question if the fight is even worth it. I’ve been there. In this episode, I break down a simple framework I use when I hit those moments: Push, Pull, Pivot.

Sometimes the answer is to push harder and fight through. Other times, it’s smarter to pull back, reevaluate, and gain clarity. And occasionally, the most courageous move is to pivot—not because you're quitting, but because you're leveling up.

This mindset has helped me stay grounded through tough seasons and make aligned, powerful decisions. If you’re in a hard spot, this might be the shift you need.

Key Topics:

• The Push: When to grind and break through the discomfort
• The Pull: Taking a strategic pause to reassess your path
• The Pivot: Why changing directions isn’t quitting—it’s growth
• Knowing yourself and trusting the season you’re in

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This week on The Iron & Infrastructure Podcast, I sit down with leadership expert and industry veteran Brad Herda—a man on a mission to impact 100,000 blue-collar families. We dig into the real stuff: how to lead with clarity, how to communicate so your people actually listen, and how the best leaders replace themselves by pulling others up while they climb.

Brad shares powerful insights on transformational leadership, the reality of transitioning from the field to management, and why purpose—not a title—is what makes you a leader.

If you’re stuck in survival mode, trying to level up in life, or just wondering what real fulfillment looks like in this industry, this episode will hit home.

Key Topics:

• The difference between terrible, trained, and transformational leaders
• Why “one hand up, one hand down” is the leadership model the industry needs
• The Delegation Due Diligence method that eliminates excuses and misalignment
• Self-awareness: The leadership superpower most ignore

#IronAndInfrastructure #BradHerda #JacobEmery #BlueCollarLeadership #UnlockYourGreatness #WorkforceMindset #LeadershipInHardHats #TransformationalLeadership #BuiltDifferent #SimpleScalesComplexFails #MentorshipMatters #LeadWithPurpose #RiseTogether

In this episode of The Iron & Infrastructure Podcast, I break down what I call The Curse of Competence – the dangerous trap of becoming too good at what you do. If you’re the go-to person, always relied on but never appreciated, and stuck in a position you’ve outgrown, this one’s for you.

We dive deep into:

• Why high performers often get overlooked
• How to avoid burnout even when you're “the guy” or “the girl” everyone counts on
• The power of training your replacement
• How to leverage your true value without ego
• Why production = purpose

This one is about recognizing your worth, protecting your energy, and unlocking the next level of growth. You don’t need to stay stuck just because you’re great at something. Let’s evolve — together.

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This week on The Iron & infrastructure Podcast, Josh Tomeoni, sat down with me for a raw conversation on what it really feels like to hit rock bottom —and what it takes to rebuild. From divorce and isolation to judgment and identity loss, Josh walks through how the darkest moments of his life forced him to confront who he really was.

This episode is about becoming. About facing failure head-on and using it as fuel instead of shame. About redefining what strength and masculinity really look like.

If you’ve ever felt like you're pretending to hold it all together while everything inside you is falling apart—this one’s for you.

Key Topics:

• Hitting rock bottom and what it teaches you about identity
• Divorce, isolation, and confronting judgment
• Why most people never really rebuild—they just hide
• Turning pain into power: Josh’s personal story

#IronAndInfrastructure #JacobEmery #JoshTomeoni #TheDerelict #MensMentalHealth #RockBottomRebuild #AuthenticManhood #FaceYourself #RedefiningStrength #FromPainToPurpose #OwnYourStory #VulnerabilityIsCourage #PurposeThroughPain