
How We Relate
Understanding God, Yourself, and Others Through the Enneagram
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Jesse Eubanks
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Jesse Eubanks
About this listen
Read by the author.
An Enneagram book like no other, How We Relate helps you discover how God speaks into your unique personality and life story to make the gospel come alive for you.
In How We Relate, Enneagram coach and host of The EnneaCast podcast Jesse Eubanks invites you to discover who you are. In this illustrated guide, he expertly utilizes the Enneagram to lead you to the heart of Jesus, where you will find the wholeness you long for.
As you peel back the layers of your False Self, encounter Jesus, and experience the redemption of your True Self, you will discover how to:
- Understand your personality and the personalities of others.
- Explore your distinct approach to relationships.
- Discover how Jesus empathizes with and heals your unique core wound.
- Interpret the Enneagram through the gospel story.
- Experience more meaningful relationships with God, others, and yourself.
Life is about relationships. It's time to transform yours.
Images and diagrams are included in the audiobook companion PDF download.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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- Amy Riley
- 02-12-23
Great book!
Easy read/listen. Helpful in understanding self and why I do what I do. Gave insightful challenges and specific spiritual practices to grow relationship with God.
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- Elmer M.
- 02-14-23
Excellent read!
Excellent read on understanding enneagrams and how we relate to God and others. I thought I was a strong 2 but started seeing I was a 2 mixed with a 9 and had traits of many of the others. Was nice to read about how I became those and how other people developed their number. Wondering at what age our number comes out? Highly recommend!
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- Charlie
- 03-09-23
Been There Done That
A bit too repetitive and fluffed up, but not the worst thing I've ever read? to be honest it felt more like a rushed college essay than a well-researched psycho-theology book.
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