After hearing about TJ’s previous experience at OTL (Oriented to Love), I, David, felt prompted to fly to the city of brotherly love and experience this dialogue retreat himself. God did more than I could have asked for or imagined in this sacred weekend in conversation with other Christians from diverse perspectives and backgrounds, with purposeful differences across the Side A (progressive views on faith and sexuality) and Side B (historic views on faith and sexuality) divide.

I was joined by two other friends from the retreat, Andrew Gordon and Cathie McCoy, who also share Side B perspectives, to share about their meaningful experiences connecting on deep topics of the heart. In order to bring out the most organic of connections, we were led through an intentionally structured 44 hours together in spiritual exercises and vulnerable dialogue.

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★ Timestamps

(00:00) Introduction to the Bonus Episode

(02:35) Meet the Guests: Andrew and Cathie

(07:27) Preparing for the Dialogue

(11:56) Anticipations and Expectations

(17:09) The OTL Experience: Setting the Stage

(21:54) Engaging in Dialogue Across Differences in Theology

(32:31) The Power of Authentic Connections in Moments of Vulnerability

(35:12) Navigating Theological and Ethical Differences in Safe and Humble Spaces

(39:30) The Role of the Holy Spirit in Personal Growth

(44:52) Balancing Individuality and Community

(01:00:13) The Importance of Vulnerability and Being Seen

(01:06:54) Final Thoughts and Recommendations

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★ Links and References

* “Oriented to Love”: https://christiansforsocialaction.org/programs/oriented-to-love/