You can learn all the craft techniques in the world, but without the right mindset, writing can start to feel like a battle you never win. In this episode of Daggers & Daydreams, we’re diving deep into what we believe is the most underrated but essential part of the writing life: mindset.

Whether you’re working on your first book or just beginning to call yourself a writer, this episode explores how your inner world shapes your creative process far more than word count goals or plot outlines ever could.

We answer 13 honest and vulnerable questions about writing mindset, covering everything from fear of failure to imposter syndrome, creative blocks, limiting beliefs, procrastination, perfectionism, and what it really means to move from amateur to professional (no matter where you are in your publishing journey).

We also share the personal rituals and mental shifts that help us stay resilient, creative, and committed to the work, even on the hard days.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: Why mindset is the foundation of writing success

02:19 – Our mindset journeys, what’s changed and what’s still a work in progress

10:43 – Defining a healthy writing mindset

13:29 – How mindset helped, or hurt, our writing

16:24 – Common limiting beliefs and how to challenge them

18:40 – Resistance, rejection, and reframing fear

28:47 – The power of rituals, routines, and energy management

34:56 – Coaching yourself through tough writing days

39:43 – Celebrating small wins and cultivating long-term motivation

44:16 – What it really means to think like a professional

47:21 – One mindset principle we swear by

50:32 – Outro: The role of coaching in your mindset journey

Keywords: beginner writing, writing advice, writing mindset, creative blocks, debut authors, self-belief, motivation, imposter syndrome, writing rituals, mental resilience, writing growth

Writing is hard—but it doesn’t have to be lonely. This episode is a reminder that you’re not the only one struggling—and that with the right mindset, you can keep showing up for your stories, even when doubt creeps in.

Book References:

Grit - Angela Duckworth

Atomic habits - James Clear

The War of Art - Steven Pressfield

Peak - Robert Pool and Andre Ericsson

In this episode of Daggers & Daydreams, we’re pulling back the curtain on how we each found our way into indie publishing, and why that journey looked completely different for both of us.

While we’ve both chosen the independent publishing path, one of us made that decision intentionally, while the other fell into it more organically. We’re not here to compare or debate which is “better.” Instead, we’re sharing what our real publishing journeys looked like. The messy bits, the mindset shifts, and the lessons that shaped who we are as authors today.

If you’re standing at the start of your own publishing path and wondering, Should I go indie? Try trad? Do I need to know yet? This conversation is for you.

We talk about the emotional rollercoaster of releasing our first books, the surprises (good and bad), and how our definition of success has evolved. Plus: the behind-the-scenes on marketing, timelines, creative control, and the business side of being your own publisher.

Timestamps:
00:21 – Intro: Two indie authors, two very different journeys

What we hoped for, feared, and felt before releasing book one

16:22 - The Pros and Cons of Indie and Traditional publishing
27:26 - What we've learnt from Indie Publishing, key takeaways

37:09 – Creative vision vs. business mindset—what shaped our approach

44:28 - How indie publishing shaped our careers and confidence
46:22 - Where we stand now
47:14 - What we wish we’d known and what we’re proud of

48:06 - Mindset shifts

50:25 - Things we wanted to know before we started our publishing journey

51:28 - Outro

Keywords: beginner writing, writing advice, debut authors, indie publishing, traditional publishing, self-publishing, book launch tips, creative process, publishing journey, women writers

Whether you’re planning your publishing path or still figuring out what your first step looks like, this episode offers a grounded, honest look at how your writing dreams can take shape in unexpected ways. There’s no one right road—just your road.

In this episode of Daggers & Daydreams, we’re diving into one of the most emotional and transformative parts of the writing process: feedback. Whether it’s coming from a critique partner, beta reader, or editor—feedback can shape your story, sharpen your craft, and sometimes knock your confidence sideways.

We’re sharing our own experiences with feedback—the best advice that changed everything, the poorly worded notes that derailed us, and what we’ve learned about both giving and receiving critique with honesty and care.

We also explore the emotional side of feedback: how to brace yourself before reading a critique, how to tell the difference between constructive and harmful input, and why learning to give feedback is just as powerful for your growth as receiving it.

If you’ve ever sat there blinking at a comment on your manuscript wondering, Is it too late to quit this whole writing thing?—this one’s for you.

Timestamps:
00:18 – Intro: Why feedback matters
01:00 – Part One: When and why to ask for feedback
07:29 – Solicited vs. unsolicited feedback (and how to tell the difference)
11:30 – How giving critique sharpens your own writing
13:43 – The best feedback we’ve ever received—and why it worked
20:55 – Part Two: How to give feedback without panicking
21:06 – A look at Radical Candour and learning to be honest and kind
22:36 – Preparing to give feedback (and not be a jerk)
31:17 – Our best and worst experiences giving critique
33:12 – Part Three: Receiving feedback without spiralling
33:35 – Prepping yourself emotionally
33:58 – What to do with tough or confusing comments
40:00 – Dealing with reviews and protecting your mindset
43:02 – Outro: Why feedback is worth it—and how to grow from it

Keywords: beginner writing, writing advice, feedback for writers, debut authors, critique partners, editing tips, writer mindset, creative process, writing community, giving feedback

We know feedback can be hard—but we also know it can be one of the most powerful tools in your writing toolkit. This episode is full of honest stories, practical tips, and reminders that you’re not alone.

Got a feedback horror story or golden nugget of advice? DM us on Instagram—we might feature it in a future episode!

Affiliate Links:

Kim Scott - Radical Candor

Stephen King - On Writing

In this special episode of Daggers & Daydreams, we’re joined by fantasy author Danielle Lauren—the creative force behind Spiritchild, Earthchild, and the Fates of Aos series. Known for her incredible worldbuilding and stories full of magic, heart, and elemental balance, Danielle has carved out a space in indie fantasy that’s all her own.

We talk to Danielle about her writing journey—from the first story that sparked something real to the moment she left her job to become a full-time author. This episode dives deep into what it’s actually like to build a writing career from the ground up, with all the beauty, uncertainty, and bold decisions that come with it.

Whether you’re drafting your first novel, dreaming of indie publishing, or simply want to hear from someone who's made the leap, this episode is full of honest insights and inspiring takeaways from one debut author turned full-time storyteller.

Timestamps:00:00 – Intro: Meet Danielle Lauren3:24 – Part 1: Discovering storytelling and developing a creative process10:16 – Spiritchild’s origin story and writing a duology16:05 – Leaving a day job to pursue writing full-time18:39 – Part 2: Indie publishing decisions and surprises23:59 – What changed between Danielle’s debut and later books31:24 – Lessons in book marketing and building a readership32:46 – Part 3: Character dinners, screen adaptations, and unexpected feedback38:44 – Advice Danielle would give her pre-publication self40:12 – Outro: Final thoughts and where to find Danielle online

Keywords: beginner writing, debut authors, writing advice, indie publishing, full-time writer, fantasy books, author interview, self-publishing tips, writing motivation, books

If you’re looking for inspiration from someone who’s done the scary, brave thing of turning a story into a career, this conversation is for you. And if you’ve got a question you’d love us to ask future authors, send us a DM on Instagram—we’d love to include your voice in this series.

In this episode of Daggers & Daydreams, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of the most intimidating parts of the writing process: editing.

When we first started out, we didn’t know what editing meant. We thought it was fixing typos and grammar—but we quickly learned it’s much more than that. From facing tough feedback for the first time to learning how to restructure entire plots, editing has been one of the most challenging (and most rewarding) parts of writing books.

We’re sharing our early editing experiences—the overwhelm, the trial-and-error, the feedback that nearly broke us—and how we eventually found what works. We talk about how our approach has evolved over time, what resources helped us, and how editing has become something we no longer dread (most of the time).

If you’re just starting to revise your first draft or wondering what editing really looks like behind the scenes, this episode is for you. Think of it as the editing chat we wish we’d had when we were starting out.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: What we used to think editing meant01:05 – Part One: Editing as beginners—our first big edits and feedback moments02:22 – What are the different phases of editing03:58 – What totally threw us, and what surprised us16:34 – Part Two: Where we learned how to edit

16:47 – Books, podcasts, and peers that helped21:44 – The feedback that changed everything (in a good way)

23:05 - Lessons learnt working with beta readers26:05 – Part Three: What our editing process looks like now29:36 – Tools, habits, and how we tackle messy drafts31:11 – Outro: Advice to our past selves, and how we stay open to learning

Keywords: editing for beginner writers, revision tips, writing advice, debut authors, how to edit a book, editing feedback, writing motivation, women writers

If you’re revising your first book—or bracing yourself for feedback—this episode is full of real talk and lessons learned. Have questions or stories to share? Send us a DM on Instagram. We’d love to include your voice in our Q&A later this season.

Welcome to Season Two of Daggers & Daydreams — in this episode, we’re going back to the beginning and talking about what it really looked like for us when we started writing.

We know how overwhelming it can feel when you’re trying to write a book for the first time. Plot, character, word count, structure—there’s a lot to juggle, and it’s easy to feel stuck before you’ve even begun. We’re sharing how we approached those early stages, how we shaped our first projects, and the tools we leaned on to keep going.

We also talk about some of the bigger questions that come up: How do you balance what you want to write with what sells? Would we ever change something in a book to make it more marketable? And how has our process shifted as we’ve gained more experience?

This episode is all about our honest, behind-the-scenes experience. We hope it helps you feel less alone and more confident as you take those first steps.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome to Season Two

01:18 – Where we started as writers

03:51 – Deciding on structure and length

09.47 – How we approach new projects

14:20 – The tools that help us keep writing

18:54 – What holds us back—and how we move forward

20:57 – Balancing creativity and market expectations

24:38 – How our process has evolved

26:00 – Early writing advice we wish we’d had

27:12 – Outro: Final thoughts and next episode preview

Keywords: beginner writing, writing advice, debut authors, how to start writing a book, writing motivation, creative process, women writers

Have a question you want us to answer in our Q&A episode? Send us a DM on Instagram—we’d love to hear from you @shwriterstudio

Sophie and Helen have talked about their writing processes, their books, publishing and so much more but today they're going to delve into more unorthodox questions.

Some you’ve probably never considered, but would love to know the answer too, like what’s in their internet search history, scenes they've deleted, or describing their writing like a cooking show.