
Reigniting the Spark
Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy and How to Get It Back
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
$0.99/mo for the first 3 months

Buy for $14.95
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Dr. Bruce Chalmer
About this listen
Create a relationship that lasts.
Dr. Bruce Chalmer’s Reigniting the Spark shows couples how to build a lasting relationship full of passion and fulfillment. You’ll learn how to improve your communication, have better sex, and avoid pointless arguments.
Dr. Chalmer combines his expertise in science with 30 years of experience as a couples therapist to show how you can restore intimacy and overcome any relationship problem to create and maintain a lively, loving, lasting relationship. He offers a unique perspective on the role of faith — not necessarily religious — in relationships. Whatever your faith background, religious or secular, Dr. Chalmer’s approach to faith as a key to unlocking intimacy will inform and inspire you.
This book explores the most common issues that sap the happiness out of a relationship and shows you exactly what to do to turn it around. Written in a relatable and easy-to-understand style, Reigniting the Spark will help you better understand yourself and your partner so you can both be more satisfied.
Whether you’re reading alone or with a partner, Reigniting the Spark will teach you:
- How to build and restore intimacy, trust, and a deep connection in your relationship
- How to identify triggering issues like trauma that could be sapping the joy out of your relationship, and exactly what to do about it
- A list of bad reasons people get married — and one good one
- How to go from plain old sex, to good sex, to sacred sex
- How to be your best self when your partner has been unfaithful
- How to know when to break up, and when to work through the inevitable growing pains in your relationship
Reigniting the Spark is for any couple who’s ready to create a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
You’ll love this book if you like:
- The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Jon Gottman and Nan Silver
- Kosher Sex by Shmuley Boteach
- Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
- The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
- Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendricks and Helen Hunt
Listeners also enjoyed...
-
One More Try
- What to Do When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Jon Gauger
- Length: 3 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Is your marriage worth fighting for? If so, this audiobook is for you. It takes a tremendous amount of strength to overcome skepticism and weariness, and begin the work of healing a broken marriage. But just taking a look at this audiobook shows you have the heart of a fighter. In One More Try, Gary Chapman gives you the courage and confidence to move forward when your marriage is falling apart.
-
-
Save Your Marriage Positive Read
- By Priscilla on 07-23-15
By: Gary Chapman
-
Anxiety in Relationship
- Learn Techniques to Manage Insecurity and Fear of Abandonment to Prevent Couple Conflicts. Overcome Jealousy and Negative Thinking to Establish Long Lasting Relationships
- By: Brené Mindful
- Narrated by: Diedra A Eby
- Length: 5 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Anxiety is a normal human condition. For most people, anxiety is temporary and manageable. However, for some people, anxiety can become acute and/or pervasive. The cause of this anxiety can come from a variety of sources.
By: Brené Mindful
-
Overcome Couple Conflicts
- How Jealousy, Insecure Attachment and Fear of Abandonment Destroy Relationships and How to Build Trust While Resolving Couple Conflicts by Building Effective Communication
- By: Whitney Walsh
- Narrated by: Leigh Ann Haga
- Length: 3 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This book will aid you in dealing with irrational fears, insecure attachments, jealousy, and distrust by teaching you how to communicate desires and needs with your partner, reframe the scenario to see things from a newer perspective, share quality time with your significant other without jealousy or anxiety hampering it, and finally, restore faith in yourself and your partner to grow together and build a fulfilling partnership. You will learn the common triggers that cause couple conflicts, why communication is paramount in any relationship, the significance of trust, and more.
-
-
Great Start to better communication
- By Jacob B. on 01-12-22
By: Whitney Walsh
-
Anxiety in Relationship
- Gaslighting, Narcissistic Abuse, Couples Therapy Workbook, Codependency, Toxic Relationships. Improve Your Communication and Overcome Jealousy. With 1000 Love Affirmations!
- By: Perla Phillips
- Narrated by: Krystal Wascher
- Length: 15 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Overcome jealousy, open up communication lines, and rebuild trust in your relationship with these workbooks that will show you how you can finally build the healthy relationship you’ve always dreamed of!
-
-
Absolutely great
- By Micheal Daniels on 03-30-23
By: Perla Phillips
-
Supporting an Individual in a Toxic Marriage
- How to Compassionately Help Someone Living in an Abusive Relationship
- By: Henry Matthias
- Narrated by: Martin Landry
- Length: 3 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This guide will help you help a friend or family member who is in an abusive relationship without putting them in danger or intimidating their abuser.
-
-
Excellent
- By Patience Blaney on 08-30-23
By: Henry Matthias
-
Happily Ever After...and 39 Other Myths About Love
- Breaking Through to the Relationship of Your Dreams
- By: Linda Bloom, Charlie Bloom
- Narrated by: Doug MacKechnie
- Length: 5 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Happily Ever After...and 39 Other Myths About Love provides you with communication guidelines and tools that will enhance and strengthen your ability to avoid many of the pitfalls that so many couples experience when they mistakenly accept widely held opinions that are masking as "truths".
-
-
Myths that we’ve all believed…
- By SallyAmazon on 04-27-22
By: Linda Bloom, and others
-
One More Try
- What to Do When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Jon Gauger
- Length: 3 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Is your marriage worth fighting for? If so, this audiobook is for you. It takes a tremendous amount of strength to overcome skepticism and weariness, and begin the work of healing a broken marriage. But just taking a look at this audiobook shows you have the heart of a fighter. In One More Try, Gary Chapman gives you the courage and confidence to move forward when your marriage is falling apart.
-
-
Save Your Marriage Positive Read
- By Priscilla on 07-23-15
By: Gary Chapman
-
Anxiety in Relationship
- Learn Techniques to Manage Insecurity and Fear of Abandonment to Prevent Couple Conflicts. Overcome Jealousy and Negative Thinking to Establish Long Lasting Relationships
- By: Brené Mindful
- Narrated by: Diedra A Eby
- Length: 5 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Anxiety is a normal human condition. For most people, anxiety is temporary and manageable. However, for some people, anxiety can become acute and/or pervasive. The cause of this anxiety can come from a variety of sources.
By: Brené Mindful
-
Overcome Couple Conflicts
- How Jealousy, Insecure Attachment and Fear of Abandonment Destroy Relationships and How to Build Trust While Resolving Couple Conflicts by Building Effective Communication
- By: Whitney Walsh
- Narrated by: Leigh Ann Haga
- Length: 3 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This book will aid you in dealing with irrational fears, insecure attachments, jealousy, and distrust by teaching you how to communicate desires and needs with your partner, reframe the scenario to see things from a newer perspective, share quality time with your significant other without jealousy or anxiety hampering it, and finally, restore faith in yourself and your partner to grow together and build a fulfilling partnership. You will learn the common triggers that cause couple conflicts, why communication is paramount in any relationship, the significance of trust, and more.
-
-
Great Start to better communication
- By Jacob B. on 01-12-22
By: Whitney Walsh
-
Anxiety in Relationship
- Gaslighting, Narcissistic Abuse, Couples Therapy Workbook, Codependency, Toxic Relationships. Improve Your Communication and Overcome Jealousy. With 1000 Love Affirmations!
- By: Perla Phillips
- Narrated by: Krystal Wascher
- Length: 15 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Overcome jealousy, open up communication lines, and rebuild trust in your relationship with these workbooks that will show you how you can finally build the healthy relationship you’ve always dreamed of!
-
-
Absolutely great
- By Micheal Daniels on 03-30-23
By: Perla Phillips
-
Supporting an Individual in a Toxic Marriage
- How to Compassionately Help Someone Living in an Abusive Relationship
- By: Henry Matthias
- Narrated by: Martin Landry
- Length: 3 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This guide will help you help a friend or family member who is in an abusive relationship without putting them in danger or intimidating their abuser.
-
-
Excellent
- By Patience Blaney on 08-30-23
By: Henry Matthias
-
Happily Ever After...and 39 Other Myths About Love
- Breaking Through to the Relationship of Your Dreams
- By: Linda Bloom, Charlie Bloom
- Narrated by: Doug MacKechnie
- Length: 5 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Happily Ever After...and 39 Other Myths About Love provides you with communication guidelines and tools that will enhance and strengthen your ability to avoid many of the pitfalls that so many couples experience when they mistakenly accept widely held opinions that are masking as "truths".
-
-
Myths that we’ve all believed…
- By SallyAmazon on 04-27-22
By: Linda Bloom, and others
-
The Narcissist's Playbook
- How to Identify, Disarm, and Protect Yourself from Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths, and Other Types of Manipulative and Abusive People
- By: Dana Morningstar
- Narrated by: Dana Morningstar
- Length: 7 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Do you have a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath in your life, or think that you might? Do you continually feel anxious around someone in your life, but can’t pinpoint why?...Perhaps you know you are being manipulated or abused, but don’t know how to make it stop. The Narcissist’s Playbook can help. You can take back your life.
-
-
powerful
- By All Dolled Up on 01-17-20
By: Dana Morningstar
-
Out of the Fog
- Moving from Confusion to Clarity After Narcissistic Abuse
- By: Dana Morningstar
- Narrated by: Dana Morningstar
- Length: 8 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The FOG is an acronym that stands for "Fear, Obligation, and Guilt". These three emotions are often how narcissists, sociopaths, and other types of emotional manipulators go about controlling others.
-
-
THE best book I’ve ever read on the subject
- By Alexandria Filipowski on 10-23-19
By: Dana Morningstar
-
Narcissistic Abuse
- The Complete Survival Guide for Highly Sensitive People, Overcome Your Childhood Manipulation and Lack of Empathy. Recover Yourself and Take Revenge from Your Toxic Ex
- By: Dr. Keith Sam
- Narrated by: Leigh Ann Haga
- Length: 4 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Narcissistic personality disorder is surprisingly common, affecting up to six percent of the population. People with this disorder can seem charming and self-confident, but their excessive need for admiration from others masks deeper insecurity and self-loathing that drive them to manipulate and abuse the people who care about them.
-
-
Not Gender Neutral, Infrequently Geared Toward Men
- By Anonymous User on 04-01-23
By: Dr. Keith Sam
-
How to Stop Overthinking
- The Ultimate Collection of Books to Overcome Anxiety and Fear of Abandonment with Proven Exercises that Will Increase Your Mental Strength and Help You Master Your Emotions
- By: Laurance Rosemberg, Silvia Watson
- Narrated by: Russell Newton, Jack Henry Kison
- Length: 10 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Emotions are a huge part of our existence, and controlling them is surely a super important skill to master because by controlling your emotions you can easily be able to get off that “emotional rollercoaster”, and finally bring your life into balance. This collection of audiobooks was specifically produced to help you stop overthinking, to make you able to master your emotions and to overcome anxiety in relationships, and it will give you proven tips, tricks, and techniques to never let your emotions control the outcomes of your life again.
-
-
Stopped listening 10 minutes into it
- By Lo F. on 09-07-21
By: Laurance Rosemberg, and others
-
Anxiety in Relationship
- A Step-by-Step Therapy for Couples to Overcome Anxiety, Insecurity, Fear of Abandonment, Jealousy, Attachment, and Conflicts. Including Proven Exercises
- By: Laurance Rosemberg
- Narrated by: Jack Henry Kison
- Length: 4 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Many times, we feel doubt resulting from insecurity, fear of abandonment, jealousy, or anxiety. The cycle of uncertainty can be overwhelming for most, creating conflicts in relationships and negative patterns. Anxiety in Relationship is designed to help you identify the aspects of why you have these negative feelings and learn the tools to establish healthy, thriving relationships by changing the thought patterns that have held you hostage.
-
Narcissistic Relationships Suck
- Defend Yourself from the 9 Types of Personality Disorders
- By: Gary Park
- Narrated by: Helpful Matthew
- Length: 3 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This comprehensive guide is specifically tailored to empower individuals like you, who have experienced the pain and confusion of narcissistic relationships. Through expert advice, practical strategies, and real-life examples, this book offers a compassionate and insightful understanding of your struggles, and the tools needed to heal from the emotional trauma. Narcissistic Relationships Suck. is not just another self-help book: it is a lifeline for those who feel lost in the chaos of a toxic relationship.
-
-
Knowing it’s time to leave ASAP & not feel guilty for saying NO MORE!
- By WebladyUsa on 12-17-23
By: Gary Park
-
How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair
- A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful
- By: Linda J. MacDonald
- Narrated by: Tamara Marston
- Length: 2 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Once an affair comes to light, many unfaithful persons "wake up" and want to save their marriages. Yet they usually make terrible mistakes in their bungled attempts to win back their partners' trust. Linda J. MacDonald, an infidelity specialist for 23 years, has identified behaviors and attitudes that determine unfaithful persons' success or failure to mend their marriages after the wrecking ball of an affair. How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair offers practical advice for those who've strayed and want a second chance.
-
-
Very Helpful
- By Peppertaz on 03-04-17
-
Exaholics
- Breaking Your Addiction to an Ex Love
- By: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby LMFT BCC
- Narrated by: Jennifer Jill Araya
- Length: 9 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Severing a cherished relationship is one of the most painful experiences in life - and cutting those emotional ties to a loved one can feel almost like ending an addiction. Up till now, people recovering from other problems were able to get real help - like AA and rehab - while those struggling in the aftermath of traumatic breaks dealt with platitudes and friends insisting they should "get over it already". But now Exaholics Anonymous treats getting over an ex like kicking a chemical habit.
-
-
Don’t waste your time
- By Sarah El on 09-08-20
-
Making Marriage Work
- Learn How to Identify Irrational Behaviors That Trigger Anxiety and Jealousy, and Know How to Communicate with Your Spouse for Stronger Relationships
- By: Ryan Farrell
- Narrated by: Jim Clark
- Length: 12 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
How often do you talk with your spouse with an open heart? Do you get annoyed with your relationship, subconsciously looking for something new? Do you feel jealous when someone else tries to get close to your partner? Or, maybe, you are just looking for help with improving communication? Most couples, at some stage in their marriage, have to deal with such issues. And it is a serious matter!
-
-
Not good
- By Pamela Rose on 05-15-24
By: Ryan Farrell
-
We Are Codependent
- Cultivate Authentic Relationships by Ceasing to Control Others. Accept Imperfection. How to Deal Traumas, Narcissism, Abuse and Defeat Codependency.
- By: Michael C. Brown
- Narrated by: Aaron Miller
- Length: 4 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The human mind is a masterpiece - one which is defined by several factors, including the things we pass through as humans. Some of these things make us better, while others change us for the worse. In the process of getting changed for the worst, we come out of these situations by totally caring about other people’s problems rather than ours for survival. This is not a good way to live, and to be honest, this is not the way things have been designed to happen.
By: Michael C. Brown
-
Already Free
- Buddhism Meets Psychotherapy on the Path of Liberation
- By: Bruce Tift MA
- Narrated by: Bruce Tift MA
- Length: 7 hrs and 17 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Freedom from unnecessary suffering is the goal of both Buddhism and modern psychotherapy, yet each approaches this intention from a very different perspective. "Buddhist practice helps us awaken to a well-being that is independent of our circumstances," explains Bruce Tift, "while Western psychotherapy helps us bring our disowned experience into awareness in order to live in a more skillful and satisfying way."
-
-
Extraordinary
- By Matt on 11-15-16
By: Bruce Tift MA
-
Disorganized Attachment No More!
- The Complete Blueprint to Achieving a Secure Attachment Style in Relationships
- By: Taha Zaid
- Narrated by: KC Wayman
- Length: 3 hrs and 11 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
It's time to control those overflowing emotions, understand your patterns, and identify the way forward toward a healthier, happier relationship.
-
-
Have a healthy attachment
- By MichSSF on 07-15-23
By: Taha Zaid