
The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself
How Loving Yourself the Way God Does Can Bring Healing and Freedom to Your Life
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Jerry Basel
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Denise Basel
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What keeps you from loving someone God loves so much? How might your life change if you really believed God loves you - not just in your head but down where it counts, in your heart? Imagine how different things could be: The lies you've believed about yourself all these years dispelled. The wounds of abuse healed. Your future lit with hope, peace, and purpose. Your closeness with God and others deepened immeasurably. The true, heaven-born you free at last to live a life unclouded by shame, guilt, and fear and empowered to love others fully. That can be you. The truth is far, far better than you've known. Drawing on their many years of biblical counseling practice, Jerry and Denise Basel invite you on a journey of God-discovery, self-discovery, and truth-discovery. The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself will help you experience God's love as the daily, motivating force in your life. And it will show you how to stop punishing and start loving someone whom your heavenly father loves very much - you. You see, the missing commandment has never been missing from the Bible, only from your life. But that can change, starting now.
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- Dee
- 09-04-16
Highly recommended if you are a Christian !
Great breakdown of childhood pain and trauma in a Christian view/way! it really uncovers a lot of events and why they may still occurred in your life.
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- Valerie
- 06-28-16
So Grateful I Found This Book!
Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?
If "life-changing" wasn't so over-used, that is how I would describe this book, because it is powerful enough to change lives. The Basels use plenty of biblical references (in the correct context imo) to defeat the unfortunate attitude in some of Christian culture that loving ourselves is selfish and sinful. I am so grateful for the clarity The Missing Commandment offers- to agree with God, to "love what (who) He loves (you)."
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- van
- 04-02-18
Healing and Freedom
loved it , great insight into life and Gods love for us and the whole world
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- Mike Salter
- 07-04-24
Pure Love
Well written and right on time for me. I will practice these principles over and over again as long as I need to. Thank you
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- Valerie Cazeau
- 12-24-22
Life changing book!
This book really highlights how to love yourself the biblical way not the new age way. It's been extremely fulfilling and an asset to life.
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- Debra Wilaon
- 05-30-17
I feel Gods love & understand Jesus' purpose & God
narrators perfect, soft soothing voices. Easy to understand. with practice & God I'll get it!
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- Sgt. Chris Hammond - USMC
- 10-18-21
this is an incredible idea about who God says you
no matter who you are this book offers a restoration and redemption through Jesus Christ and discovering for yourself how God himself views each and every one of us. this book was so refreshing and so helpful.
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