
The Marriage You Want
Moving Beyond Stereotypes for a Relationship Built on Scripture, New Data, and Emotional Health
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Dr. Keith Gregoire
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Sheila Wray Gregoire
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We all want a marriage that feels like home. We long for a partner who is there for us through all of life's challenges and griefs, who is in on all our inside jokes, who delights in the family we've built together, who looks with hope toward the future with a shared faith and an arm firmly around our shoulders. But how do we get there? What actually works in the real world and honors the picture of marriage found in Scripture?
Based on the findings of their meticulous research, Sheila Wray Gregoire and Dr. Keith Gregoire dispel the pervasive myths about what makes a happy marriage. Rather than relying on gender stereotypes, they look at what actually creates intimacy, emotional health, and connection, asking deeper questions that lead to real healing and growth in your relationship with your spouse.
With enlightening stories, survey results, and practical tools, this book will help listeners create a marriage they love. And with the evidence-based, Scripture-honoring advice in this book, that just may be closer than you imagine.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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"Biblical womanhood" is the idea that the Bible teaches God-ordained male leadership and female submission in the home and subordination in the church. Some say this hierarchy of authority is sufficiently evidenced by examples of male leadership (and lack of female leadership) in the Bible: the first human was male, Israel's official priests were male, most authors of Scripture were male, Jesus was male and chose twelve male Apostles. God is addressed as Father. Wives are commanded to submit to their husbands.
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- By Julia on 07-22-23
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31 Days to Great Sex
- Love. Friendship. Fun.
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 4 hrs and 29 mins
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Whether you are engaged and afraid you won't be able to light the spark, are newlyweds who haven't started off well, or have been married five, 10, 25 years, or more and you'd like to recapture the spark you once had, this audiobook is for you! The challenges aim to spice up the bedroom while guiding you through all three levels of sexual intimacy. As you go through these challenges with lots of laughter and enjoyment, sex will stop being a source of tension and become something fun that brings you together, just the way God intended.
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didn't need a lesson in theology
- By Not Usually Picky on 08-08-20
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
- Creating a Marriage That's Both Holy and Hot
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Length: 6 hrs and 46 mins
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Whether you're about to walk down the aisle or you've been married for decades, this revised and expanded edition of The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex by popular blogger and award-winning author Sheila Wray Gregoire will lead you on a wonderful journey of discovery toward the amazing sex life God designed you for.
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Wish I’d had this sooner
- By Amazon Customer on 05-26-23
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Walking in God's Will
- Demystify God's Plan for Your Life and Make Decisions with Confidence
- By: Costi W. Hinn
- Narrated by: Costi Hinn
- Length: 5 hrs and 39 mins
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Do you feel paralyzed by major life decisions because you're afraid of missing God's plan for your life? Do you wonder how God's will works in tandem with your choices, experiences, and desires? In this timeless guidebook, pastor and Bible teacher Costi Hinn offers listeners an expansive map of what Scripture says about God's will. As you listen, you'll learn to overcome common decision-making cripplers, distinguish God's voice from your own, and experience peace, joy, and confidence with each life choice, big or small.
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Biblical truth
- By Justin Cox on 04-05-25
By: Costi W. Hinn
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Safe Church
- How to Guard Against Sexism and Abuse in Christian Communities
- By: Dr. Andrew J. Bauman
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 5 hrs and 35 mins
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If the past few years have taught us anything, it's that by and large the church has failed women. From sexual abuse scandals involving high-profile pastors, to decades-long systemic cover-ups of sexual harassment and mistreatment, to harmful theology that has driven women to leave the church and find community elsewhere, it's clear that something is broken. If we want to fix it, it's time we start listening.
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Let’s do better in the church
- By Autumn masker on 04-15-25
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The Sex Talk You Never Got
- Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality
- By: Sam Jolman, John Eldredge
- Narrated by: Sam Jolman, John Eldredge
- Length: 8 hrs and 41 mins
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Men today are starved for sexual formation. They've been failed by parents, churches, and culture alike, leading to widespread shame, confusion, and brokenness in the area of sexuality. In The Sex Talk You Never Got, therapist Sam Jolman helps men reconnect their God-given sexuality with innocence, awe, and joy, and shows listeners how to celebrate--instead of struggle against--the gift of sexual desire.
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Real talk about masculinity!
- By Raymond Mertens on 03-24-25
By: Sam Jolman, and others
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9 Thoughts that Can Change Your Marriage
- Because a Great Relationship Doesn't Happen by Accident
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Narrated by: Susan Hanfield
- Length: 6 hrs and 27 mins
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With humor and honesty, Sheila invites you to believe that God wants to bring oneness and intimacy to your marriage - and challenges you to partner with him in that process by changing the way you think.
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Book is Good...Narrator, Not So Much!
- By Misty Weeks on 03-07-21
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The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
- Because Good Guys Make the Best Lovers
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Ronald Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Gregoire
- Length: 6 hrs and 43 mins
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A candid companion to the best-selling guide for women, The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex gives you suggestions for a fulfilling sex life for both you and your wife, whether you're just starting out or simply want to make your sex life what you've always hoped it would be and aren't sure how to get there.
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Religion-based.
- By JR on 08-02-23
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
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The Sin of Empathy: Compassion and Its Counterfeits
- By: Joe Rigney
- Narrated by: Joe Rigney
- Length: 3 hrs and 53 mins
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When you reject the sin of empathy, you reject the manipulation of the media, the manipulation of family and friends, and most importantly, the manipulation of your own heart.
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critical assessment of our cultural mood
- By James Birmingham on 04-21-25
By: Joe Rigney
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The Making of Biblical Womanhood
- How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth
- By: Beth Allison Barr
- Narrated by: Sarah Zimmerman
- Length: 7 hrs and 26 mins
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Biblical womanhood - the belief that God designed women to be submissive wives, virtuous mothers, and joyful homemakers - pervades North American Christianity. From choices about careers to roles in local churches to relationship dynamics, this belief shapes the everyday lives of evangelical women. Yet biblical womanhood isn't biblical, says Baylor University historian Beth Allison Barr. It was born in a series of clearly definable historical moments.
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Fantastic thought provoking book
- By busymom on 04-22-21
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The Deep-Rooted Marriage
- Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight
- By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, Dr. Steve Call
- Narrated by: Dr. Dan B. Allender, Dr. Steve Call, Becky Allender, and others
- Length: 8 hrs and 20 mins
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Every relationship has its highs and lows, but we often don't know what to do with our "lows," or how we ended up there. What is creating friction, exacerbating our pain, and standing in the way of intimacy? More often than not, it is the stories of our past drifting into the present. But if we are willing to look at them closely, we will be able to write a new story for the future. With more than seventy years of therapeutic experience combined, Dan Allender and Steve Call demonstrate how God is inviting you and your partner to a wild faith journey with the hope of transformation.
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Incredibly beautiful, healing, and hope-giving
- By Christian Ferguson on 04-09-25
By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, and others
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The Mindful Marriage
- Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself
- By: Ron L. Deal MMFT, Nan Deal BSE, Terry Hargrave PhD - foreword, and others
- Narrated by: Pete Straub
- Length: 5 hrs and 52 mins
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When Ron and Nan Deal suffered the devastating loss of their child, their marriage was nearly shattered by their destructive cycles. At wits' end, they sought the help of pioneering therapists Dr. Terry Hargrave and Sharon Hargrave, LMFT, whose transformational Restoration Therapy has helped millions through the practice of emotional mindfulness. Now, the Deals and Hargraves introduce listeners to this proven method that challenges popular beliefs about how relationships work.
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RT is so valuable
- By Visitor on 03-06-25
By: Ron L. Deal MMFT, and others
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I've Got Questions
- The Spiritual Practice of Having It Out with God
- By: Erin Hicks Moon, Sarah Bessey - foreword
- Narrated by: Erin Hicks Moon
- Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins
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When your faith as you know it has been commodified, nationalized, scandalized, and rebranded beyond recognition, is it even possible to recover the "good" of Jesus from this cluster of epic proportions? Writer and podcaster Erin Moon has questions, and this book is her open letter for anyone who feels iffy, conflicted, or just downright devastated by this disconnect. With empathy, insight, and the therapy of memes and a good laugh, Erin maps out not a rigid prescription but an open-hearted pathway for you to reclaim what you once loved about your faith home and light a match to the rest.
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Phenomenal
- By Sarah Charles on 03-17-25
By: Erin Hicks Moon, and others
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Sacred Marriage
- What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy?
- By: Gary Thomas
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas
- Length: 7 hrs and 43 mins
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What if God designed marriage to make you holy instead of happy? What if your relationship isn't as much about you and your spouse as it is about you and God? In Sacred Marriage, best-selling author Gary Thomas uncovers the ways that your marriage can become a doorway to a closer walk with God and with each other. Join over one million others who have already uncovered Thomas's tips for fostering a sacred marriage. In Sacred Marriage, Thomas invites you to see how God can use your relationship with your spouse as a discipline and a motivation to love God more.
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just when I wanted to give up
- By Nestor on 01-10-18
By: Gary Thomas
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Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 6 hrs and 47 mins
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When you said, “I do”, you entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy. You never intended for it to be miserable. Millions of couples are struggling in desperate marriages. But the story doesn’t have to end there. Dr. Gary Chapman writes, “I believe that in every troubled marriage, one or both partners can take positive steps that have the potential for changing the emotional climate in their marriage.”
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encouragement through another chance
- By Brookley on 09-19-18
By: Gary Chapman
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- Jelaine Aprile
- 04-03-25
Finally, a balanced approach to marriage!
I am very impressed that the authors recorded the book themselves. It adds a layer of authenticity and genuineness.
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- RevRun Regan
- 03-26-25
Great book on marriage.
Just like their other books, this looks at marriage with Biblically sound teaching and good contemporary information. Planning to lead some couples through it in our church.
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- Anonymous User
- 03-27-25
Fascinating- Blow you mind with Statistics
What you believe when you get married has a strong corelation with how happy you are in marriage! They break it all down. They talk about talk about if you believe that one spouse has authority over another spouse due to gender roles when you marry years later you are more likely to say you experience pain daily... what??? read this.... I now believe what they are saying. I've lead marriage groups for many years. I believe in marriage, I love being married... 24 years and I'm still working on it but it's all worth it! Read this book, buy it for your friends! Lead a small group, make a difference in this world for generations to come by changing marriage!
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- Nicole
- 03-17-25
The book I needed years ago!
I read it in 4 hours and can’t wait to read through it again! This is the marriage book I needed years ago! So many marriage books we read and studied and they didn’t help or made things worse! This book is full of guiding principles for marriage that are evidence based (peer reviewed studies), adaptable to your unique situation, and just practical! I already purchased the study guide and cannot wait to lead a small group from church through this book!
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- M. Becker
- 03-14-25
The only Christian marriage book I would recommend
This marriage book is based on actual studies. It addresses the toxic teachings that are in all the popular Christian marriage books, and shows how they damage marriages and people.
This book also talks about workload and mental load in a marriage and how huge the impact of these are on a marriage.
And this book shows what does work, what is relevant, and what will help you build a happy, healthy, enjoyable marriage.
Do yourself a favor and throw away all the Christian marriage books on your shelves, and replace them with this one. You won’t be sorry.
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- Igor Gorchakov
- 03-14-25
Well researched. The stuff you need to hear.
Book does a great job at explaining mental load, and how it plays a crucial step in life balance. Highly recommend listening together with spouse and stopping periodically and discussing the book! Listening together has brought us closer!
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- Eran Wade
- 03-14-25
Well Researched
I liked: informed, well-supported, and touching (the story of working hard on the marriage and kids).
Where to improve: Rarely, but sometimes just a few more specific details could help us with deeper clarity on areas that may be a bit confusing.
I learned so much!
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- Carol T. Brown
- 03-23-25
The marriage book I wish I had 37 years ago
Shelia and Keith have done their research! Understanding the importance of unity, teamwork, mutual passion, closeness, and friendship with practical applications and thought provoking questions. A MUST a read.
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- E. Wiers
- 04-14-25
Best marriage book
Best Christian Marriage book on the market. A lot of couples would be far better off if they read this book.
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