
Welcoming the Unwelcome
Wholehearted Living in a Brokenhearted World
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Narrated by:
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Claire Foy
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By:
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Pema Chödrön
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From the best-selling author of When Things Fall Apart comes an open-hearted call for human connection, compassion, and learning to love the world just as it is during these most challenging times.
In her first new book of spiritual teachings in over seven years, Pema Chödrön offers a combination of wisdom, heartfelt reflections, and the signature mix of humor and insight that have made her a beloved figure to turn to during times of change. In an increasingly polarized world, Pema shows us how to strengthen our abilities to find common ground, even when we disagree, and influence our environment in positive ways. Sharing never before told personal stories from her remarkable life, simple and powerful everyday practices, and directly relatable advice, Pema encourages us all to become triumphant bodhisattvas - compassionate beings - in times of hardship.
Welcoming the Unwelcome includes teachings on the true meaning of karma, recognizing the basic goodness in ourselves and the people we share our lives with - even the most challenging ones, transforming adversity into opportunities for growth, and freeing ourselves from the empty and illusory labels that separate us. Pema also provides step-by-step guides to a basic sitting meditation and a compassion meditation that anyone can use to bring light to the darkness we face, wherever and whatever it may be.
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so helpful and insightful
- By debadventurer on 02-23-19
By: Pema Chödrön
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Getting Unstuck
- Breaking Your Habitual Patterns and Encountering Naked Reality
- By: Pema Chödrön
- Narrated by: Pema Chodron
- Length: 3 hrs and 24 mins
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On Getting Unstuck, Pema Chodron introduces a rare Tibetan teaching she received from her teacher, Dzigar Kontrul Rinpoche, and one that has become critical to her practice. Here, she unveils the mystery of an ineffable quality; a "pre-emotional" feeling that arises in us, brings us discomfort, and causes us to react by escaping the discomfort, often with harmful habits. With Getting Unstuck, she offers us a first look at "both the itch and the scratch": what Tibetan Buddhists call shenpa.
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I'm Still Scratching...But...
- By Kryton2725 on 05-28-08
By: Pema Chödrön
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Making Friends with Your Mind
- The Key to Contentment
- By: Pema Chödrön
- Narrated by: Pema Chödrön
- Length: 4 hrs and 32 mins
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Have you ever found yourself thinking your way into a tangle of fret, frustration, or gloom? And then something small - a few kind words, the sun glancing through the clouds, a warm cup of tea - gave you a welcome pause from all your inner chatter? With Making Friends with Your Mind, that's what Pema Chödrön helps us to do, not by chance but with our full intention: to stop fighting with our thoughts and reopen ourselves to wonder as naturally as we breathe.
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Love Pema but....
- By Cenandra on 05-11-17
By: Pema Chödrön
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This Moment Is the Perfect Teacher
- Ten Buddhist Teachings on Cultivating Inner Strength and Compassion
- By: Pema Chodron
- Narrated by: Pema Chodron
- Length: 3 hrs and 54 mins
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Lojong is a powerful Tibetan Buddhist practice created especially for training the mind to work with the challenges of everyday living. It teaches our hearts to soften, reframes our attitude toward difficulty, and allows us to discover a wellspring of inner strength. In this recorded retreat, Pema Chödrön introduces the lojong teachings and explains how we can apply them to any situation in our life—because, as Pema says, "every moment is an opportunity for awakening."
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FYI: Subset of “Be Grateful to Everyone “
- By mlanely on 11-27-19
By: Pema Chodron
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When Pain is the Doorway
- Awakening in the Most Difficult Circumstances
- By: Pema Chödrön
- Narrated by: Pema Chödrön
- Length: 1 hr and 55 mins
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What if the full sense of our aliveness were only to be found amidst our most challenging times and difficult experiences? In pain and crisis, teaches Pema Chödrön, there lies a hidden doorway to freedom that appears to us only when we're sure that there is no way out. In these intimate audio learning sessions, Pema Chödrön helps us distinguish the triggers or external events that we blame for our suffering from the deeper habitual patterns that feed our anger, fear, or sadness.
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Crucial topic. sound is fine.
- By ClosetGeek on 10-12-13
By: Pema Chödrön
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Coming Closer to Ourselves
- Making Everything the Path of Awakening
- By: Pema Chödrön
- Narrated by: Pema Chödrön
- Length: 5 hrs and 14 mins
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In challenging times, why do so many of us turn to Pema Chödrön for guidance? Many say that it’s her honest and caring way of communicating the core teachings of Buddhism - not just conceptually, but directly from her heart to ours. In these inspiring sessions, she teaches us how to give that compassion to the person we neglect most often - ourselves.
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Listened to at least a dozen times
- By Brandin on 01-26-14
By: Pema Chödrön
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Fail, Fail Again, Fail Better
- Wise Advice for Leaning into the Unknown
- By: Pema Chödrön, Seth Godin
- Narrated by: Pema Chödrön
- Length: 1 hr and 46 mins
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When her granddaughter was accepted to Naropa University, the celebrated author Pema Chödrön promised that she'd speak at the commencement ceremony. Fail, Fail Again, Fail Better contains the wisdom shared on that day. "What do we do when life doesn't go the way we hoped?" begins Pema. "We say 'I'm a failure.'" But what if failing wasn't just "okay"... but the most direct way to becoming a more complete, loving, and fulfilled human being?
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The perfect listen at the perfect time!
- By BARBARA J NELSON on 01-22-16
By: Pema Chödrön, and others
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No Time to Lose
- A Timely Guide to the Way of the Bodhisattva
- By: Pema Chödrön
- Narrated by: Joanna Rotte
- Length: 11 hrs and 42 mins
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Over the years, Pema Chödrön's books have offered an exciting new way of living: developing fearlessness, generosity, and compassion in all aspects of their lives. In No Time to Lose Pema invites listeners to venture further along the path of the "bodhisattva warrior", explaining in depth how we can awaken the softness of our hearts and develop true confidence amid the challenges of daily living.
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Narrator sounds like a robot
- By Laurie R Trombley on 09-02-18
By: Pema Chödrön
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Three Steps to Courage
- Working Compassionately with Difficult Emotions
- By: Pema Chödrön
- Narrated by: Pema Chödrön
- Length: 3 hrs and 24 mins
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Beloved Tibetan Buddhist teacher Pema Chödrön has a unique gift for helping those of all faiths to work with their most difficult inner and outer challenges. In this supportive series of talks, listeners will join her at her best - showing us the way back to our wisest and most heartful selves. Here, Pema shares three simple, time-honored steps to practice when we are in pain or crisis.
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Disappointed
- By Dr. Jan B. Newman on 07-03-20
By: Pema Chödrön
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Walking the Walk
- Putting the Teachings into Practice When It Matters Most
- By: Pema Chödrön
- Narrated by: Pema Chodron
- Length: 4 hrs and 24 mins
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It's one thing to hear a life-changing truth or to have a conceptual grasp on spiritual wisdom. But it’s another thing to "walk the walk" - or to put into practice the good advice we've been given. What does it mean to walk the walk in our everyday lives? According to Pema Chödrön, it means being down-to-earth, genuine, and perhaps most importantly, it means engaging in the teachings in order to actively confront anything and everything we’ve heretofore rejected in our attempts to find happiness.
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Pema's like warm honey.
- By CJ on 01-06-15
By: Pema Chödrön
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Bodhisattva Mind
- Teachings to Cultivate Courage and Awareness in the Midst of Suffering
- By: Pema Chödrön
- Narrated by: Pema Chodron
- Length: 8 hrs and 6 mins
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What if you could cultivate the mind of a bodhisattva -- one who has dedicated one's life to the benefit of others? According to Pema Chödrön, best-selling author and American-born Buddhist nun, you can. On Bodhisattva Mind, she examines sheshin, or "guarding alertness", and the other qualities of mind we need to develop on the path to enlightenment.
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lots of people vote and don't write reviews
- By Suzanna Davis on 03-09-11
By: Pema Chödrön
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- Rowdy P Scarlett
- 10-23-21
Excellent and Personally Meaningful
I could certainly relate to the cleanliness story. I had to let go of my extreme cleanliness years ago. Excellent voice reading the book and it kept my attention leading me to finish the book in a day, which is rare for me. Wonderful book!
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- Katherine Estes
- 08-15-23
This book saved me when nothing else could
The loving kindness/ Bodichita is so clear. Something I’ve always missed. Pema is so gentle here. & the practice of these ideas actually work
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-14-20
Great book!
loved the reader's voice, great book for wanting to work on becoming the best you for the benefit of the world as a whole!
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- Javier P.
- 03-16-21
Welcoming the Unwelcome
Me encantó el contenido! Mensajes concretos, fácil de entender y comprender! Muy digerible!
Lo recomiendo para aquellas personas q estén pasando por algún tipo de duelo, q se estén dando cuenta del dolor causado y que les han causado y sobretodo que están en un proceso de sanación y conciencia!
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- Wanderer_Not_Lost
- 12-23-22
Pema Classic!
I love Pema Chodron teachings, and this was no exception. But…I’d much rather hear it in her voice though. She has such a great sense of humor!
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- Amazon Customer
- 01-13-23
Excellent insights
Calm, focused, clear explanations. Pema is approachable and humble. Psychological and spiritual insights with short stories to help exemplify the concepts
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- Amazon Customer
- 07-19-20
Welcoming the Unwelcome
This book touched my heart and captured my mind. I am glad to have read it after another of Pena’s books and the knowledge gained prior to listening to this book. She provides a down to earth and simple discovery of ones self leading us to the path of enlightenment. It was truly a blessing.
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- JLL
- 02-28-21
My favorite Pema book so far!!!
I have been a Pema Chodron fan for a few years now and this book is my new favorite. Her message rings so true to me. The stories, messages and suggestions are so helpful as I face a phase in my life filled with so many of the more unwelcome emotions...specifically fear and anxiety.
I have struggled through previous audiobooks narrated by people other than Pema herself. This is definitely NOT the case this time.
Claire Foy is an exceptional narrator...she is the perfect compliment to Pema’s writing. I will listen to this book over and over.
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- Audrey
- 12-31-24
Opening my heart
Pema always finds a way to say just the right thing to melt my little heart into a pool of compassion and emptiness. This book reminded me of who i am and my priorities
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- jenjen
- 04-30-20
Amazing book! Amazing Narrator!
I love all things Pema Chodron! This does not disappoint! Also, I'm very voice sensitive and I feel like some narrators don't really capture the essence of Pema's humility and compassion. That is NOT the case with this narrator. It was a pleasure to listen to. I enjoyed every part of it! Great book all around!
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