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Greg Young
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Tim Ozman
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How to Control Co-Dependent People takes a satirical approach to shedding light upon a very dark subject: narcissistic abuse. I wrote this in 2015, and shortly thereafter, my life took a turn for the better and I put all this behind me.
I actually forgot what it was like to be codependent. Since then, I’ve gone further in my research into what underlies toxic interpersonal relationships, and I’ve learned how to identify it in government, media, religion, and corporations and the dynamic between these entities and those they control, influence, and/or enslave.
I believe the master-slave dichotomy is the fundamental struggle here, as we are born into a society that encourages and rewards lockstep conformity.
This audiobook is intended to demonstrate to those struggling with codependency just how narcissists actually view them. By hearing their “play book”, codependents should be able to recognize covert abuse and avoid its pernicious effects.
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- P-Paw
- 01-09-20
Loved it!
This really gives a lot of insight into how narcissist treats a person especially how I was treated. I will listen to it several more times for sure!
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- Buddha
- 05-29-19
Good
Interesting but I didnt find it structured well enough to portray the things the author was trying to get at.
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- Smokey
- 05-20-19
A hard one to listen too, short but worth
It's painful to listen too but must be heard. It really establishes the mechanisms of dependant people and the people who use those people.
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- M. Grant
- 04-16-19
A Great Perspective of the Narcissist
This was the best $3.95 I've ever spent. This is a great summary of narcissistic behavior, some of which I've experienced first hand.
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- dezerae
- 08-30-19
otherwise perfect, just research mental Hth stigma
Narcisstic personality Disorder=/=abuser. signed, borderlinePD with an ex just like this pattern described. say "abuser".
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- rachel
- 06-21-22
Very Insightful
The author takes a dark and honest approach to calling out to victims of narcissistic/psychological/emotional/verbal abuse to wake up and see what their abusers are doing to them. The first step to escaping an abusive relationship is realizing what is being done to you. Yes, it is written as a handbook for a narcissistic, but even if a narcissistic read it, it would have no bearing at all of their behavior. Narcissistic’s are, by definition, unable to have insight into themselves. They cannot turn the mirror on themselves. They would never admit that this is how they view their victims. They cannot admit that they have victims at all, because that would depend on the admission that they are abusers.
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- Amazon Customer
- 09-15-21
wow
very sadistic. can't believe this exists. I felt a little sick the whole time I was listening.
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It gave me a different insight on people and life
it was a eye opener for me I been holding on to people who are not good for me...
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- Brandon pennix
- 12-16-19
this book should be called how to be a narcissist
I'm a real individual and my IG or Twitter are both @CHROHM3 I'm a music artist on the search for knowledge.
WATCH OUT!!
I DO NOT RECOMEND THIS BOOK TO EVERYONE>
I DO NOT RECOMEND THIS BOOK TO THE WEEK WILLED OR SQUEAMISH
I DO NOT RECOMEND THIS BOOK TO ARE EASILY CONTROLED
read below to figure out why
this book teaches you how to become a narcissistic individual.
if your looking for how to be a narcissist? this is the way to do it.
or if you're trying to get away from a narcissist then this is how you learn about them.
either way this book is very influential. it will catch you if you are not careful.
this is just one way. but every good narcissist does all of this whether they know it or not.
its like a club. the reason i know is because i know narcissists. and i didn't know i knew them but the things in this book help me notice the people that have the same traits and strategy's without ever reading this book.
there's different levels of narcissism WATCH OUT
I'm a real individual and my IG or Twitter are both @CHROHM3 I'm a music artist on the search for knowledge.
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- M
- 06-18-19
There's an IDENTICAL book!
There's another book of similar title with the exact same duration! The author is Jon Bet. So who is the author? While I enjoyed the satire, I'm obviously annoyed I bought the same book TWICE. Even if they made it different through a few words, it's the SAME story. I see this as a scam for extra sales. Obviously, I fell for it!
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