
Thriving Through Ministry Conflict (by Understanding Your Red and Blue Zones)
A Parable on How Resistance Can Be Your Ally
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Church conflict doesn't have to be an enemy that tears a congregation apart. By learning how to handle it wisely, pastors and church leaders can make resistance one of their most valuable allies. Far from fearing conflict, leaders can turn it into a catalyst for positive change and a stronger, more united church.
Through the fictional story of a typical pastor embroiled in conflict, Thriving through Ministry Conflict shows how to handle and resolve conflict in a healthy way. By working through a series of response activities and discussion questions, the listener will gain powerful insights into the emotional dynamics of conflict.
Here are the knowledge and tools that can help pastors and church leaders trade self-defeating responses to conflict for an empowering, constructive approach; gain a working command of key conflict survival principles; and cultivate the skills needed to effectively navigate the conflicts every ministry leader faces.
Download the accompanying reference guide.©2005 The Armstrong Group (P)2011 ZondervanListeners also enjoyed...
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- Stacy Stone
- 07-31-21
Best I've read in a long time. highly recommended
2nd time thru audio, not just ministry...life! so good... will miss Elliot and Barry!!! listening again
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- Jonathan
- 10-03-22
Solid short book. Very practical
Good solid practical reading for people of all vocations.
One of the challenges is identifying habits of red behavior in oneself. The book seems to leave a reader with the impression that it’s a sequential process that one will overcome if the right steps are taken and at the right time.
This book gives me a lot to think about even though it’s pretty succinct.
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