
The Dude's Guide to Marriage
Ten Skills Every Husband Must Develop to Love His Wife Well
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Tavia Gilbert
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What do women want? This question has stumped the greatest male minds for centuries. Of course, if you're married, a much better question is, what does your wife want?
As Darrin and Amie Patrick reveal in this profoundly practical and transformational audiobook, God designed your wife with the need to be loved. And that design is an invitation for you to love her deeply, intentionally, and passionately. Practicing 10 powerful actions, including listening, pursuing, and serving, will transform you into your wife's lifelong champion and have her nominating you for the Husband Hall of Fame. The Dude's Guide to Marriage is for guys who want to grow, who want clear steps to improving their marriages. It's for men who want marriages that thrive rather than just survive. Get ready to be a better husband by becoming a better man.
©2015 Darrin and Amie Patrick (P)2015 Blackstone Audio, Inc.Listeners also enjoyed...
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- AA
- 02-05-24
Great!
This is a great guide for men. I wish they would actually listen to it or read it. The female narrator’s reading is annoying at times. But overall a good listen!
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- Mr. Richard J. Pawlak
- 01-12-16
Decent but nothing interesting
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Too much fluff. Boring stuff. The religious references are strange and out of place.
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- Nicholas Rankin
- 06-10-21
Very insightful
With down to earth and straightforward language, this book really is a book for the dudes. With the exception of a couple out-of-touch remarks about millennials, all the content was useful.
The female narrator had a bit too much dramatic flair, almost like she was trying to sell the advice. For something so down to earth it felt out of place BUT it did stick in the noggin.
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- Anonymous User
- 10-06-21
Thank You!!!
Straight forward advise for men! Ignore the negative reviews. If your marriage is failing please read this book!
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- Gdub
- 06-07-16
story is good but female audio killed it
I enjoyed the audio book and made it quite of the way through until the female voice started in. I literally couldn't take listening any more and just stopped the book half way through. fix that part and you got yourself a solid read.
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- Kindle Customer
- 07-15-21
Loved it
I’m a woman and definitely better for it after reading this amazing book! So raw
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- Maurice
- 11-28-22
Awesome
Gave a lot of clarity on marriage and selflessness , really opened my mind to what’s most important
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- Ron S.
- 06-10-21
Great Book and Information
I really enjoyed the book and the information. I enjoyed the male reader but the female reader was a little dramatic for me.
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- Erick Avila
- 09-10-22
Great parts, less than half though
Contains great help, but contains mostly long paets that are not really that helpful. Worth to hear only while doing something else.
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- Jay
- 03-08-23
A decent amount of information.
The readers do a great job of helping bring the content alive. I wish it felt more about marriage than religious conversion but nonetheless it was a good listen.
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