
Why Do I Do What I Don't Want to Do?
Replace Deadly Vices with Life-Giving Virtues
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Jonathan "JP" Pokluda
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We live in an upside-down culture. We wink at our vices as coping strategies while restricting our virtues to our online personas, where they won't interfere with our real lives. And we wonder why we feel empty, exhausted, and directionless. But why do we do things that we know are harmful for us?
Jonathan "JP" Pokluda wants you to know there's a better, more fulfilling way to live, and it doesn't involve looking inside yourself for the answers—because that's not where you'll find them. With his signature wit and wisdom, he explains, unpacks, and expands on the age-old virtues we're told to pursue in Scripture: humility, forgiveness, generosity, diligence, self-control, authenticity, rest, and optimism. Far from being restrictive, these God-given goals for living free us to love and live as we wish we would.
Practicing virtues is not just something you do—it's something done in you, slowly but surely transforming you into the person you were meant to be all along. Whether you're eighteen or eighty, it's never too late to redefine what's important to you and reclaim a life of virtue.
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- Narrated by: Wes Bleed
- Length: 7 hrs and 10 mins
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The most important conversation you'll have. Why do so many of our conversations with one another lead to misunderstanding and hurt feelings? Brady Boyd turns to the example of Jesus Christ to show that the health of our conversations can be only as vibrant as the health of our interactions with God. As Proverbs says, "The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing" (Proverbs 12:18 niv).
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Wonderful book, so much wisdom
- By R. Smith on 01-16-24
By: Brady Boyd
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I Know What to Do So Why Don't I Do It? (Second Edition)
- Mind Your Emotions to End Procrastination and Achieve All Your Goals
- By: Nick Hall PhD
- Narrated by: Dan Strutzel
- Length: 6 hrs and 24 mins
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Life becomes complicated when you realize that the motivation to start or delay a task is a tug-of-war between positive and negative emotions. Don’t blame lack of willpower, laziness, or low motivation if you aren’t achieving your goals. Motivation is not a skill. Like a muscle, it’s subject to fatigue when stretched. That’s why fascinating research in the field of psychoneuroimmunology has revealed another reason you may feel paralyzed to take action—one with the potential to dramatically transform your life.
By: Nick Hall PhD
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The Love Everybody Wants
- What You're Looking for Is Already Yours
- By: Madison Prewett Troutt, Audrey Roloff - foreword
- Narrated by: Madison Prewett Troutt
- Length: 5 hrs and 39 mins
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Is there something wrong with me? How many more wrong ones until the right one? Am I hard to love? Madison Prewett Troutt knows what it’s like to ask these questions in the middle of the night—to doubt and worry about never finding the love so desperately hoped for. But Madi has discovered a deeper truth now, that the love we’re searching for is already ours. In The Love Everybody Wants, Madi sets aside the shallow messages our culture shouts every day to help us hear God’s beautiful whisper: I have loved you with an everlasting love. And nothing will ever change that.
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Great Christian Insight About Love
- By Amanda Einink on 02-21-24
By: Madison Prewett Troutt, and others
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The Cost of Control
- Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises
- By: Sharon Hodde Miller
- Narrated by: Rosemary Benson
- Length: 6 hrs and 52 mins
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We all wish we had more control. When our relationships are strained, when our bodies refuse to cooperate, when the future is uncertain, control promises security and peace. If only I were in charge, we dream. And this illusion seems more attainable than ever. Technology, science, medicine, and the internet all promise us ever-increasing mastery over our world. The problem is, control is a "devil's deal." The more we seek it, the more it betrays us. In place of predictability, it gives us anxiety. In place of certainty, it creates more complexity.
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Convicting, Helpful, Clear
- By 26letterimaginationblog on 08-20-22
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Welcoming the Future Church
- How to Reach, Teach, and Engage Young Adults
- By: Jonathan Pokluda, Luke Friesen - contributor
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 4 hrs and 47 mins
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If you're not reaching the future of the church, your church has no future. As much sting as that statement has, it's hard to argue with. Yet many churches have no idea how to attract and retain younger generations. If you want to understand how to reach, teach, and empower young adults in your church, Jonathan "JP" Pokluda is ready to show you how.
By: Jonathan Pokluda, and others
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Think Ahead
- 7 Decisions You Can Make Today for the God-Honoring Life You Want Tomorrow
- By: Craig Groeschel
- Narrated by: Craig Groeschel
- Length: 8 hrs and 10 mins
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What if we actually have the ability to break free from the pitfalls of impulsive decisions and develop positive, godly habits? What if becoming the person you want to be starts now, before you make a decision? Craig Groeschel—author of Winning the War in Your Mind—will empower you to put into action seven life-defining pre-decisions that will help you overcome the daily temptations, distractions, and influences that constantly bombard us.
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Impactful and Empowering Guide for a God-Honoring Life and Decision-Making
- By Anthony Hessler on 02-21-24
By: Craig Groeschel
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Love Does
- Discover a Secretly Incredible Life in an Ordinary World
- By: Bob Goff
- Narrated by: Bob Goff
- Length: 5 hrs and 36 mins
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Can a simple concept shift your entire world? Bob certainly thinks so. When it comes to loving your neighbors, instead of focusing on having the “right answers” or checking the “right boxes”, what if you decide to simply do love? To shamelessly show love and grace to those around you—what would that look like? Not the kind of love that stops at thoughts and feelings, Bob's love takes action. Bob believes Love Does.
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One of the most amazing books I have ever read!
- By J. Guy Muse on 03-11-14
By: Bob Goff
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Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools
- An Invitation to the Wonder and Mystery of Prayer
- By: Tyler Staton, Tim Mackie - foreword
- Narrated by: Tyler Staton, Tim Mackie
- Length: 8 hrs and 3 mins
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Prayer is the source of Jesus's most astonishing miracles and the subject of Jesus's most audacious promises, and yet, people find prayer to be boring, obligatory, or confusing. Join Tyler Staton, author, pastor, and national director of the 24/7 Prayer movement, as he invites you to discover the incredible gift of prayer.
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Vital enrichment to go higher up and deeper in.
- By D.W. Ross on 06-28-23
By: Tyler Staton, and others
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Live in Grace, Walk in Love
- A 365-Day Journey (A 365-Day Devotional)
- By: Bob Goff
- Narrated by: Bob Goff, Michael Beck
- Length: 14 hrs and 35 mins
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Beloved and best-selling author Bob Goff provides you with a year's worth of inspiring, unexpected, thought-provoking teaching that will prepare you for the day ahead.
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Not read by Bob Goff :(
- By Jamie J on 10-18-19
By: Bob Goff
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Tired of Trying
- How to Hold On to God When You’re Frustrated, Fed Up, and Feeling Forgotten
- By: Ashley Morgan Jackson
- Narrated by: Ashley Morgan Jackson
- Length: 5 hrs and 28 mins
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You’ve tried it all―saying the right words and prayers, reading the right Bible verses―but nothing seems to work. What do you do when your faith doesn’t seem to be “working” anymore? Ashley Morgan Jackson is no stranger to this kind of spiritual exhaustion and discouragement. Much like the biblical character Jacob, Ashley wrestled with God, trying desperately to keep trusting Him despite her pain. It was here she found that sometimes God requires us to hold on to Him so we can let go of everything holding us back.
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This book was amazing
- By april maxie on 01-02-25
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Don't Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table
- It's Time to Win the Battle of Your Mind...
- By: Louie Giglio
- Narrated by: Louie Giglio
- Length: 7 hrs and 32 mins
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The Enemy is constantly seeking to fill your mind with destructive and harmful thoughts - whether of fear, worry, insecurity, anxiety, temptation, envy.... It’s all too easy for Satan to manipulate his way into a seat at the table intended for only you and Jesus, and to try making himself at home in your mind. It’s an ongoing battle, but one you can win! Best-selling author and pastor Louie Giglio shares practical ways to overcome the Enemy’s lies and instead find peace and security in any challenging circumstance or situation.
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amazing!!!
- By Anonymous User on 05-21-21
By: Louie Giglio
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The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness
- The Path to True Christian Joy
- By: Timothy Keller
- Narrated by: Neil Gardner
- Length: 54 mins
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In an age where pleasing people, puffing up your ego and building your résumé are seen as the methods to "make it", the Apostle Paul calls us to find true rest in blessed self forgetfulness. In this short and punchy book, best selling author Timothy Keller, shows that gospel humility means we can stop connecting every experience, every conversation with ourselves and can thus be free from self condemnation. A truly gospel humble person is not a self-hating person or a self-loving person, but a self-forgetful person.
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A must read
- By W. Horn on 06-02-23
By: Timothy Keller
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- Rebekah A. Bass
- 03-20-23
So Good!
Thankful for this guys heart to share his own scars to hopefully spare you from them. Also driving home real truth to encourage change and find community for accountability. How to best succeed at pursuing righteousness, walking out your faith, and pleasing God’s heart.
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- brynie9
- 05-14-23
Real stories backed by hope
I love how authentic JP is through this whole book sharing his experiences and how he found hope.
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- Dora Sutcliffe
- 12-04-24
A lot of good nuggets if you pay attention
There were many good nuggets to glean from this book and I really enjoyed listening to it.
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- Kionna Kellogg
- 01-23-25
Great book, touched on important topics
I love the podcast so decided to give one of his books a try. i like JPs teaching/communication style and am challenged by these truths. Great listen!
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- Amy Garland
- 12-18-23
Conviction
This book was an amazing opportunity to look at my life and see where I am falling short. Beyond that it guides you in how to make sure you are doing everything you can to avoid falling short in the future. I love this pastor and his openness. And I love this book!
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- mimi
- 09-08-23
5 Stars!
This is the best book I have
read/ listened to in years! There is so much truth, wisdom & life direction for us all. I highly recommend it to everyone💕
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- Amazon Customer
- 03-25-23
thoroughly enjoyed
really enjoyed this book all the way through from start to finish. it was a great one to listen to. very informative
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- Christopher S.
- 02-13-24
Vulnerable & Biblical truth
Every chapter is backed by chapter & verse along with a very vulnerable and openness from JP. Already recommended it to my best friends! It
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- MrsJAMc
- 07-31-23
One I will repeat
For me it was a litmus test for “have you gotten too comfy in this world?” I’ve already listened to a chapter or two twice and will definitely repeat the book. Thank you, JP
For those who don’t already know, be sure to follow JP on Instagram.
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- Otis
- 12-05-23
Wow
Have you ever struggled with living honorably for Jesus? Have you ever wondered how to live above the secrecy of your darkest vices? What should you do when you don’t know what to do? This book shares practical ways for living to truly honor Christ. Great read. Recommended.
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