
The Connection Codes
The Blueprint & Tools for Creating the Relationships You Crave
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Dr. Glenn Hill
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Humans are coded for relational connection with other humans. Often, that coding has been short-circuited and needs reactivating. However, we do not need to learn it; we need to relearn it. This is not a new language; it is the language of your birth. The Connection Codes are the blueprint and tools for the relational connection we all need and crave. They are the culmination of over 30 years of research, education, and experience and draw from many centuries of insights and wisdom. The Connection Codes are experiential, not just conceptual. The power is not in the knowledge; the power is in the relational interaction.
Experience Assignments are included at the end of each section to help apply these concepts. This is a simple process; it is not an easy one. Returning to your original coding may be the most challenging, yet rewarding, thing you ever do. You need this. You deserve this. Let’s do this!
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- Sebastian Perry
- 11-02-22
Outstanding
This book should be used in schools. Every household should have a copy. I've been testing the content and was blessed blown away by the results.
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- Becky Harris
- 01-09-23
All need to hear this!
This has been truly life changing for my marriage and the relationships in my life. I hope this can reach the world! Everyone needs to hear this, life changing.
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- Daniel Norman
- 11-14-23
I’m not a reader but thoroughly enjoyed.
I very much enjoyed reading this book. I will be applying it to my life. It’s extremely interesting, knowing how the brain works in relation to the every day behaviors we see from ourselves and others.
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- Bethany Kuenzli
- 04-11-22
Life changing Book
This book is phenomenal and with just a few changes can alter your relational dynamics with anyone. I recommend it for all who want deeper connection!
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- Hananh
- 08-30-22
EVERYONE READ THIS
I can not express how much the world needs this book, second to the bible of course. it had transformed the way I view people, strengthened my relationship (which I thought was already rock solid) with my husband, and children. my husband has yet to read it but we have already witness such growth and immense connection we didn't even realize we were missing. so grateful for the book.
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- Barry Solway
- 05-17-22
Important discussion on how critical connection is
The material is excellent and clearly explained. The presentation wasn't my favorite, although I do like when the original authors read their own worjs. I appreciated that they gave concrete examples and exercises for building better connection
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- Est
- 02-28-22
Saved our Marriage!
Learning about the Connection Codes has literally saved and changed the trajectory of our marriage. It’s also helped me incredibly with understanding and connecting in other relationships too. I learned, for the first time in my life, that emotions are not “bad” and how important it is to process them proficiently. I HIGHLY recommend this book to anyone and everyone! -Esther
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- Brandon and Kaitlin
- 07-29-22
The title says it all “Connection Codes”
One of the sayings my wife and I came up early with in our marriage is: emotionally right before being factually right ,and this book shows practically what this looks like. Also, learning how to stay emotionally connect or get emotionally connected can help one get through any situation and not just get through it but grower closer through not matter what. What is taught in this book can immediately have an incredible effect on your marriage and maybe even save it.
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- John Moss
- 03-21-24
What you weren’t aware of can cost you.
The insight that Dr Hill brings to this book is a new paradigm of connection and communication to relationships both old and new. A great book to reconnect and understanding yourself or partner.
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- virginia grimes
- 03-01-24
 super practical
I liked the way he broke what seem like scary ideas into simple strategies that would bring connection.
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