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Why You Matter and How to Deal with It
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Rachel Jankovic
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Rachel Jankovic
About this listen
If "Who am I?" is the question you're asking, Rachel Jankovic doesn't want you to "find yourself" or "follow your heart". Those lies are nothing to the confidence, freedom, and clarity of purpose that come with knowing what is actually essential about you. And the answer to that question is at once less and more than what you are hoping for.
Christians love the idea that self-expression is the essence of a beautiful person, but that's a lie, too. With trademark humor and no-nonsense practicality, Rachel Jankovic explains the fake story of the self, starting with the inventions of a supremely ugly man named Sartre (rhymes with "blart"). And we - men and women, young and old - have bought his lie of the best self, with terrible results.
Thankfully, that's not the end of our story; You Who: Why You Matter and How to Deal with It takes the identity question into the nitty-gritty details of everyday life. Here's the first clue: Stop looking inside, and start planting flags of everyday faithfulness. In Christianity, the self is always a tool and never a destination.
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- Redheath
- 04-03-19
listen and listen again
buy it! so challenging and helpful for battling the me first mindset that people buy into
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- Lana
- 05-11-19
balm to my weary momma soul
Thankful for this - though tough to swallow at times...& the occasional sarcasm wasn’t my fav- but I *can not* recommend it enough to women.
Especially mommas of little ones who feel they are drowning from the needs of everyone around them and are struggling with ‘self care’. Buy it! and listen to the audio book while you do the dishes :)
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- Angela Hangartner
- 05-13-19
Love the book!
I was so encouraged by this book. It has also made me think more and evaluate the messages the world tries to tell us. Thank you for writing this book, Rachel!
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- N.A.
- 07-23-19
read it
life changing. a much needed grab by the shoulders. want all my girls to get this!
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- BRYAN J EVANS
- 02-20-20
Fantastic much needed message
I loved this book! Our culture today is telling us: be yourself, no one else matters!
Rachel provides a wonderful answer to this!
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- Joanna H Smith
- 06-14-19
Game changer
This book flies in the face of the current false gospel of women’s empowerment. It’s badly needed in this time of ‘You.’ May God bless Rachel Jankovic for this book-
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- Juanita Sahakian
- 05-11-19
Check your heart
This book is outstanding and so well needed in the world today. Rachel reminds us of our real purpose as Christian Women. Really enjoyed it now going to the store to purchase the book.
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- Anonymous User
- 05-29-21
A lifeline from God in this whirlpool world.
LOved all of it!!!
All the glory to our Almighty God!!
Love you Rachel!! Jaleen
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- L.W.
- 06-09-21
"Hard" but incredibly crucial read for all women
The frank, truth filled words in this book we're almost shocking in hr most refreshing way possible. Thank you, thank you, thank you, Rachel!
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- B&L Leggott
- 12-09-19
life-changing
this book was so good the only thing that took me longer to read it was going back over chapters again and again.
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