HOT WIDOWED MESS

By: Heather Gardner
  • Summary

  • Welcome to Hot Widowed Mess with your host, Heather! This podcast is dedicated to normalizing grief and embracing the wild ride of being a young widow. Join Heather as she explores the unfiltered realities of loss and healing, sprinkled with dark humor and candid discussions. She’ll shine a light on the unexpected challenges and experiences no one talks about, all while raising awareness about the importance of mental health during difficult times. Expect explicit content and raw honesty as we navigate this journey together. Let’s break the stigma and share our stories!


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Episodes
  • What You Don't Know About Ketamine Could Change Your Life
    Apr 21 2025

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    Stepping into the world of ketamine therapy isn't just about finding another treatment—it's about discovering possibility when hope seems lost. In this illuminating conversation with Tina from the Ketamine Clinic of Spokane, we peel back the layers of misconception surrounding this powerful therapeutic tool that's transforming mental health care.

    Ketamine has suffered from mischaracterization in popular culture, but as Tina explains, this medication has been on the World Health Organization's list of essential drugs since the 1960s. Far from its reputation as merely a "horse tranquilizer" or party drug, ketamine's carefully administered micro-doses are creating breakthroughs for patients with treatment-resistant depression, PTSD, and chronic pain conditions when nothing else has worked.

    What makes ketamine particularly remarkable for trauma processing is its unique ability to create a dissociative experience where patients can examine painful memories without the overwhelming physiological response that typically accompanies them. As host and patient Heather beautifully described it, viewing traumatic experiences "through a dirty window" creates the emotional distance needed for processing without being consumed by it. This effect silences the constant mental noise and self-critical thoughts that plague many sufferers, opening space for healing.

    The treatment protocol typically involves a series of six to eight initial infusions followed by personalized maintenance sessions, all in a carefully designed therapeutic environment with constant monitoring. While insurance coverage remains challenging, many patients find the investment worthwhile compared to years of ineffective medications and treatments that never quite reach the root of their suffering.

    Have you been struggling with treatment-resistant mental health conditions or chronic pain that conventional approaches haven't touched? The profound relief many patients experience suggests it might be worth exploring this option. Visit http://ketamineclinicofspokane.com/ to learn if this treatment might be right for you.


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    45 mins
  • The Messy Middle of Moving On
    Mar 24 2025

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    Laura and Heather bring together their individual podcasts "Welcome to the Wild" and "Hot Widowed Mess" for an unfiltered conversation about navigating relationships after significant life changes.

    • Communication is essential in relationships, especially during disagreements
    • Fighting fair means avoiding name-calling and focusing on the relationship, not just winning arguments
    • Past trauma can trigger worst-case scenario thinking in new relationships
    • Setting boundaries is necessary for protecting yourself while still being open to connection
    • Red flags in dating include love bombing, lack of reciprocity, and inability to respect personal space
    • Finding balance between giving chances and knowing when to walk away
    • The importance of maintaining your own identity and interests within relationships
    • Dating as parents creates unique challenges around timing and introducing children

    Life after loss or divorce doesn't follow a predictable path, but building resilience means taking relationships at your own pace and honoring your needs along the way.


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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • From Grief to Guidance: A Journey with Psychic Medium Tesa
    Mar 19 2025

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    In this compelling episode of Hot Widowed Mess, host Heather Gardner dives deep into the intriguing world of grief and healing with special guest Tesa, a certified psychic medium. Together, they explore the profound ways that psychic insights can guide you on your journey through grief and life’s challenges.

    Heather shares her personal experiences with Tesa, detailing how her gifts have made a significant impact on her own healing process. Tune in to hear how connecting with loved ones on the other side can offer comfort, clarity, and support during one of life’s toughest journeys.

    Whether you’re grappling with grief or just curious about the messages that can come from spirit, this episode offers valuable insights and perspectives. Join Heather and Tesa as they discuss the intersections of spirituality and emotional healing, proving that even in the depths of sorrow, there’s hope, guidance, and a path forward.

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    57 mins
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