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Exposing Deathcare

Exposing Deathcare

By: Your Host M
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Uncovering the Truth: Behind the Scenes of Exposing Deathcare

Welcome to Exposing Deathcare, a podcast created to shine a light on the hidden, often dark realities within the funeral industry. I'm Melissa Meadow, or as some of you may know me, The Modern Mortician. This podcast is a platform to expose unethical practices, harmful experiences, and shady dealings that have plagued grieving families, funeral staff, and the industry as a whole. By bringing these stories to light, Exposing Deathcare aims to push for transparency, support those affected by trauma, and encourage necessary reforms in the way deathcare operates.

Why This Podcast?

For years, I’ve worked behind and at the front of the scenes in the funeral industry, witnessing the good, the bad, and the shocking. Too often, families face unnecessary upsells, hidden fees, and sometimes outright manipulation when they’re at their most vulnerable.

Meanwhile, funeral professionals who truly want to help people are too often pressured by corporate greed or unsustainable business practices. This isn't just about exposing what’s broken – it’s about acknowledging the pain caused by these wrongs and fostering a deathcare environment that respects the dead and the living alike.

Through anonymous interviews, real-life stories from funeral directors and staff, and deep dives into specific issues, Exposing Deathcare tackles the taboo topics that don’t often make it into the public eye. From high-pressure sales tactics to the consequences of toxic workplace cultures, no topic is off-limits.

Join the Conversation

If you or someone you know has experienced unethical practices or painful situations within the funeral industry, consider sharing your story with Exposing Deathcare. Whether you’re a funeral director, a mortician, or someone who has dealt with a funeral home during a difficult time, your story matters. By speaking out, you can help bring accountability to the industry and protect others from facing similar experiences.

Submit your stories confidentially, and together, let’s work toward a world where deathcare is about compassion, dignity, and truth. Join the conversation by tuning into Exposing Deathcare, and if you have a story to tell, reach out to us. Let’s bring honesty back into deathcare.

Support the Podcast

If you find value in our podcast, please consider supporting us by following, liking, and sharing. Your support helps us continue to bring these important stories to light.,

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  • Email: exposingdeathcare@gmail.com
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Music Credits

Music for Exposing Deathcare podcast is Exit Strategy by Enlia.

Disclaimer

The stories shared in this podcast are based on personal experiences and are shared anonymously to protect the identities of those involved. Listener discretion is advised.

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Episodes
  • Why Funeral Professionals Are Leaving the Industry

    Why Funeral Professionals Are Leaving the Industry
    Jun 28 2025

    This episode of Exposing Deathcare, Melissa delves into the troubling culture within the funeral industry, highlighting issues such as burnout, harassment, and gatekeeping. The host shares personal stories and experiences from various professionals in the field, emphasizing the need for transparency and support. The conversation reveals the systemic problems that lead to professionals feeling isolated and powerless, and calls for a collective effort to address these issues and create a healthier work environment.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to the Crisis in Death Care

    02:26 The Culture of Silence and Fear

    04:34 Sexual Harassment in Funeral Homes

    07:44 Gatekeeping and Professional Development

    10:31 The Impact of Burnout and Retaliation

    13:11 Whistleblowing and Its Consequences

    15:25 Personal Experiences and Systemic Issues

    17:31 The Cost of Speaking Out

    19:51 Finding Support and Healing

    22:07 Conclusion: The Need for Change in the Industry

    Takeaways

    The funeral industry is facing a crisis of burnout and turnover.

    Many professionals feel afraid to speak out about their experiences.

    Sexual harassment is a significant issue in funeral homes.

    Gatekeeping prevents new professionals from gaining necessary skills.

    Whistleblowers often face retaliation and career-ending consequences.

    The culture of silence in the industry harms both workers and families.

    Support and mentorship are crucial for professional growth.

    Personal stories highlight the emotional toll of working in death care.

    The need for systemic change in the funeral industry is urgent.

    Speaking out is essential for healing and reform.

    Connect with Us

    Stay connected and follow us for updates, discussions, and more:

    • Tiktok: @exposingdeathcare
    • Instagram: @exposingdeathcare
    • Email: exposingdeathcare@gmail.com

    Share Your Story

    We encourage our listeners to share their own experiences. Your story could help shed light on issues within the funeral industry and support others who might be going through similar situations. You can share your story anonymously via email or dm.

    Support the Podcast

    If you find value in our podcast, please consider supporting us by following, liking, rating, and sharing. Your support helps us continue to bring these important stories to light.

    Music Credits

    Music for Exposing Deathcare podcast is Exit Strategy by Enlia.

    Disclaimer

    The stories shared in this podcast are based on personal experiences and are shared anonymously to protect the identities of those involved. Listener discretion is advised.

    Hosted by Melissa Meadow, the Modern Mortician
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    38 mins
  • Trust Issues in Pet Funeral Services with our Guest Lauren

    Trust Issues in Pet Funeral Services with our Guest Lauren
    Jun 25 2025

    In this episode of Exposing Death Care, host M. Melissa and guest Lauren Seeley discuss the troubling issues surrounding pet funeral services, including recent scandals that have eroded trust in the industry. They explore the Vareb Funeral Home scandal, where thousands of pet remains were improperly disposed of, and other notable cases that highlight the lack of oversight in pet cremation services. The conversation also delves into personal experiences in the pet funeral industry, offering insights on how pet parents can choose trustworthy services and protect themselves from scams.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Pet Funeral Scandals

    02:10 The Vareb Funeral Home Scandal

    11:53 Loving Care Pet Funeral Service Controversy

    16:49 We Care Pet Cremations: A Disturbing Case

    22:25 The Aftermath of Pet Loss

    23:59 Personal Experiences in Pet Funeral Services

    34:20 Lessons Learned from Trust and Betrayal

    43:02 Choosing a Trustworthy Pet Funeral Home

    44:59 Support for Grieving Pet Parents

    51:41 The Legal Recognition of Pets as Family

    53:36 The Emotional Impact of Pet Loss

    Connect with Us

    Stay connected and follow us for updates, discussions, and more:

    • Tiktok: @exposingdeathcare
    • Instagram: @exposingdeathcare
    • Email: exposingdeathcare@gmail.com

    Share Your Story

    We encourage our listeners to share their own experiences. Your story could help shed light on issues within the funeral industry and support others who might be going through similar situations. You can share your story anonymously via email or dm.

    Support the Podcast

    If you find value in our podcast, please consider supporting us by following, liking, rating, and sharing. Your support helps us continue to bring these important stories to light.

    Music Credits

    Music for Exposing Deathcare podcast is Exit Strategy by Enlia.

    Disclaimer

    The stories shared in this podcast are based on personal experiences and are shared anonymously to protect the identities of those involved. Listener discretion is advised.

    Hosted by Melissa Meadow, the Modern Mortician

    Takeaways

    The Vareb Funeral Home scandal involved the improper disposal of pet remains.

    Trust in pet funeral services has been eroded due to scandals.

    Pet parents should ask questions and seek transparency from funeral homes.

    Documentation and tracking of cremated remains are essential.

    Visiting the cremation facility can provide peace of mind.

    Pets are considered family, not property, in the eyes of grieving owners.

    There is a lack of regulation in the pet funeral industry.

    Personal experiences can inform better practices in pet care.

    Grieving pet parents deserve dignity and respect during their loss.

    Researching and asking for recommendations can help in choosing a service.
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    44 mins
  • Deep in the Heart of Texas Funeral Homes

    Deep in the Heart of Texas Funeral Homes
    Mar 26 2025

    Exposing Deathcare Season 2 Episode 2 with Our Guest K

    I’m Your Host M, and this is Exposing Deathcare.

    This episodes dives deep into the heart of Texas, and showcases the disparities between locations amongst familial owned firms.

    Connect with Us

    Stay connected and follow us for updates, discussions, and more:

    • Tiktok: @exposingdeathcare
    • Instagram: @exposingdeathcare
    • Email: exposingdeathcare@gmail.com

    Share Your Story

    We encourage our listeners to share their own experiences. Your story could help shed light on issues within the funeral industry and support others who might be going through similar situations. You can share your story anonymously via email or dm.

    Support the Podcast

    If you find value in our podcast, please consider supporting us by following, liking, rating, and sharing. Your support helps us continue to bring these important stories to light.

    Music Credits

    Music for Exposing Deathcare podcast is Exit Strategy by Enlia.

    Disclaimer

    The stories shared in this podcast are based on personal experiences and are shared anonymously to protect the identities of those involved. Listener discretion is advised.

    Hosted by Melissa Meadow, the Modern Mortician
    Show more Show less
    53 mins
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