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Nichole Perkins
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Nichole Perkins
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“Hear the dark liquor of her laughter rippling behind her sentences” in this magnetic memoir as it explores a journalist’s obsession with pop culture and the difficulty of navigating relationships as a Black woman through fanfiction, feminism, and Southern mores (Saeed Jones).
A Roxane Gay Audacious Bookclub November Pick
Named "Most Anticipated Books of 2021" by Buzzfeed and LitHub
Pop culture is the Pandora’s box of our lives. Racism, wealth, poverty, beauty, inclusion, exclusion, and hope - all of these intractable and unavoidable features course through the media we consume. Examining pop culture’s impact on her life, Nichole Perkins takes listeners on a rollicking trip through the last 20 years of music, media, and the internet from the perspective of one Southern Black woman. She explores her experience with mental illness and how the TV series Frasier served as a crutch, how her role as mistress led her to certain internet message boards that prepared her for current-day social media, and what it means to figure out desire and sexuality and Prince in a world where marriage is the only acceptable goal for women.
Combining her sharp wit, stellar pop-culture sensibility, and trademark spirited storytelling, Nichole boldly tackles the damage done to women, especially Black women, by society’s failure to confront the myths and misogyny at its heart, and her efforts to stop the various cycles that limit confidence within herself. By using her own life and loves as a unique vantage point, Nichole humorously and powerfully illuminates how to take the best pop culture has to offer and discard the harmful bits, offering a mirror into our own lives.
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Critic reviews
"In these sharp, uncompromising essays, Nichole Perkins probes the intersections between her blackness, hailing from the South, her womanhood, and her sexuality. There is an appealing self-awareness in these essay - a willingness to examine her flaws as much as her strengths. The book gets stronger and stronger and the final few essays are clarion calls to naming things as they are, claiming the power you desire, and embracing yourself unapologetically." (Roxane Gay, New York Times best-selling author of Bad Feminist)
"Nichole’s work is necessary, urgent, and so beautiful. At turns surprising and familiar, tender and brutal, the entire collection is a love letter to the black girls we were, to the black women we are, and to the brave, new beings we are growing up to be." (Jesmyn Ward, National Book Award-winning author of Sing, Unburied, Sing)
“It is not easy to be open with reflections on sexuality, intimacy, pleasure, religion, race, and class, but Nichole does so with such intellect, thoughtfulness, and levity. Sometimes I Trip On How Happy We Could Be is not only another welcomed contribution because of the sharp, funny, and focused voice Nichole Perkins brings to those issues and others, but that she brings a working class southern Black perspective that more of America needs to hear from.” (Michael Arceneaux, New York Times best-selling author of I Can’t Date Jesus: Love, Sex, Family, Race, and Other Reasons I’ve Put My Faith in Beyoncé and I Don’t Want to Die)
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Rootless
- A Novel
- By: Krystle Zara Appiah
- Narrated by: Clifford Samuel, Diana Yekinni
- Length: 13 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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On a Spring afternoon in London, Sam hops the stairs of his flat two at a time. There’s £1,300 missing from his and his wife, Efe’s, shared bank account and his calls are going straight to voicemail. When he finally reaches someone, he learns Efe is nearly 5,000 miles away as their toddler looks around and asks, “Where’s Mummy?”
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Wow
- By Anon on 03-16-25
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Carefree Black Girls
- A Celebration of Black Women in Popular Culture
- By: Zeba Blay
- Narrated by: Zeba Blay
- Length: 6 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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In 2013, Zeba Blay was one of the first people to coin the viral term carefreeblackgirls on Twitter. It was, as she says, “a way to carve out a space of celebration and freedom for black women online”. In this collection of essays, Blay expands on that initial idea by looking at the significance of influential Black women throughout history. Incorporating her own personal experiences as well as astute analysis of these famous women, Blay presents an empowering and celebratory portrait of Black women and their effect on American culture.
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Beautifully written and read
- By Pearl L. on 02-01-23
By: Zeba Blay
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The Sex Lives of African Women
- Self-Discovery, Freedom, and Healing
- By: Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah
- Narrated by: Iesha Nyree, Adenrele Ojo, Deanna Anthony, and others
- Length: 10 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
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Thanks to her blog, Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women, Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah has spent decades talking openly and intimately to African women around the world about sex. For this book, she spoke to more than 30 African women across the globe while chronicling her own journey toward sexual freedom.
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Bad narrators
- By L on 07-01-22
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Show Up as Her
- Ten Laws for Reclaiming Your Power, Embodying Magnetic Energy, and Positive Manifestation
- By: CiiCii
- Narrated by: Natasha Soudek
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
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A self-confidence book for women. Is it time to shake up your life? Sick of feeling unfulfilled? Looking at "it" girls and wondering how? CiiCii's empowering book is all about healing negative patterns through radical self-realization, self-love, and growth-all with that positive energy that only a big sister can bring. A self-love bible by the big sister you wish you had. Business owner, life coach, and podcast host CiiCii brings the energy and experience you need for true self-realization and transformation.
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what everyone needs
- By Krystal Robertson on 12-22-24
By: CiiCii
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Keep It Shut
- What to Say, How to Say It, and When to Say Nothing At All
- By: Karen Ehman
- Narrated by: Julie Lyles Carr
- Length: 5 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
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Kind, encouraging, and humorous, Karen Ehman helps us learn the essential practice of using our words more effectively - alleviating heartache and regret, reducing relational tension and conflict, lessening our stress levels, and growing our relationship with God. From Bible times to modern times women have struggled with their words. What to say and how to say it. What not to say. When it is best to remain silent. And what to do when you’ve said something you wish you could now take back.
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Horrid
- By Becky on 07-31-15
By: Karen Ehman
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How to Be a Better Adult
- By: Jacque Aye
- Narrated by: Jynelle Brown
- Length: 6 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Hope Obiako, disillusioned by her mundane existence as a lowly account specialist, discovers a mysterious handbook that drastically changes her life. Hope is a master performer, making a show of her competence and compliance. And while she really is both competent and compliant, no one at William Hensley & Associates seems to see it. But what they never saw coming, behind her quiet and agreeable personality, is Hope’s drive to “make it” by any magical means necessary.
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Great Story!
- By Rachel on 11-25-23
By: Jacque Aye
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Hold You Down
- A Novel
- By: Tracy Brown
- Narrated by: Patryce Williams
- Length: 12 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
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Mercy and Lenox Howard have always only had each other. Growing up on the mean streets of Harlem with an absentee mother meant that they had to have each other's backs. Now young, smart mothers they are determined to survive in New York City while raising their two sons, who have bright futures ahead of them.
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Horrible Narrating
- By Kingdom Faith Services on 02-28-23
By: Tracy Brown
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Black Girls Must Die Exhausted
- A Novel (Black Girls Must Die Exhausted, Book 1)
- By: Jayne Allen
- Narrated by: Marcella Cox
- Length: 9 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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Tabitha Walker is a black woman with a plan to "have it all." At 33 years old, the checklist for the life of her dreams is well underway. Education? Check. Good job? Check. Down payment for a nice house? Check. Dating marriage material? Check, check, and check. With a coveted position as a local news reporter, a "paper-perfect" boyfriend, and even a standing Saturday morning appointment with a reliable hairstylist, everything seems to be falling into place. Then Tabby receives an unexpected diagnosis, jeopardizing the keystone she took for granted: having children.
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Not What I Expected
- By R. Cartwright on 10-16-21
By: Jayne Allen
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Emotional Detox
- 7 Steps to Release Toxicity and Energize Joy
- By: Sherianna Boyle
- Narrated by: Norah Tocci
- Length: 7 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
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Flush out negativity and clear a path for new positive habits, behaviors, and emotions with certified energy healer, yoga instructor, and psychology Professor Sherianna Boyle’s emotional detox program, C.L.E.A.N.S.E.
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Not quite helpful
- By Cynthia on 08-28-20
By: Sherianna Boyle
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The Neighbor Favor
- By: Kristina Forest
- Narrated by: Keylor Leigh, Malik Rashad
- Length: 10 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
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Shy, bookish, and admittedly awkward, Lily Greene has always felt inadequate compared to the rest of her accomplished family, who strive for Black excellence. She dreams of becoming a children’s books editor, but she’s been frustratingly stuck in the nonfiction division for years without a promotion in sight. Lily finds escapism in her correspondences with her favorite fantasy author, and what begins as two lonely people connecting over email turns into a tentative friendship and possibly something else Lily won’t let herself entertain—until he ghosts her without a word.
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Excellent Story! Hope for improvements in the narration
- By brownskinblue on 04-08-23
By: Kristina Forest
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Hood Feminism
- Notes from the Women that a Movement Forgot
- By: Mikki Kendall
- Narrated by: Mikki Kendall
- Length: 6 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
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Today's feminist movement has a glaring blind spot, and paradoxically, it is women. Mainstream feminists rarely talk about meeting basic needs as a feminist issue, argues Mikki Kendall, but food insecurity, access to quality education, safe neighborhoods, a living wage, and medical care are all feminist issues. All too often, however, the focus is not on basic survival for the many, but on increasing privilege for the few. Author Mikki Kendall takes aim at the legitimacy of the modern feminist movement arguing that it has chronically failed to address the needs of all but a few women.
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I Learned So Much!!!
- By Rebecca on 06-13-20
By: Mikki Kendall
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Seven Days in June
- By: Tia Williams
- Narrated by: Mela Lee
- Length: 10 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
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Eva Mercy is a single mom and bestselling erotica writer who is feeling pressed from all sides. Shane Hall is a reclusive, enigmatic, award‑winning novelist, who, to everyone's surprise, shows up in New York. When Shane and Eva meet unexpectedly at a literary event, sparks fly, raising not only their buried traumas, but the eyebrows of the Black literati. What no one knows is that 15 years earlier, teenage Eva and Shane spent one crazy, torrid week madly in love.
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Better than the Reviews Say
- By Akuba on 09-26-21
By: Tia Williams
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Curvy Girl Summer
- By: Danielle Allen
- Narrated by: Wesleigh Siobhan
- Length: 12 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
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Aaliyah is determined to celebrate her thirtieth birthday with a boyfriend. And after a failed blind date, the local bartender, Ahmad, suggests she joins a dating app. Filled with lies, catfish, and fetishizing, the wild world of online dating makes Aaliyah think she’s in over her head. And she is. But with her two best friends and a protective bartender by her side, what could go wrong?
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True love triumphs over trauma
- By S. Holmes on 07-02-24
By: Danielle Allen
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When You're Ready, This Is How You Heal
- By: Brianna Wiest
- Narrated by: Stacey Glemboski
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
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It can begin with a one-time event - typically some form of sudden loss that disrupts our projection of what the future might be. However, the true work of healing is allowing that disruption to wake us from a deep state of unconsciousness, to release the personas we adapted into, and begin consciously piecing together the full truth of who we were meant to be.
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Life changing!!
- By Amazon Customer on 11-12-24
By: Brianna Wiest
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Only for the Week
- By: Natasha Bishop
- Narrated by: J. Shani Michaels, Winston James
- Length: 7 hrs and 3 mins
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You are cordially invited to the wedding of Amerie Cross and Arnold Hightower.
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A real love story
- By Kimette Almon on 05-22-24
By: Natasha Bishop
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- S.E Sconyers
- 09-14-22
GREAT Storytelling!!!
This book was such an easy listen. I'm giving an overall 4 because I wanted more of a conclusion, but I guess that's how life is-ongoing, to be continued. I had to repeat some chapters because of the relatability; even as a millennial 😉 Thank you for sharing yourself Nichole Perkins.
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- Briana Melissa Ford
- 03-19-22
Loved It!
I’m usually not big on essays but I enjoyed every moment of this. And I’m so glad it was read by the author. So relatable. Lots of laughs. A few tears. Some “let me sit and marinate on that” moments. Greatly appreciate the vulnerability.
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- Norma Lee
- 06-21-24
like reminiscing with a bestie
some of these stories made me feel validated and unashamed thank you for being part of my getting ready for work routine thru laughter and heartfelt stories
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- Kelly from Texas
- 08-19-22
Challenged my thoughts
I definately loved the book, and being Gen X the aurthor is relateble. She explained so many things thru the lens of a woman of colors perspective that it really opened my eyes. I do feel we should have more open dialogs btwn women, I think men have "told us our thoughts" too long and I hope that women like this writer keep speaking up and help us all to come forward. think all women should read this book
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- Carmen Smith
- 12-06-22
A great read
I truly enjoyed listening to this book. I identified, laughed, and wondered throughout. It was both fun and interesting. I have somethings to tryout.
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- LaTasha J
- 01-16-23
Nothing dull about it!
This author kept me on my toes. It’s like she knew me personally. From the sexy times down to the let’s tackle stereotypes moments she nailed it. Someone ask her when she’s gonna drop another one and put it in Audible format. I will be buying!!!
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- Jay
- 03-04-23
Book club favorite
Best book we’ve read this far! Definitely relatable and gives book club readers something to talk about!
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- Eddie B.
- 11-02-22
Amazingly honest
I often listen to audiobooks while i work on the ambulance or at my firestation. I am a 40 year old heterosexual black man. This book poped up in my suggestions. I figured i would listen to a bit and move on because i didn’t think i would enjoy the story. I couldn’t have been more wrong. I instantly felt like i was talking to the author and i got a perspective from a black woman that i would have never imagined. This was the most interesting read for me this year. To the author i would like to say thank you .
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- Calvin Sutton
- 06-17-24
The authors vulnerability
I’m definitely going to start reviewing my reads after this because I have SO much to say and that I want to discuss! Ma’am! lol wow.. I’m late to the party reading it but I’m glad I took a chance and picked this one up. I loved Nichole’s vulnerability and honesty. I hate how she viewed herself for a large portion of her younger years but I’m glad she has found space to grow, learn, discuss it and regain her sense of confidence and control! I hope she writes more.. going to review this soon! find me on YT & IG @kimmithebeautiful
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- Amanda lee
- 05-20-22
A great read!!
I love this book!
The story line is so good and keeps you very entertained !
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