
The Science of Attraction
Flirting, Sex, and How to Engineer Chemistry and Love
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Patrick King
About this listen
Subconscious and psychologically proven methods to attract the opposite sex, spark chemistry, and create feelings of affection and love.
There is a definitive science to attraction, and it turns out we've been doing it wrong...or doing it right for all the wrong reasons. This book is your textbook and field manual for (1) how to flirt better, (2) how to have better sex, and (3) how to plant the seeds of romantic love in whomever you want.
Understand the instinctual triggers of attraction.
The Science of Attraction is an in-depth look at human attraction and what draws people together. It dives into peer-reviewed research, combined with the insightful and straightforward observations of a renowned dating coach. Patrick King is an internationally best-selling author and acclaimed speaker and coach. Together, this book is the ultimate guide to inform, diagnose, and recommend highly actionable steps to take your dating life to the next level.
Find the shortcut to powerful chemistry.
Too often, we rely on our own experiences with a sample size of one, or advice from friends that are perpetually single. There's a better way - looking at the research and evidence about what we really want, not what we think we want. You'll learn why we like whom we like, and what to do about it.
- How can you learn to scientifically attract the opposite sex?
- The three types of touching you should strategically use
- How four evolutionary types of attraction are still highly relevant
- What the chase is and how to win at it
- What your flirting style is and how to take advantage of it
- Be prepared to charm every type of person
- Whether you should date someone similar or complementary to yourself
- How a focus on chemistry and love might be hurting you
- How to know exactly what you want in a partner
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- Bradion
- 08-15-22
one of the best dating book I've listened to
I've read numerous dating book from leading authors but this one is maybe only second to The Art of Seduction, whilst being far more concise. It sums up sciences that other books I've listened to have taken hours to explain. a great guide.
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- Abril Gonzalez
- 04-01-17
Amazing
This makes confusing topics so easy to understand and it makes so much sense. I already know this is gonna turn into a bit of a bible for me. Definitely a book you listen to over and over again. Way more useful than I thought it was gonna be! :)
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- 05-17-20
Great Book
If you are someone that wan td s to understand "why" of everything, this is a great book
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- Alexis Vince Cruz
- 01-17-19
fair enough
there is thin line between teaching(step by step) and describing a fact. i mean, if you describe what a burglar is... is different from telling how to be a burglar in a step by step manner.
there some section that teaches.. and most of the content would just describe you what it is.
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- Robbie Colwell
- 07-02-18
this book was full of insight for me..
loved it. easy to listen to and couldn't wait to listen to it every chance I got. second book from this author I've finished. love it.
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- Amazon Customer
- 01-02-19
good insight
outstanding inside to learning the biology of flirting sex and just overall talking to people, learn a lot.
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- Suzan
- 07-20-17
great information
This is a great book for understanding the parts of chasing sex and what is really compatible between partners.
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- Justice Campbell
- 03-01-18
A good resource. A scientifically based book.
Unlike many other resources on dating and attraction, this book appropriately lives up to its title. It relates information from various studies and other respected books on the subject.
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- Jerry Chapman
- 06-30-17
Not enough information here
The subject matter is innately interesting and I listened to the end. But most of the content was too simple for me and stuff that I knew already. If you are new to the subject of gender differences and attraction I'd recommend it. One thing I didn't know is that what people say they want in a mate and who they are actually attracted to don't necessarily match up.
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- Monique Marquez
- 03-04-18
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It was not what I expected but it has a couple lol moments while I was driving in traffic.
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