
Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart
Discovering the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality
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Bethany Beal
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Kristen Clark
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For the modern Christian woman living in today's sexually charged society, embracing God's design for sex and purity can often feel like an impossible pursuit. As the culture seeks to normalize things such as pornography, erotica, and casual sex, both single and married women of all ages feel immense pressure to conform. With alluring temptations constantly inviting them to join in, they might even begin to question whether God's design is truly good. They wrestle with questions like:
- What is the purpose of my sexuality?
- What does it mean to pursue purity?
- Are my sexual longings good or bad?
In this encouraging book, Kristen Clark and Bethany Beal share honestly about their own struggles and victories, and invite women on a personal journey to discover and reclaim a biblical vision for their sexuality. Kristen and Bethany help women understand why God's design for sexuality is good, relevant, and leads to true hope and lasting freedom.
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- Jessica
- 11-23-22
Encouraging and honest and Biblical
Thank you for writing this book. Your testimony, as well as others, has left me encouraged and hopeful.
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- Victoria Duffoo
- 08-07-19
Bringing to light the "hush hush" questions/topics
So much of this book touched on the topics that girls often think about but don't talk about. No shame here! Desiring emotional and physical intimacy are God-given longings that ultimately point us to having a relationship with our creator. Experiencing singleness, marriage, sex, grace, and healing are all good gifts.
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- Anonymous User
- 02-11-23
The honest girls.
What a beautiful way to write a story of encouragement and light to others. I hope all girls young women read this book, godly perspective, questions for your daily life and intimate life. Keep going Bethany and Kristen!!
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