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True Stories of Love, Loss, and Redemption
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The most popular, provocative, and unforgettable essays from the past 15 years of the New York Times "Modern Love" column - including stories from the upcoming anthology series starring Tina Fey, Andy Garcia, Anne Hathaway, Catherine Keener, Dev Patel, and John Slattery
A young woman goes through the five stages of ghosting grief. A man’s promising fourth date ends in the emergency room. A female lawyer with bipolar disorder experiences the highs and lows of dating. A widower hesitates about introducing his children to his new girlfriend. A divorcée in her 70s looks back at the beauty and rubble of past relationships.
These are just a few of the people who tell their stories in Modern Love, Revised and Updated, featuring dozens of the most memorable essays to run in The New York Times "Modern Love" column since its debut in 2004.
Some of the stories are unconventional, while others hit close to home. Some reveal the way technology has changed dating forever; others explore the timeless struggles experienced by anyone who has ever searched for love. But all of the stories are, above everything else, honest. Together, they tell the larger story of how relationships begin, often fail, and - when we’re lucky - endure.
Edited by longtime "Modern Love" editor Daniel Jones and featuring a diverse selection of contributors - including Mindy Hung, Trey Ellis, Ann Hood, Deborah Copaken, Terri Cheney, and more - this is the perfect audiobook for anyone who’s loved, lost, stalked an ex on social media, or pined for true romance: In other words, anyone interested in the endlessly complicated workings of the human heart.
©2019 Daniel Jones, Andrew Rannells, Ayelet Waldman, Amy Krouse Rosenthal, Veronica Chambers (P)2019 Random House AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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- Emily D.
- 11-02-21
Inspiring, heartbreaking, and thought provoking.
A must read for those who are empaths or who aspire to be. Heartfelt and heartwrenching!
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- Amazon Customer
- 10-24-20
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amazing performances!!! touching stories !!! so highly recommend , and even if from 2005 a lot of them still totally modern!
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- REBECA I.
- 08-25-21
loved it!
I got the book because I really liked the series at Prime Video' and I LOVED the book. All the stories are so honest
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- sarah
- 05-27-21
Lovely!
heartwarming, beautiful stories that give you hope in today's modern love. If you love the podcast or read the column in the new york times this is a must.
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- Eddie
- 02-20-22
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Some stories connected better than others - probably the usual for a compilation book like this.
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- Leo B.
- 09-26-21
Modern Love needs a variety of narrators
These are interesting stories, however the narration is repetitive. 4 voices for all these stories doesn’t represent the breadth and dept of the articles.
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