
The Massive Advantages of Dealing with A--holes
All the Answers You Need to Recognise and Deal with Toxic People
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The odds say that you have more than one asshole in your life right now. Toxic people are everywhere. At work. Home. School. Life. We’re surrounded. You need to arm yourself with the tools, knowledge, and resources to recognise and deal with them - or suffer the severe consequences.
In this audiobook, best-selling author Carl Vernon shows you how to spot an a--hole, helps you to understand their traits and behaviours, and - most importantly - gives you all the tools you need to take control today.
Discover for yourself the massive advantages of dealing with a--holes.
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- ANGELA A.
- 11-24-23
Loved it! Learning the skills I need.
This is the second book I have listened to by Carl Vernon.The first was You Care To Much. He has incredible insight and I am learning a lot from him. His writing and narrating style is fresh and entertaining. I can't wait to listen to the next audio book and I wish him the best because he is helping me and helping so many other people. Thank you Carl Vernon
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- Mackenzie BB
- 04-15-21
Uplifting and Empowering
Carl Vernon, thank you for taking the time to write and then read and record this book. I've been dealing with a chronic a**hole in my own life, and your words have helped me improve the situation - all by changing the thoughts in my head, which lead to improving my own perspective and actions. Internally, I've set new boundaries to ensure I do not let the a**hole sap my positive energy.
I also discovered while listening to your book that I can sometimes be a bit of an a**hole to myself. Your positive energy transferred through my headphones and helped me release some of my negative tendencies, allowing me to improve my relationship with myself.
Thanks again, and for anyone considering this book, I highly recommend it!
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- Chris
- 07-14-22
Wonderful book with great examples
fantastic book that outlines the red flags for identifying assholes and how to best avoid them.
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- Jennifer
- 04-06-23
Tremendously helpful!
Increased my self awareness and my awareness of toxic people and situations! I’ll be sharing this with my family and friends
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- Kelly
- 03-13-24
Must read.
Vernon’s common sense is welcome in a time of lunacy. His straight-forward approach is absolutely refreshing. Cannot recommend this book enough.
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