
Women Who Win at Love
How to Build a Relationship That Lasts
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In her trademark "tell-it-like-it-is" style comes a bold new book from relationship coach Suzanne Venker, who blames feminists for destroying the relationship between the sexes by insisting men and women become "equal", as in the same. Suzanne and her coauthor John M. Townsend, PhD, free women from the equality meme and embolden them to embrace the way men and women are naturally wired.
Do you ever wish courtship would return so you could go out on a real date? Do you feel like your professional life is in order, but your love life is a mess? Did you find a husband only to discover later that marriage is just too damn hard?
Women who win at love don't have a gift you don't have. What makes them unique, explain Suzanne Venker and John M. Townsend, PhD, is that they aren't at war with the men in their lives. Rather than take a competitive approach to relationships, as the culture teaches, they accept that men are men and that women are women. And that makes all the difference.
Whether you're still single and mapping out your life, or you're divorced or unhappily married, Women Who Win at Love will permanently alter the way you view men and marriage, thus leading to your success in love.
©2019 Suzanne Venker and John M. Townsend, PhD (P)2020 TantorListeners also enjoyed...
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- Emily Tate
- 10-14-20
Wonderful book full of wisdom
This is a wonderful book for anyone, but it’s especially great for women of any age trying to figure out what is going on with and how to handle men. I love listening to Suzanne’s podcast, where one can find more information about this topic, but this book also gave me other pieces of information, like why NOT to have a big, expensive wedding many girls dream of now. I want to have a long lasting marriage, and this book is an excellent foundation to start understanding men, challenging and changing your mindset from “woke” culture and society, and a collection of age-old wisdom that WORKS for both men and women.
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- Jessica
- 05-11-24
Great conservative relationship how to book for marriage minded women
Wish I had this book when I was younger. It offers a conservative classic approach to relationships with an emphasis on male/female roles and dynamics in relationships.
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- Sjoseph021980
- 12-13-22
Loved it!
Great book that all woman should ready in their early 20’s. Wish I would have read sooner!
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- Faheem Lea
- 07-27-23
Hella gems and jewels!
If women really do want to win at love, then this book should be part of the game plan. There are so many wisdoms in this book, and women just need to take a moment to listen to (or read) them, and put a lot of the modern conditioning that they’ve received about love and relationships on hold for a minute, and consider getting back to the old fashioned model of feminine energy that excites and motivates a man. Men need to listen to this too…as a man and husband, I approve this message!
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- Britany
- 03-02-23
A must!!
Definitely enjoyed listening to this book, great advices. Recommended this book to many of my friends!
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- DAVE
- 12-28-20
great book
super bright books more understanding men women relationship and marriage. great book for understanding the wrong narrative a feminist.
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- Erin Volentine
- 05-08-22
Every woman needs this information
Every woman needs this information to learn how to create a lasting and fulfilling relationship.
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- Marcus
- 01-05-22
The truth the world doesn't want to hear
I enjoyed listening and found it to be timely and accurate. Many would necessitate a brain warp to come to an understanding of what's spoken in this book.
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- Jenn
- 09-05-24
This book is conservative propaganda
It may be because I am a queer woman, but I noticed 90% of this book is very traditional-male-positive. The author actually says the words "feminist fairy tail," "gender propaganda," etc. This book speaks down on the metoo movement, saying that it was detrimental to men and women. This book also says that women have been conditioned to resent men, but men are actually awesome. This is definitely not a book for an educated, or forward-thinking human.
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- Bethanie
- 07-13-23
Offensive and angry
Not only are you slapped for needing advice, you also learn that Weinstein was innocent some women lied because he didn’t love them! The advice: don’t have sex until your married. Lol
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