
How to Stay Safe Online
A Digital Self-Care Toolkit for Developing Resilience and Allyship
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Seyi Akiwowo
About this listen
Brought to you by Penguin.
Digital spaces are a positive force for change, connection and community, but left unregulated, they are not always safe. Globally, women are 27 times more likely than men to be harassed online. 78 per cent of LGBTQ+ people have experienced hate crime and hate speech online and there has been a 71 per cent rise in online disability abuse.
How to Stay Safe Online will teach you how to spot, respond to, and protect yourself from online abuse and learn how to be a good ally to those experiencing it. An urgent and necessary digital self-care tool, this book will help you to support victims and empower friends, teachers, parents and willing allies to report abuse to social media companies and make online spaces safer.
With a blend of practical advice, Seyi's personal experiences and potential interviews with Hera Hussain, Gabby Edlin, Laura Bates, Yassmin Abdel and Diane Abbott, How to Stay Safe Online will:
Provide practical tips on how to confidently navigate online spaces
Teach you how to report and react to online abuse
Provide information for employers, parents and teachers
Teach you how to set boundaries and use the internet as a force for good
Help you create your own digital self-care plan
This will be the go-to guide to developing resilience, compassion and allyship online.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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