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Dr. Tiy-E Muhammad
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Critically acclaimed relationship sex-pert, and licensed therapist Dr. Tiy-E Muhammad is back with his latest installment aptly titled Notes from a Professional Player: The Gangster and the Gentleman where he boldly tackles the antiquated meaning of “Player” and offers a re-imagined definition of what a contemporary player, a.k.a. "Ladies Man", is or supposed to be. Drawing upon his debut novel, From Player to Poet, and his years in private marriage and family counseling, Dr. Tiy-E now raises the bar, and zeros in on the definition of a “Professional Player”, and his responsibilities.
And because it takes one to know one, Dr. Tiy-E says “I take complete ownership on the concept, usage, definition, and knowledge of the word "Player" in this book".
In Notes from a Professional Player, the former radio and TV personality, explicitly addresses a wide range of topics from male sexual prowess (BDE too!) to the sometimes-taboo subject of male hygiene or, lack-there-of. It also includes much deeper, introspective sections on self-image, and fatherhood, encouraging listeners to take a deeper look at their true self versus their perceived self. In Notes from a Professional Player, Dr. Tiy-E lays out a CIA style of question and answer to guide listeners to uncover their own truth by way of candid examples and uncensored storytelling. Delivering dating tips decade-by-decade, Dr. Tiy-E holds men accountable for the fundamentals all “True Players” should adhere to - the foundation of which - is love of self. From moments that tug at your heart, to his lifetime of lessons in manhood, Dr. Tiy-E is unwavering in his truth serum. And it works! Perhaps the reason his latest installment is as brilliantly authentic as his namesake.
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- Anonymous User
- 08-20-23
THE TRUTH SHALL MAKE US/ME TRUTH
LOVED IT!
AN AWESOME SENSE OF SINCERE KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM, & UNDERSTANDING FROM EXPERIENCE ( HANDS ON ) MUCH STUDY, & RESEARCH!!!!! & IF TAKEN TO HEART, MIND, WILL, SPIRIT, SOUL, EMOTIONS, ( BY MEN & ME ) WHAT AWESOME MEN WE * WILL* BE AND OR * CAN * BECOME!!! MAN, I LOVE IT!!!
THANKS, DR. MUHAMMAD!!
#GOT2DOIT #IMDIFFERENT
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- C. Grant
- 03-14-22
A must read for males, young and old!
I loved the fact that the author personally read the book himself for the audiobook version. He has a very nice voice to listen to. Being that the book is a re-write from a previous hard copy, I loved some of the verbiage used to bring the book up to some of today's current events.
I love the controversy that I'm sure will be created once some male egos (maybe even some female egos) get involved and dive deep into this book.
I love the "prolific player".
I think this book should be given out to males at EVERY middle school, high school, and even college.
Some men usually feel their way around early in life and learn about all the amazing advice given in this book, but some don't.
This book could equally be called "From a boy to a man, The Right Way", because it's full of life's lessons/nuggets on what some boys/men should and should not be doing in regards to some of their own personal growth, and in regards to maybe even approaching, being with, and/or finding a woman. Some things should be common sense, but unfortunately, all boys/men don't get the luxury of seeing, meeting, nor following the correct male role models. This book is a good male bible.
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- Josiah Beecham
- 12-18-22
Truly Impactful
As a 22 year old guy this book has given crucial guidance about how to operate proudly in todays dating world. The knowledge given through this book is not usually taught or even talked about especially in today world. Any young man or woman will benefit greatly from reading this book by giving you amazing standards to seek and achieve.
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- Olivia Reed
- 02-24-22
The Blueprint that Men Need!
This book kept my attention from the first page, all the way to the last. It is very well written, organized and has so much relatable content, that I had to listen to it on one sitting. I loved the examples/stories given and Dr. Muhammad has provided the blueprint for men to follow and get accurate results. Definitely a great read and worth your time!
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- Amazon Customer
- 06-08-22
The Real Deal! Exceptional Dating & Relationship Advice From A True Professional Player!
Wow! Dr. Tiy-E Muhammad holds nothing back in Notes From A Professional Player: The Gangster and The Gentleman! A great read for men and women alike!
For men, the book covers a number of crucial topics, such as sex, hygiene, romance, modern technology, etc, all with the purpose of helping the fellas excel in the game.
For those players that have been out the game for a bit, let this be a tool to help you regain your BDE (Big Dick Energy). And for the young-bloods or those that didn’t have a male role model to teach them how to be a player, use this as a guide to help you on your journey to becoming a player. While the game has evolved over the decades, the fundamental rules of engagement still holds true. Men make sure to take notes!
As for the ladies, being one myself, this book has served as a guide to help me understand and identify the REAL players out there. We ladies are equally as responsible (as men) for the degradation of dating and relationships. We must require that any man pursuing us treats us with the dignity and respect we deserve, instead of accepting today’s abysmal dating status quo and/or unhealthy relationships. With the help of this book you will be able to weed out the boys from the real men, the true players!
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- John A. Cloman IV
- 03-24-22
Phenomenal
Dr. Tiy-E Muhammed my Frat brother and Friend for over 20 years. I’ve read a few of his books and this one by far is the best. They all have meaning and leave you with positive insight on how to be better in several ways. I took away a lot from this book especially “stay in your lane”, and will use them to improve my 20 plus year marriage to my beautiful wife. I can go on for hours but I recommend reading or listening to him explain the truth about a man and his mindset. A Professional Player signing out. 🤟🏽
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- moz
- 02-28-22
Great listen!
i appreciate the insight! Dr. Muhammad never disappoints. Buy the audiobook, you will not regret it.
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- felisha
- 04-06-22
A Must Read!
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. So many key points and takeaways throughout. My favorite chapters were 5(stay in your lane), 12(BDE), 10(Lead Her) and 6(Know thyself) ranked in that order. The ending sealed the deal for me...THE final note enlightens the reader by saying: it's in a woman's nature to do for you and make sure you're happy...that needs to be communicated to all MEN!!
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- Kim
- 04-10-22
Excellent book, especially for young males!
I think both males and females can learn something from this book. It gives an Excellent in site to dating and being in a relationship. But I would definitely recommend all young males to read it.
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- Anonymous User
- 04-11-22
AWESOME!
awesome! i wish i knew these jewels 30 years ago! you never learning the lessons of life!
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