
How to Deal With Assholes
A Guide For Breaking Free From the Assholes In Your Life
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Miranda Crandall
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Are you overwhelmed by the assholes in your life? Authors Trudy Snow and Jan Vandenberg cover the different types of assholes we may encounter and how to prevent them from ruining our lives. Trudy Snow and Jan Vandenberg are subject matter experts in topics related to managing toxic people and conflict resolution. This book offers a simple and common sense perspective about difficult personalities because after all they are all assholes. The authors provide a fresh, non-clinical perspective to help you create an asshole prevention plan so you can end your bad relationships with assholes and identify signs that someone new in your life may be an asshole. Now is the time for you to break free from the assholes in your life!
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