
Permission to Be Tough
Raising Boys to Be Rugged Gentlemen
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
$0.99/mo for the first 3 months

Buy for $14.95
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
E. Roy Worley
-
By:
-
Tim Austin
About this listen
Best-selling author Tim Austin notes, "We live in a troubled world, where raising loving, responsible young men is a challenge." He takes a deep look at the important issues relevant to raising “rugged gentlemen” in a world where it is necessary to, sometimes, give them “permission to be tough".
With a fresh perspective of the myriad people who shape a young man’s future, Austin provides insight, humor, and proven wisdom, backed by decades of being a parent and coach, to show persons of influence in a young man’s life how to provide the kind of innovative, loving guidance young boys need. His book explains exactly what he feels should be expected of our young men and how some parents inadvertently spoil them rotten.
He speaks to the mother’s role to inspire and nurture, whereas a father does better being a role model as he both affirms and challenges them to be their best self. Sports play a big part in the lives of many young men and the coaches who are charged with developing the attitude of a winner.
Together with parents and coaches, schools are instrumental in finding the “sweet spot” where boys are kept on a gentle leash, yet learn how to cope in a complicated world. And, in all this mix, “little princes” are sometimes dethroned, yet are also provided an opportunity to “borrow courage” until theirs is evolved.
Austin puts a wrap on the book by providing a full chapter of activities designed to strategically connect parent and son and, in the end, give them permission to be tough and become rugged gentlemen.
©2019 Tim Austin (P)2020 7 Horse PressListeners also enjoyed...
-
Raising Men
- Lessons Navy SEALs Learned from Their Training and Taught to Their Sons
- By: Eric Davis, Dina Santorelli - contributor
- Narrated by: Peter Berkrot
- Length: 6 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
After Eric Davis spent over 16 years in the military, including a decade in the SEAL teams, his family was more than used to his absence on deployments and secret missions that could obscure his whereabouts for months at a time. Without a father figure in his own life since the age of 15, Eric was desperate to maintain the bonds he'd fought so hard to forge when his children were young - particularly with his son, Jason, because he knew how difficult it was to face the challenge of becoming a man on one's own.
-
-
Principles
- By Joe on 07-25-16
By: Eric Davis, and others
-
Mindset
- The New Psychology of Success
- By: Carol S. Dweck PhD
- Narrated by: Bernadette Dunne
- Length: 10 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
After decades of research, world-renowned Stanford University psychologist Carol S. Dweck discovered a simple but groundbreaking idea: the power of mindset. In this brilliant book, she describes how success in school, work, sports, the arts, and almost every area of human endeavor can be dramatically influenced by how we think about our talents and abilities. In this edition, Dweck offers new insights into her now famous and broadly embraced concept. She introduces a phenomenon she calls false growth mindset and guides people toward adopting a deeper, truer growth mindset.
-
-
😫THIS NARRATOR IS UNBEARABLE 😫
- By The non-critic on 03-29-19
-
Boundaries with Kids
- How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children
- By: Henry Cloud, John Townsend
- Narrated by: Henry O. Arnold
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What the award-winning, best-selling Boundaries has done for adult relationships, Boundaries with Kids will do for you and your children. Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend provide the help and guidance you need for raising your kids to take responsibility for their actions, attitudes, and emotions. With wisdom and empathy, they take you through the ins and outs of instilling the kind of character in your children that will help them lead balanced, productive, and fulfilling adult lives.
-
-
I can already see a difference!
- By Stephen Theall on 10-11-19
By: Henry Cloud, and others
-
Knights in Training
- Ten Principles for Raising Honorable, Courageous, and Compassionate Boys
- By: Heather Haupt
- Narrated by: Heather Haupt
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In an age when respect and honor seem like distant and antiquated relics, how can we equip boys to pursue valor and courageously put the needs of others before their own? This book helps parents to inspire their boys by captivating their imagination and honoring their love for adventure. Heather Haupt explores how knights historically lived out various aspects of the knights' Code of Chivalry, as depicted in the French epic Song of Roland, and how boys can embody these same ideals now.
-
-
Boy moms be inspired in a doable way!
- By Jessica in Wisconsin on 11-13-17
By: Heather Haupt
-
How to Raise an Adult
- Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success
- By: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Narrated by: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Length: 12 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research; on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers; and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large.
-
-
Target Audience- Upper-Middle Class
- By Savy shopper on 06-02-16
-
ScreamFree Parenting, 10th Anniversary Revised Edition
- How to Raise Amazing Adults by Learning to Pause More and React Less
- By: Hal Runkel LMFT
- Narrated by: Hal Runkel LMFT
- Length: 7 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Parenting is not about kids; it's about parents. If you're not in control, then you cannot be in charge. What every kid really needs are parents who are able to keep their cool no matter what. Easier said than done? Not anymore, thanks to ScreamFree Parenting, the principle-based approach that's inspiring parents everywhere to truly revolutionize their family dynamics.
-
-
Eye opening
- By Mark on 09-12-07
By: Hal Runkel LMFT
-
Raising Men
- Lessons Navy SEALs Learned from Their Training and Taught to Their Sons
- By: Eric Davis, Dina Santorelli - contributor
- Narrated by: Peter Berkrot
- Length: 6 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
After Eric Davis spent over 16 years in the military, including a decade in the SEAL teams, his family was more than used to his absence on deployments and secret missions that could obscure his whereabouts for months at a time. Without a father figure in his own life since the age of 15, Eric was desperate to maintain the bonds he'd fought so hard to forge when his children were young - particularly with his son, Jason, because he knew how difficult it was to face the challenge of becoming a man on one's own.
-
-
Principles
- By Joe on 07-25-16
By: Eric Davis, and others
-
Mindset
- The New Psychology of Success
- By: Carol S. Dweck PhD
- Narrated by: Bernadette Dunne
- Length: 10 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
After decades of research, world-renowned Stanford University psychologist Carol S. Dweck discovered a simple but groundbreaking idea: the power of mindset. In this brilliant book, she describes how success in school, work, sports, the arts, and almost every area of human endeavor can be dramatically influenced by how we think about our talents and abilities. In this edition, Dweck offers new insights into her now famous and broadly embraced concept. She introduces a phenomenon she calls false growth mindset and guides people toward adopting a deeper, truer growth mindset.
-
-
😫THIS NARRATOR IS UNBEARABLE 😫
- By The non-critic on 03-29-19
-
Boundaries with Kids
- How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children
- By: Henry Cloud, John Townsend
- Narrated by: Henry O. Arnold
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What the award-winning, best-selling Boundaries has done for adult relationships, Boundaries with Kids will do for you and your children. Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend provide the help and guidance you need for raising your kids to take responsibility for their actions, attitudes, and emotions. With wisdom and empathy, they take you through the ins and outs of instilling the kind of character in your children that will help them lead balanced, productive, and fulfilling adult lives.
-
-
I can already see a difference!
- By Stephen Theall on 10-11-19
By: Henry Cloud, and others
-
Knights in Training
- Ten Principles for Raising Honorable, Courageous, and Compassionate Boys
- By: Heather Haupt
- Narrated by: Heather Haupt
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In an age when respect and honor seem like distant and antiquated relics, how can we equip boys to pursue valor and courageously put the needs of others before their own? This book helps parents to inspire their boys by captivating their imagination and honoring their love for adventure. Heather Haupt explores how knights historically lived out various aspects of the knights' Code of Chivalry, as depicted in the French epic Song of Roland, and how boys can embody these same ideals now.
-
-
Boy moms be inspired in a doable way!
- By Jessica in Wisconsin on 11-13-17
By: Heather Haupt
-
How to Raise an Adult
- Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success
- By: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Narrated by: Julie Lythcott-Haims
- Length: 12 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research; on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers; and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large.
-
-
Target Audience- Upper-Middle Class
- By Savy shopper on 06-02-16
-
ScreamFree Parenting, 10th Anniversary Revised Edition
- How to Raise Amazing Adults by Learning to Pause More and React Less
- By: Hal Runkel LMFT
- Narrated by: Hal Runkel LMFT
- Length: 7 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Parenting is not about kids; it's about parents. If you're not in control, then you cannot be in charge. What every kid really needs are parents who are able to keep their cool no matter what. Easier said than done? Not anymore, thanks to ScreamFree Parenting, the principle-based approach that's inspiring parents everywhere to truly revolutionize their family dynamics.
-
-
Eye opening
- By Mark on 09-12-07
By: Hal Runkel LMFT
-
Wild Things
- The Art of Nurturing Boys
- By: Stephen James, David Thomas
- Narrated by: David Colacci
- Length: 10 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Playing off the themes in the Caldecott Medal-winning children's book Where the Wild Things Are, this informative, practical, and encouraging guide will help parents guide boys down the path to healthy and authentic manhood. Wild Things addresses the physical, emotional, and spiritual parts of a boy, written by two therapists who are currently engaged in clinical work with boys and their parents and who are also fathers raising five sons.
-
-
Helped me understand my boys
- By Danielle Ward on 03-31-20
By: Stephen James, and others
-
The Gift of Failure
- How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed
- By: Jessica Lahey
- Narrated by: Jessica Lahey
- Length: 7 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In the tradition of Paul Tough's How Children Succeed and Wendy Mogel's The Blessing of a Skinned Knee, this groundbreaking manifesto focuses on the critical school years when parents must learn to allow their children to experience the disappointment and frustration that occur from life's inevitable problems so that they can grow up to be successful, resilient, and self-reliant adults.
-
-
Just Ok
- By MB34 on 12-18-19
By: Jessica Lahey
-
The Wonder of Boys
- By: Michael Gurian
- Narrated by: Michael Gurian
- Length: 3 hrs and 18 mins
- Abridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What can parents, mentors, and educators do to shape boys into exceptional men? Michael Gurian, a respected therapist, storyteller, and recognized expert in family systems, explains the basic needs of every boy: a primary and extended family, a relationship with mother, father, and mentors, and support from his community.
-
-
Great Book for Mothers and Fathers
- By Janine on 05-20-09
By: Michael Gurian
-
Raising Great Kids
- By: Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend
- Length: 2 hrs and 46 mins
- Abridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What does it take to raise great kids? Do you get tough? Or show acceptance? Lay down the rules? Or lighten up? In this audio guide, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend show you how to avoid the twin extremes of permissiveness and over-control, and instead give your child the care and acceptance that make grace real to your child and the discipline and firmness that give direction. Drs. Cloud and Townsend provide you with important parenting advice that will help you reach middle-ground in the way you raise your kids.
-
-
Great Book
- By xelaju on 09-09-05
By: Dr. John Townsend, and others
-
Building Better Families
- By: Matthew Kelly
- Narrated by: Matthew Kelly
- Length: 4 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For more than a decade, Matthew Kelly has been traveling the world inspiring people to become the best version of themselves. During this time, he has been amazed at how regularly he is asked: How do I encourage my children to embrace this message? How does your message apply to a family? Now, for the first time, Kelly shares with us remarkable insights and sensible everyday strategies for transforming the family into what it should be: a place where each of us can become the best version of ourselves.
-
-
Great quick listen
- By Kerraline Frerich on 03-17-18
By: Matthew Kelly
-
Gist: The Essence of Raising Life-Ready Kids
- By: Timothy D. Johanson MD, Michael W. Anderson LP
- Narrated by: Laurie Flanigan Hegge, Don Shelby
- Length: 9 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Gist is a powerful book that reviews and examines what the journey to adulthood entails, along with a clear look at those parenting efforts that have proven not to work over the years. Gist is a fascinating look at many aspects of life that wouldn't typically be associated with parenting. But the result is a new way to think about parenting that is effective, efficient, and enjoyable.
-
-
As a pediatrician, I couldn’t agree more.
- By Shawn K. on 09-12-20
By: Timothy D. Johanson MD, and others
-
Raising Emotionally Strong Boys
- Tools Your Son Can Build On for Life
- By: David Thomas LMSW, Sissy Goff - foreword
- Narrated by: David Thomas
- Length: 5 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
About those meltdowns, blowups, and one-word answers . . . Some say that's just how boys are—prone to outbursts or sullenness. But what's behind these and other issues? Drawing from twenty-five years of counseling boys and working with parents, David Thomas sheds light on common emotional struggles, including anger, anxiety, and depression, and shares practical ways you can help your son be resourceful, aware, resilient, and empathetic.
-
-
Some helpful tips, but not all good advice
- By J. Bruce on 09-21-23
By: David Thomas LMSW, and others
-
What a Son Needs from His Mom
- By: Cheri Fuller
- Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Through compelling true stories and solid principles, this book offers a blueprint for what sons need from their moms to become healthy, caring, confident young men. With specific advice for boys' different ages, moms will learn the balance between controlling and letting go, how to cultivate their sons' unique masculinity, how to encourage a lasting relationship with God, and much more.
-
-
Awful narration!
- By Heather Gearing on 12-16-17
By: Cheri Fuller
-
Teach Them to Work
- Building a Positive Work Ethic in Our Children
- By: Mary Beeke
- Narrated by: Sarah Zimmerman
- Length: 6 hrs
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Do your children exhaust you? Have you found yourself finishing their chores because it's, well, easier than getting them to do them? If so, this book will give you new energy and your household new harmony. This book will help your children develop a good work ethic. Mary Beeke, health-care professional, educator, and mother first, helps you absorb parenting principles and then gives you practical principles to bring clarity to roles in your home.
-
-
such a great book!!
- By Amy on 07-29-21
By: Mary Beeke
-
Chosen Suffering: Becoming Elite in Life and Leadership
- By: Tom Ryan, Kirsten D Samuel
- Narrated by: Tom Ryan
- Length: 4 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Want to become elite? Get ready for Chosen Suffering. Real champions aren’t born - they’re built. It’s true in life, business, athletics, and faith. We must transcend physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual limits if we want to achieve ultimate victory. Author Tom Ryan calls this “chosen suffering”. He knows that success comes with a price, paid for by the daily choices we make. He also believes every person encounters “unchosen suffering”, the type that brings us to our knees. In Coach Ryan’s darkest hour, he and his wife discovered joy, peace, and hope.
-
-
Valuable lessons and examples for how to live an integral life.
- By marc on 07-11-24
By: Tom Ryan, and others
-
You Can't Make Me (But I Can Be Persuaded), Revised and Updated Edition
- Strategies for Bringing Out the Best in Your Strong-Willed Child
- By: Cynthia Tobias
- Narrated by: Cynthia Tobias
- Length: 3 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Many parents suspect their strong-willed child is deliberately trying to drive them crazy. Difficult to discipline and seemingly impossible to motivate, these children present unique, exhausting, and often-frustrating challenges to the those who love them. But strong will is not a negative trait. These same children have firm convictions, high spirits, a sense of adventure - all the makings of a great adult. In this book you'll discover how to channel that determination in positive ways as you build a healthy relationship.
-
-
Don't let religious comments keep you away.
- By Nothing really matters on 01-06-14
By: Cynthia Tobias
-
10 Rules for Resilience
- Mental Toughness for Families
- By: Joe De Sena, Lara Pence
- Narrated by: Joe De Sena, Lara Pence
- Length: 7 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Joe De Sena has spent his life running toward challenge and discomfort. Why? Because how we react to challenging situations defines us and our families. The only tools we have as humans to survive the many peaks and valleys of a full life are preparedness, health, leadership, and most importantly, resilience. Why do so many parents struggle to finish things we start, delay gratification, and protect our health - and why do our kids continue to struggle in every facet of life? Because we haven’t showed them a path to resilience, and we haven’t fought for it ourselves.
-
-
Words to live by !
- By ELIZABETH PATNODE on 10-21-21
By: Joe De Sena, and others