
How to Be a Pastor's Wife
Your Step-by-Step Guide to Being a Pastor's Wife
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Jamie Hershberger
About this listen
If you want to learn the basics of being a pastor's wife then listen to this guide, which is written by a person who has real-life experience being a pastor's wife for many years.
In this step-by-step guide, you will reap the following benefits:
- Learn how to prepare on becoming a pastor's wife
- Be guided before getting married to a pastor
- Read real life stories supporting concepts presented in each chapter
- Learn how to become hospitable
- Learn how to protect your marriage and your children as well
- Learn how to deal with others' expectations
- In every chapter there are tips presented on what to do and not to do
- Be aware of the best and worst things about being a pastor's wife
- And much more!
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- Imagstl
- 03-23-20
Good Info
Some good information for women who are new to the ministry and desire to be good supporters for their husbands.
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- G. Ryals
- 11-26-24
Good inside information
I was looking for information that would help me in a couple of areas. 1) To support my husband who is just a member of our church but does alot to help the preacher. and 2) to understand what our preacher's wife is dealing with so I can support her. This book was very insightful for me as I'm not very familiar with what goes on behind the scenes at church. Thanks for taking the time to write this, it has helped me quite a bit to understand where I can fit in and help.
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