
To Date a Man, You Must Understand Yourself
The Journey of Two Women
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RJ Walker
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Gregg Michaelsen
About this listen
Let's get you in top dating shape before you go out and try to meet the guy of your dreams. Doesn't that make sense? You don't run a marathon without preparing your body right? So why would you jump right into a relationship before you understand yourself?
Yet women do. They fall for a man before they have matured as a person, and this leads to failure. You grow as person the most when you are single. But instead of enjoying this time and packing your life with as many experiences as you can, many women feel the need to get married and have kids. Hell, society screams at women to have a family straight out of college.
Everyone needs a great story. Women that create a positive story before they settle down get rewarded with quality men that stay in their lives. Positive experiences define your story and this makes you interesting. When you are interesting, you have opinions and with opinions you can challenge people - namely men. Women who have a great story develop boundaries and they live their lives with conviction.
We are going to work on your story. And if it sucks, then we are going to change it. And when we do, you will be amazed how easy it will be to get what you want out of life and attract a quality man!
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- livelovelaugh
- 03-26-22
Great info for someone who is less confident of herself
Some inputs has been mentioned on his other books but i still love this book. I’m purchasing his other books.
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- Dimplezz
- 01-26-18
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amazing book, I learned a lot. I will buy many more, he explains things amazing
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- Erika
- 02-13-17
Great tips!
Narrator is good! Great stories and great message! I liked this book can't wait to read the rest of his books.
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- Anonymous User
- 04-22-18
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I think the difference between this and similar books by other authors is that this guy includes a lot of spiritual wisdom as well. At times you could tell that his personal opinions came through, but overall it made him sound sincere. I’ll probably check out the other books as well he has produced.
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- Ronda
- 06-08-17
Good advice for women.
Easy to follow, good advice for women. I would recommend this book to girlfriends and wish I had it to read when I was younger.
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- Michelle McDowell
- 04-19-16
best author on dating advice.
Love the practical advice and straight forward approach. I read all Gregg Michaelsen's books! don't miss out!
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- Constanza Carvacho
- 03-26-25
Heard things I haven't heard before
I will put in practice many things I heard here. I was reticent at first and rejected the idea of listening to dating books but things I've heard here did make sense to understand from a guy's perspective what I've been doing wrong. Aww so I guess I wish I would've known some of these things sooner!
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- Amazon Customer
- 03-06-16
This book is great for dating advice.
I'm new to the dating scene and this book helped me to not only understand the mind of a man but also to help me understand my mistakes in dating as well.
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- Nicole Magee
- 04-06-18
Excellent!
A quick deep dive and study into a woman's life to understand and love herself!
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- Heather Simmons
- 12-31-18
To date a man you must understand yourself
I really enjoyed this book very formative information that I can use in my life journeys
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