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I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast

I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast

By: Raiford Dalton Palmer /E. James Publishing Company Inc.
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Are you a smart, successful person? Wondering how to make your marriage better? Looking for divorce strategy with a touch of humor? Want to know how the rich and famous do both? You found the right place! I Just Want This Done Divorce Podcast is not just another boring divorce lawyer show. Bestselling author and Chicago divorce lawyer Raiford Dalton Palmer and STG Divorce Law Partner Rahul Iyer host this weekly show covering the latest news and advice on marriage, divorce, dating, and more. *not legal advice (we have to say that).Copyright 2023 All rights reserved, E. James Publishing Company, Inc. Economics Hygiene & Healthy Living Relationships Social Sciences
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  • JLo Ben Affleck and SIA Divorce Stories, Cheating Careers Dating Advice and CCTV Drama | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 30
    Jun 27 2025

    This episode covers a mix of celebrity stories, relationship dynamics, and real-life legal cases. We start with the latest on J Lo and Ben Affleck, followed by SIA’s divorce and what it reveals about privacy, control, and separation. We also take a look at a divorce case involving a spouse secretly watching through CCTV inside the house, and what the law says about eavesdropping and home surveillance.

    Beyond the headlines, we talk about dating advice, the most common jobs linked to cheating, Disney-style dating expectations, and how to build real compatibility. We also touch on topics like phone addiction, paying on dates, physical intimacy, and being intentional in relationships.

    To wrap up, we look at how inheritance is treated in divorce and the serious issue of coercive control and domestic violence.

    Timestamps:

    00:55 J Lo and Ben Affleck

    03:04 Brazilian divorce

    05:17 Spiritualism in Brazil

    07:20 Most likely occupations for cheaters

    09:30 Journalism and Social Media

    10:18 Dating Advice and Disney Dating

    12:12 Determining Compatibility

    13:25 Physical Intimacy in Relationships

    15:56 Being Intentional

    17:30 Playing Hard to Get

    17:35 Paying for Someone

    20:20 The Lost Art of Dating

    22:07 Sia's Divorce

    24:04 Coercive Control and Domestic Violence

    30:05 Divorce Case Involving a Spouse Watching Through CCTV Inside the House

    35:54 Inheritance and Marital Assets

    Episode Links:

    JLo and Ben Affleck Settlement: https://bit.ly/4nqBebo

    Lovesick Brazilians Turn to Sorcerers: https://bit.ly/3ZEYF6s

    Which Jobs Are Most Likely to Cheat: https://bit.ly/4kTYahs

    Old-School Dating Tips: https://bit.ly/3HL92zH

    Sia Files for Divorce: https://bit.ly/45s1StQ

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    38 mins
  • Dua Lipa Wedding Rumours Jessica Alba Divorce and What You Need to Know About Arbitration and Postnups | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 29
    Jun 13 2025

    This week we talk about the latest buzz around Dua Lipa’s possible wedding and Jessica Alba’s divorce. We get into what happens in high asset breakups, why marriage rates are shifting for college-educated women, and Bill Gates’ sudden media appearances. We also explain how divorce arbitration works, when it might be better than going to court, and what to know about buying a house or signing a postnup during a split.

    Timestamps:

    01:28 Dua Lipa's Wedding Speculation

    04:47 Jessica Alba's Divorce Update

    07:27 Complexities of High Asset Divorce

    08:55 Marriage Rates and Education

    09:58 Challenges for College Educated Women

    11:40 Bill Gates' Publicity Tour

    15:25 Divorce Arbitrations Overview

    16:32 Private Trial and Rules

    17:20 Retired Judges as Arbitrators

    17:52 History of Divorce Arbitration

    19:00 Issues with Cook County Court

    19:53 Advantages of Arbitration Over Court

    21:46 Appeals in Binding Arbitration

    23:18 Buying a House During Divorce

    26:00 Postnuptial Agreement for Assets

    27:40 Dividing Marital Debt

    30:58 Post-decree Modifications of Support

    Episode Links:

    Dua Lipa’s Engagement: https://bit.ly/4kAWBV1

    Marriage Gap for Women: https://bit.ly/43NILZN

    Jessica Alba’s Ex: https://bit.ly/4mXeCyX

    Bill Gates Reflects on Divorce: https://bit.ly/4e43Rqu

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    36 mins
  • Christina Hack, Lily Allen, David Harbour Divorce Stories and How the Legal Process Really Works | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 28
    Jun 6 2025

    In this episode, we dig into some high-profile divorces including Christina Hack’s legal battles, Lily Allen and David Harbour’s split, and what’s been said about Ellen’s daughters and prenups. We also look at how divorce is handled in North Korea compared to South Korea, and what’s changing in places like Indiana.

    From the early stages of marriage counselling to the discovery process, litigation, and final negotiations, we break down what really goes on during a divorce. You’ll hear a lawyer’s take on fairness, delays in the system, and how the marital estate is divided. We also cover recent legal trends, pro bono efforts, and a bestselling book on divorce that’s making waves.

    Timestamps:

    00:03:45 Marriage Counseling and Compatibility Test

    00:04:34 Divorce in North Korea vs. South Korea

    00:05:03 Christina Hack's Divorces and Court Drama

    00:08:21 Lily Allen and David Harbor's Divorce

    00:09:31 Ellen's Daughters & Prenup

    00:10:24 Indiana Divorce Bill

    00:11:25 Divorce Legislation Trend

    00:12:30 Discovery Process & Litigation

    00:23:54 Negotiating in Divorce Cases

    00:27:25 Lawyer's Perspective on Fairness

    00:31:44 Foot dragging in divorce cases

    00:34:04 Understanding the marital estate

    00:36:36 STG Divorce Law Firm

    00:39:02 Pro Bono Day and Webinar

    00:39:33 Best Selling Divorce Book

    00:40:41 Lost Episode

    Episode Links:

    Korean Divorce TV Show Phenomenon See WSJ Article. https://t.co/KsYHhTyvt4

    Christina Haack says estranged husband Josh Hall asked her for $3.5M amid divorce drama | Daily Mail Online

    Lily Allen and David Harbour - 4 years, Vegas Wedding Divorce https://www.wmagazine.com/culture/celebrity-breakups-divorce-2025

    Indiana Divorce Bill goes away. Bill aimed at making divorce difficult in Indiana has been withdrawn

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    44 mins
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