Episodes

  • Bachelor In Paradise Ep 1 Recap - Ep 395
    Jul 8 2025
    Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://dupe.com/{insert product url} and instantly find less expensive alternatives for free! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping? 3:27 - Overall Thoughts 6:18 - Contestants 21:17 - Paradise Is Open 23:17 - Evening 25:07 - Jess & Spencer 25:59 - Day 2 29:10 - Dale 33:28 - Dale’s Date With Kat 35:19 - Back At Paradise 41:29 - Evening 47:10 - Sam’s Date With Jess 48:08 - Back At Paradise 49:04 - Day 3/Justin’s Date With Lexi 50:12 - Evening 50:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 54:39 - Rose Ceremony 58:06 - Preview 1:00:12 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 1:00:53 - Episode MVP 1:02:05 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Finale & Reunion - Ep 394
    Jul 3 2025
    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the second batch, aka episodes 8-9, plus the Reunion! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans! - Try Remi risk-free at https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY for up to 50% off your nightguard! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping 1:35 - AJ & Britney 7:31 - Bridget & Kyle 13:57 - Ashley & Marita 18:40 - Haley & Pilar 22:06 - Cocktail Party 28:27 - Haley & Pilar, Cont’d 29:58 - Haley & Magan Talk 34:24 - Dayna & Magan 42:55 - Dayna & Mel Talk 49:05 - Dayna & Magan, Cont’d 52:59 - Marie & Mel 57:10 - Reunion 57:54 - Reunion: AJ & Britney 1:01:36 - Reunion: Ashley & Marita 1:04:39 - Reunion: Marie & Mel 1:06:45 - Spotify Playlist 1:07:27 - The Definition Of Sex 1:11:38 - Reunion: Bridget & Kyle 1:11:48 - Reunion: Haley & Pilar 1:12:06 - Reunion: Dayna & Magan 1:14:35 - Shandy’s Season MVP 1:17:08 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 25 mins
  • The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 2 - Ep 393
    Jun 27 2025
    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-7, in two parts. This is Part 2 (Part 1 dropped yesterday)! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY for up to 40% off best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Continued From Part 1 - Trial Marriage: Haley & Magan 3:40 - Ultimatum Receivers “Party” 6:34 - Ultimatum Givers “Party” 12:37 - Marie Confronts Mel 16:45 - Mel Reports To Dayna 17:45 - Matching Tattoos 19:05 - Haley & Magan, Cont’d 21:22 - The Changeover 28:19 - Trial Marriage: Bridget & Kyle 29:13 - Trial Marriage: AJ & Britney 30:47 - Trial Marriage: Ashley & Marita 31:24 - Trial Marriage: Marie & Mel 32:53 - Trial Marriage: Haley & Pilar 35:28 - Trial Marriage: Dayna & Magan 44:32 - Who We Liked Best And Now Least/Vice Versa 46:13 - Shandy’s Predictions 48:47 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 1 - Ep 392
    Jun 26 2025
    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-7, in two parts. This is Part 1 (Part 2 drops tomorrow)! Thank you to our sponsors... Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping/Disclaimer 1:51 - Joanna Garcia Swisher 3:37 - The Couples’ Final Night/Morning 8:27 - Speed Dating 13:24 - Cocktail Party 14:22 - Magan Visits Dayna 15:47 - Dating Week 22:40 - The Choice 30:29 - Trial Marriage: Britney & Marita 33:03 - Trial Marriage: Ashley & Bridget 36:37 - Trial Marriage: Kyle & Pilar 51:25 - Trial Marriage: AJ & Marie 59:07 - Trial Marriage: Dayna & Mel 1:06:58 - To Be Continued… Part 2 Drops Tomorrow! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • Q&A! His Bad Oral Hygiene 💀 & How To De-Friend Your Hinge Date - Ep 391
    Jun 19 2025
    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it socially acceptable to send your friends and family a gift registry to celebrate your law school commencement? If you promised an old friend you'd dedicate your novel to her, is it OK to change your mind? If you became platonic friends with a Hinge date, is it acceptable to want to de-escalate that friendship, and how should you go about it? Finally, what to do when you love your man but NOT his poor oral hygiene?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping & a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:40 - Q1: I’d Like To Celebrate My Law School Graduation With A Gift Registry—Thoughts? 19:55 - Q2: I Promised A Friend I’d Dedicate My Book To Her But I’ve Changed My Mind—Help! 28:20 - Q3: How Do I Drop My Hinge-Date-Turned-Friend? 39:36 - Q4: I Love Him But Not His Poor Oral Hygiene—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Caller 📞 Sessions! "I'm In Love With My Married Business Partner!" - Ep 390
    Jun 12 2025
    It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Natalie is in the deep depths of heartbreak after the guy she thought was her future abruptly ended things. Because his reasons were logistics-based, would she be foolish to wait for him? Our second caller, Carlie, has a thriving business but is haunted by her secret feelings for her married business partner. Are these feelings something she should act on, or is there a way to manage or overcome them? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off your annual membership! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY to take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Natalie! 20:41 - Shandy Debrief 23:46 - Welcome To Caller Carlie! 55:01 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Q&A! Her Eyelashes Are Distracting & Whether Or Not To BLOW His Cover - Ep 389
    Jun 5 2025
    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you learn you were "cuttable" from the guest list, should you still bother going to the wedding? If you're engaged but not actually sure about marriage, is that your gut talking or typical wedding cold feet? If you know for a fact that your friend's fiancé has a habit with the "White Lady", do you tell the friend? And your platonic friend is wonderful but her eyelash extensions are holding her back—do you tell her, and if so, how?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off any annual membership! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Q1: I Was “Cuttable” From The Guest List; Should I Still Go? 5:03 - Q2: I Wasn’t Invited To A Wedding & Have Never Felt So Excluded—Help! 17:33 - Q3: My Gut Is Telling Me I Can’t Marry Him, But… 27:25 - Q4: Should I BLOW The Whistle On My Friend’s Fiancé’s Extracurricular Activity Of Choice? 46:31 - Q5: My Friend’s Eyelash Extensions Are Over The Top—How Do I Tell Her? Referenced Bachelorette Recap (about natural nails): https://youtu.be/YjNpLxsRqh4?si=x8vMnHKlxLvIBH4E If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 18 mins
  • Caller 📞 Sessions! "He Can't Be Alone—Is This A Red Flag?" - Ep 388
    May 29 2025
    It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Emily who has been in a casual long distance situationship with a guy who claims he needs to be single. However, his dating app activity says otherwise and his actions seem to show he really cares. She's caught real feelings... should she see where this "fling" goes, or is this guy a giant red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily! 36:57 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    48 mins