
Manhood for Amateurs
The Pleasures and Regrets of a Husband, Father, and Son
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Michael Chabon
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Michael Chabon
About this listen
Manhood for Amateurs is the first sustained work of personal writing from Michael Chabon. In these insightful, provocative, slyly interlinked essays, one of our most brilliant and humane writers presents his autobiography and his vision of life in the way so many of us experience our own: as a series of reflections, regrets, and re-examinations, each sparked by an encounter, in the present, that holds some legacy of the past.
What does it mean to be a man today? As a devoted son, as a passionate husband, and above all as a father, Chabon's memories of childhood, of his parents' marriage and divorce, of moments of painful adolescent comedy and giddy encounters with the popular art and literature of his own youth, are like a theme played by the mad quartet of which he now finds himself co-conductor.
At once dazzling, hilarious, and moving, Manhood for Amateurs is destined to become a classic.
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Whether reflecting on his role as son, brother, husband, or father, Chabon's delightful essays are provocative and insightful. This wide-ranging collection touches on everything from becoming a father to losing a father-in-law (through divorce); from musings on a quirky childhood to a discussion of what society considers to be a "good father" today. He also describes his quandary over what to do with his four children's prolific artwork. By turns poignant and witty, Chabon is a comfortable, inviting narrator. His relaxed and conversational style is shot through with occasional fervent moments. He's unhurried yet precise in his pacing and phrasing, and most of all likably, often ruefully, humorous.
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- Randall
- 06-22-10
profound
I had moments where I laughed so hard and others where I stopped while I was running on the trail and sat and wept as the images of my life, my own kids, my own father swept over me. What a profound writer and thinker. Outstanding!!!
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- David
- 01-11-10
Awesome Book!
I don't think that the other reviewers actually read this book. Perhaps it is because Michael Chabon and I were born around the same time and have lived some similar experiences, but I thought this book was fantastic. I kept thinking as I would read a particular passage,"yes...I wish I had thought of that" or "I wish I could write like that". It is beautifully written essays about life that are remarkably ordinary and profound at the same time. I love his reading voice too. This is a book that I have now listened to several times and I will keep it on my ipod for a long time hence as well. Thoroughly delightful.
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- Jonelle
- 12-14-12
Enjoyable, fun and thought provoking!
This was a quick read book of essays by and about author Michael Chabon's life.
Chabon was surprisingly revealing. (I found myself wondering if I were Michael Chabon's kid, would I want to read something that talks so frankly about my parent's sex life or pot-smoking habits? But, that's part of what makes it interesting.) And, while it seemed kind of light weight and quick-to-digest at the time, even after several weeks I still find myself thinking about and talking about some of his essays with others.
I especially enjoyed the essay about the clock of the long now and how when we were growing up, people actively talked about and imagined the future - what it would be like, look like, the new ways in which people would interact with technology. Chabon said that now, no one thinks about the future - perhaps because daily life is all changing so fast.
Enjoyable, fun and thought provoking!
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- Joshua Kim
- 06-10-12
Loving Chabon
Fatherhood is about constant failure. We will be impatient when we should be wise. Focussed on trivial matters when we should be hanging out with our kids. Talking when we should be listening. Distracted when we should be focussed. Chabon is one of my favorite novelists, a beautiful and funny writer. His stories of growing up in a divorced household in the 1970s rang true to my own (although Chabon is about 6 years older) - we both swam through endless amounts of pop culture crap. His attempts to create a stable and invigorating home life (4 kids and a writing spouse) provide a funny roadmap and mirror the rest of us amateur dads, husbands, and guys.
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- Susan
- 09-12-12
A trip down memory lane
What did you love best about Manhood for Amateurs?
Michael gave us a peek into the mind of the "male", a taste of nostalgia and more then a few laughs.
What about Michael Chabon’s performance did you like?
Always love it when the Author can read his own work..We get the insight from the writers personal voice inflection
Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?
Sure made me laugh! A lot!
Any additional comments?
Male or Female...a great read/listen.
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- Autumn
- 09-26-12
Amusing ruminations by a charming &bright neurotic
I tried this one because I enjoyed The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay so much.
It was a pleasure to hear him tell his stories, in his own words - his life experience that helped shape that magnificent story.
The only thing I didn't really care for was the "series of short stories" aspect of it. Why I expected a solid through-line or a planned out story arc I don't know, other than I really admired it in his other book. I will certainly be checking out his other books, but eventually - not right away. I need to be ready to hear about another terrible death of a dog.
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- ST
- 06-18-24
Wonderful
A friend, who helps you consider your roles as a man, son, brother, husband, and father--and to see the beauty and humor therein
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- Stewart R. Miller II
- 03-10-23
Brilliant!
These essays capture what it is to be human, mortal, sentient and sensitive. There's no better writer working today.
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- Ben
- 07-09-12
Wonderful
Where does Manhood for Amateurs rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?
Manhood for Amateurs ranks in the top tier of audiobooks I've listened to thus far.
What was one of the most memorable moments of Manhood for Amateurs?
I especially loved the piece on pockets and pocketbooks
What about Michael Chabon’s performance did you like?
He read it as if he had read it because he had and it worked well.
Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?
No, that would be ridiculous.
Any additional comments?
Chabon's life hasn't been more amazing than other people, but his expressions of his feelings and experiences are wonderful. His writing illuminate so many great points about life and being a person amongst a huge society.
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- Lissa Goldman
- 12-27-11
A funny and warm narrative
As a long time fan of Michael Chabon and his wife Ayelet Waldman, I felt some trepidation reading his memoir. But my hestitation soon evaporated as I entered into his funny and insightful memories and thoughts.
Mr. Chabon narrates his own story giving it more depth and feeling. He is a funny smart and modest man living a full life as a father, husband and writer.
His insights are worth listening to and this audio book was a pleasure to listen to.
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