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How to Stop Choosing Them Over Yourself

End the Pattern of Self-Betrayal and Begin Choosing You Every Day

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How to Stop Choosing Them Over Yourself

By: Lena Hartley
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You’re tired of being everything for everyone—
and still feeling like you’re not enough.

You say “yes” when you want to say “no.”
You carry their emotions like they’re your responsibility.
You feel guilty just for needing time alone.

This isn’t love. It’s self-betrayal.

In this emotionally powerful guide, Lena Hartley leads you back to yourself.
Through stories, reflections, and gentle truth-telling, you’ll learn how to:

  • Recognize the hidden ways you abandon yourself

  • Break free from people-pleasing and emotional exhaustion

  • Set boundaries without guilt or fear

  • Let go of the roles that keep you small

  • Build relationships rooted in reciprocity

  • Choose peace, clarity, and your own worth—every single day

If you’ve spent your whole life choosing them…
This is your invitation to finally choose you.

Emotions Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships
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