
Spouse in the House
Rearranging Our Attitudes to Make Room for Each Other
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Lisa Larsen
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Two's company, especially for those who love each other. So what happens when - due to retirement, working from home, or even running a business together - spouses find that being in the same space all the time is awkward, complex, annoying, and just plain challenging? How can partners coexist without co-exhausting each other?
Cynthia Ruchti and Becky Melby know all too well how adjusting to a new, all-the-time closeness can cause the bliss of marriage to form blisters. Drawing from their experiences, and from men and women across the country in the same situation, the authors take a deep breath and dive into the root causes of the discomfort. They dig into the ways God's word addresses the topic, and they offer practical tips for learning the spiritual, emotional, relational, and even physical steps that can help listeners replace irritation with peace.
For any Christian who wants their home to be a refuge of peace and serenity for all - not just themselves - and who wants to know they aren't alone in the mental and physical claustrophobia of too much togetherness, Spouse in the House is a vulnerable, charming, and pragmatic breath of hope.
©2021 Cynthia Ruchti and Becky Melby (P)2021 eChristianListeners also enjoyed...
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