
Ladysitting
My Year with Nana at the End of Her Century
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Lorene Cary
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Lorene Cary
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Lorene Cary's grandmother moves in, and everything changes: day-to-day life, family relationships, the Nana she knew - even their shared past.
From cherished memories of weekends she spent as a child with her indulgent Nana to the reality of the year she spent "ladysitting" her now frail grandmother, Lorene Cary journeys through stories of their time together and five generations of their African American family. Brilliantly weaving a narrative of her relationship with Nana - a fierce, stubborn, and independent woman, who managed a business until she was 100 - Cary looks at Nana's impulse to control people and fate, from the early death of her mother and oppression in the Jim Crow South to living on her own in her New Jersey home.
Cary knew there might be some reckonings to come. Nana was a force: Her obstinacy could come out in unanticipated ways-secretly getting a driver's license to show up her husband, carrying on a longtime feud with Cary's father. But Nana could also be devoted: to Nana's father, to Black causes, and - Cary had thought - to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Facing the inevitable end raises tensions, with Cary drawing on her spirituality and Nana consoling herself with late-night sweets. When Nana doubts Cary's dedication, Cary must go deeper into understanding this complicated woman.
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- Melody B. Harrop
- 05-03-22
memoir resonates
The memoir will resonate to anyone who has cared for an elder. The story is told with humor and love. The author does an excellent job of conveying her Nanna's voice.
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-16-19
a must read for anyone who's cared for a loved one
Ms. Carey so perfectly captures the love and frustration, absurdities, pain, and humor of caring for an aging loved one through their final time on earth. She's also a very fine narrator who's lovely voice graces her writing with charm and depth.
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- Kindle Customer
- 12-11-23
Hits Close To Home
The author's care of her Nana was eerily similar to what I went through with my grandmother, so I found this book sad but also really comforting. And I've never felt so seen or understood as I did whenever checking the water level on Nana's steam boiler was mentioned in a chapter.
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- Renee Settles-Bean
- 02-26-20
Awesome
Great book! Captures the life cycle brilliantly! Thanks for sharing your family with us! I hated for it to end!
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- Blithe Chick
- 09-08-22
Simply beautiful
I loved this book. It reminded me of the journey that I took with my “Mommom” as she entered her 80s. We had a loving, caring relationship that I too came to see differently in the end;not bad or good but more realistically. I enjoyed Lorene’s humor. The book is well written.
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- Ashley Beaman
- 07-12-23
Easily my favorite listen this year!
Ladysitting is an incredible memoir full of raw emotion tucked into everyday moments caring for a loved one as they age and pass. Lorene Cary is gifted at explaining these realities in a way everyone can relate to. Lorene is also an incredible narrator of her own work! I loved how her faith in God, tried and true, is weaved throughout her story.
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- thomaar
- 07-07-23
Story Drug Out A Bit
it was a bit of a drag for me. But was interesting explaining the end of life process and struggle
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