
Quit Being a People Pleasing Doormat!
How to Establish Boundaries, Reclaim Your Identity, Assert Yourself, and Say No Unapologetically
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Ben Herold
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Chris Estrada
About this listen
It's time for you to learn how to stand up for yourself and learn how to say "no"!
Dear listener, is it always hard for you to directly ask for something you want? Is the word "sorry" common in your conversational vocabulary? You say "yes" to others when you really want to say "no" because you are scared of disappointing them? Unfortunately, I have bad news for you - you are suffering from "Nice Guy Syndrome". You've probably been conditioned your whole life to please everyone around you: your parents, your family, and your friends and colleagues. And now, you've probably realized that you can't do that any longer. You are becoming unhappy, and you can't bear so much stress anymore. But if you are reading this, congratulations are in order, because you are making the first step toward fixing your problem. You are making the first step toward reclaiming your identity, asserting your dominance, and learning how to stand up for yourself.
Imagine being able to say "no" with poise and confidence. Imagine being able to turn down people, but earning their respect in the process. Quit Being a People Pleasing Doormat is the book that will teach you to do exactly that. So, get ready to learn how to stop being a people pleaser. Sincerely, Chris Estrada.
Here's what this self-help guide will offer you:
- Ways to identify the core of your problems
- How to begin making changes in your life
- Complete guide for reclaiming your identity and setting boundaries
- Expert strategies for turning down people and earning their respect in the process
- And much more!
If you want to finally stand up for yourself and be able to tell anyone "no" without feeling remorse, then this is the perfect guide for you. Learn how to establish boundaries, reclaim your identity, assert yourself, and say "no" unapologetically. So, what are you waiting for?
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