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Hey my Wreckage Clearers! in this episode we discuss how comfort keeps up stuck. It keeps us bound to the same level of life. The same routine. The same behaviors. The familiar. The known. We all have vices and or something we escape toward to bring us comfort. It could be food, sex, drugs, alcohol, or it could be our default behaviors. Such as yelling, screaming, shutting down when we are triggered. These certain behaviors give us a sense of comfort. But what if we became too comfortable? Even in darkness our eyes can adjust. Are we becoming to comfortable in the darkness? Well I explain to you how in the uncomfortable is how I was finally able to see light and look within and began to clear the wreckage. In that darkness and in that discomfort somehow It became familiar and I became comfortable with the darkness. It wasn't until it all became really uncomfortable, that there was a chance for change and a glimmer of hope. Maybe it is time for us to realize that the discomfort is there to help us evolve and grow and produce wings and turn into a butterfly.

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Hey My Wreckage Clearers! In this episode we discuss how darkness has now fully enclosed around me. I am now in my cocoon and I am afraid of the dark. I don't know why this is happening. I don't understand and because I don't understand, I must escape. However, you cannot escape the darkness. Every where I turned it was more darkness, there was no light. You cannot escape this type of darkness, by trying to escape it all I did was prolong the stages of darkness. I also share with you how because of the pain and the hurt I was feeling it was too much to take. Have you ever felt that way? Where you just cannot take the pain or the feelings of heart break or hurt or even disappointment or abandonment or even death. You are so used to the familiar that this unknown is way too scary for you to experience. This is what I was going through at that time in my life. I encourage you to clear the wreckage and do not prolong the stages of darkness.

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Hey my Wreckage Clearers!! It has been a journey hasn't it. Well, it's time to go into the dark places where you and I do not want to go. It is total darkness and we can't see and it feels like complete desolation and doom. However, the darkness has to invade so that there will be light. Eventually we must and we will if we allow the process to take place without interrupting, come to light. I am sharing this episode with you so that you know exactly what not to do. When the darkness is closing in, stay in it and trust the process. Know that there is a good reason for everything to be dark around you. It has become dark so that light will invade your heart. The problem is, we just don't know when. Instead, we disrupt the growth process and take matters into our own hands. I openly disclose what happened during that time in my life, in hope that you will not repeat the same cycle. Hoping you will learn from my mistakes in this one. However, later on down the line, you may come to know that the darkness was necessary, right now it may be a little hard to see. Well yeah!! Cause it's dark!! Lol!

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Hey my wreckage clearers! Yes, we have anther great episode on our identity. Which could feel like there is a crisis going on when we cover ourselves with this constructed identity. I am here to share with you how from the very moment we were born, our identity is being constructed. The only issue is that it is being formed by others. However, the beauty in this is that it is needed to be formed by others. Simply because there is no way that when you are born that you know who you are, neither do you even know anything at all. You have to be taught things. These things that we are taught help us to create what I like to call "ego structure." Stay with me on this journey as we clear the wreckage in order to grow and evolve into our true identity, our true self.

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Hey My wreckage clearers! In this episode we discuss and dive a little deeper into the my old identity. We talk more about the pain and the pursuit of perfection. I also share with you more details of how I was really feeling at that time when I was grieving myself. I truly was dying and it was meant for me to die. Not a physical death but a mental and emotional death so that I can become spirit. Which is who we truly are but some of us just don't know it yet and we may have to go through some darkness and some pain in order to be reborn. This is the story that you don't want to miss.

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Hey my wreckage clearers! What's up? We got a great episode today where we will discuss the feelings of sorrow and how being abandoned at an early age left a lot of wreckage. Trauma and wounds that I am still to this day healing from and growing. I share with you where these feelings stem from and how it affected my identity later in life. This conversation is gonna be raw, rugged, and transparent as usual. I felt so alone and heart broken once my fiancee left me. Just so happen that my identity was wrapped up in her so much that I felt like I lost a piece of me. Have you ever felt that way? Have you ever felt alone and sad or sorrowful? Have you ever been depressed? have you ever felt so alone that you thought that everyone always leaves? Well, I have and I'm here to share my story with you. I am also here to share how I have cleared the wreckage and am still clearing it. If you want to know how and if you want to know that you are not alone, then this is your episode right here.

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What's up my peeps? In this episode I share with you the process of grief. However, what you may come to find out is that I was truthfully grieving my old identity. My old false self had to come to an end and with that, it is a process. My identity started forming, well in my formative years. Maybe that's why they call it that? I believe that to be true and I lived a life being who everyone else wanted me to be. Have you lived a life like this? Have you felt guilt or shame? Have you felt these emotions more often than not when you felt that you couldn't live up to the standards projected upon you? Do you live a fear based life? Do you walk around pleasing other people? Just as long as they're happy, then you are and you feel good about who you are. I wonder if you are like me? If so, then it is time to clear the wreckage so that we can began the process of death and we can grieve and then ultimately be reborn. Walk with me as I share with you why I had to let go and how you can as well.

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Hey my wreckage clearers! This episode was really hard to do and to be honest I was afraid to share it with you all. However, we must continue to clear the wreckage, therefore I acknowledged that I was in fear and afraid of what you may think of me. Then I admitted that to myself and decided to not allow fear to define my self worth. Yes, this episode is titled weirdly for a reason just trust me. We are going to talk about how I discovered that was completely codependent. I will share with you about the relationship I was in that was psychologically abusive on both parties involved. This is a story that I must share and I had to take you back a little in time for you to understand me just a little bit more. We get real, vulnerable, and downright honest in this episode. It is a rollercoaster full of ups and downs so get ready for this crazy, but yet exciting story as I discovered how codependent I really was.