
He's Just Not That Into You
The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
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Narrated by:
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Greg Behrendt
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Liz Tuccillo
About this listen
Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you".
He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out", consider the glorious thought that maybe He's Just Not That Into You. And then set yourself loose to find the one who is.
©2004 Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo (P)2004 Simon & Schuster AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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Did you know that men secretly use texting as a way to "pre-screen" a woman’s romantic value? A woman’s texting habits can reveal a lot about her self-worth, confidence, intelligence, and even her level of class and emotional maturity. Because guys covertly appraise a woman’s relationship potential this way, many women often have no idea that the way they communicate via text is actually sending the wrong message and thus, they unknowingly end up chasing men away.
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Love it!
- By Amazon Customer on 04-08-19
By: Bruce Bryans
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Never Get Ghosted Again
- 15 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest and How to Avoid Guys Who Can't Commit
- By: Bruce Bryans
- Narrated by: Dan Culhane
- Length: 3 hrs and 49 mins
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No woman can change the reality that any man, no matter how interested or invested he may first appear, can potentially pull away and lose interest in her at some point. Although this is the reality, a woman can, in fact, change the way she deals with such situations. While you might not be able to control a man's behavior, you can control your own. Being in control of your emotions, especially when a man's behavior threatens your future with him, will make it easier for you to influence his heart and make him see you as an irreplaceable, high-value woman.
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A Woman’s Perspective
- By Shopper on 05-24-21
By: Bruce Bryans
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Act like a Lady, Think like a Man
- What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
- By: Steve Harvey
- Narrated by: Mike Hodge
- Length: 6 hrs and 5 mins
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Steve Harvey can't count the number of impressive women he's met over the years - the many incredible women who can run a business, have three kids, maintain a household in tiptop shape, and chair a church group all at the same time. So when it comes to relationships, why can't these same women figure out what makes men commit? According to Steve, it's because they're asking other women for advice when they should be going directly to the source.
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Worth a listen
- By Virginia V. on 07-24-16
By: Steve Harvey
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The 7 Irresistible Qualities Men Want in a Woman
- What High-Quality Men Secretly Look for When Choosing the One
- By: Bruce Bryans
- Narrated by: Dan Culhane
- Length: 1 hr and 48 mins
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A high-quality man who knows what he wants will NOT settle for just any woman to build a meaningful relationship with. Men like this want a woman who exudes high character. And though she may be beautiful on the outside, he expects her inner worth to be far superior to the women around her. Although different men want VERY different things, there are certain feminine qualities that ALL commitment-able men look for when choosing a long-term mate. Only the woman who possesses these feminine qualities will find attracting men ? quality men ? to be both an effortless and rewarding activity.
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BEST book for ladies....
- By lizfit on 10-06-15
By: Bruce Bryans
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He's Lying Sis
- Uncover the Truth Behind His Words and Actions, Volume 1
- By: Stephan Labossiere
- Narrated by: Stephan Speaks
- Length: 2 hrs and 42 mins
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Do you fight thoughts of suspicion or distrust in your relationship? Is there a huge disconnect between his actions and his words? Do you wonder why he says one thing and does the total opposite? Need answers to your relationship questions that you can trust? He’s Lying Sis exposes some of the most deceptive games men play when dating, or even while in relationships. This dating book will allow women to connect the dots between a man’s actions and his words.
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EXCUSES
- By Domesticgypsie on 02-20-21
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Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl
- By: Natalie Lue
- Narrated by: Lucy Price-Lewis
- Length: 10 hrs and 16 mins
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Are you the Fallback Girl? If you've ever found yourself in a relationship that feels and seemingly looks like one, but you're struggling with commitment, or you've been in the ambiguous territory of a "casual relationship", you've likely tried to change them, wondered what you did to cause this, what you can do to win their love and commitment, or even whether you're going crazy.
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An unavailable, fall back's girl momentary realizations verbalized
- By Rina on 08-15-15
By: Natalie Lue
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The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship
- By: Natalie Lue
- Narrated by: Lucy Price-Lewis
- Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
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Most people, if asked, would deny that they'd ever had fantasy relationships, as they are associated with pretending to be with someone or in something that's nonexistent. However, it's time for you to change what you think you know. In this modern age of texts, email, Facebook, online dating, and casual relationships, it's never been so easy to find yourself in a crumb-filled fantasy relationship.
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Just ok...
- By LaKita on 09-13-17
By: Natalie Lue
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Men Don't Love Women Like You!
- The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder... to Game Changer
- By: G. L. Lambert
- Narrated by: Clay Lomakayu
- Length: 6 hrs and 11 mins
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Why isn't your love life where you want it to be? Are you going to point fingers at the quality of today's men, blame the city that you live in, or come up with the defense that you don't have the energy to date? You pretend to be working on yourself, but you secretly hope and wish that Prince Charming will fall in your lap. You make the excuse that it's not you, it's the men, but there is something inside of you that knows the common denominator in all of your failed relationships was you!
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Missing chapters
- By Marilynn17 on 05-31-18
By: G. L. Lambert
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Make Him BEG for Your Attention
- 75 Communication Secrets for Captivating Men to Get the Love and Commitment You Deserve
- By: Bruce Bryans
- Narrated by: Dan Culhane
- Length: 1 hr and 58 mins
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Men give their undivided attention to those who respect them. If a man doesn't feel respected communicating with you, he'll find the respect he needs elsewhere. The woman who knows how to communicate with men can influence the man she wants without resorting to "that mini-skirt he loves." A man craves the attention of a gracious woman who knows exactly what to say to him, when to say it, and most importantly, how to say it to get what SHE wants. Men love being gracefully influenced by the woman they adore.
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Often condescending but good points
- By HotMessBarbie on 01-03-17
By: Bruce Bryans
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Get the Guy
- Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve
- By: Matthew Hussey
- Narrated by: Matthew Hussey
- Length: 7 hrs and 59 mins
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Most dating books tell you what not to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you can do. In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey - relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love - reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love. Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships.
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Loved everything about this audiobook!
- By Margaret S. Wilson on 07-29-15
By: Matthew Hussey
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Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away
- 12 Relationship Killers That Ruin Your Long-Term Potential with High-Quality Men
- By: Bruce Bryans
- Narrated by: Dan Culhane
- Length: 1 hr and 5 mins
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Goodhearted, highly masculine, relationship-minded men will do everything in their power to avoid falling in love with a woman who could make their life a living hell. And because of this one simple fact, guys like this are very discriminating when assessing a woman's long-term relationship potential.
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For those that don't realize their own faults.
- By Katawny Webber on 03-26-18
By: Bruce Bryans
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The No Contact Rule
- By: Natalie Lue
- Narrated by: Lucy Price-Lewis
- Length: 6 hrs and 56 mins
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You're trying to get over your ex, yet you're still in touch and have ended up being his or her backup plan. Maybe you haven't left yet, but you want to and just don't know how. Maybe you're tired of doing the lather, rinse, repeat of getting back together and winding up back at square one. It's time to cut contact. The No Contact Rule is an inspiring guide to extinguishing the temptation to stay in touch or to keep engaging, helping you to reclaim your sense of self and move on to a healthier relationship.
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I can not recomment this book highly enough!
- By Amazon Customer on 02-14-17
By: Natalie Lue
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Bitch Up! Expect More, Get More
- A Woman's Guide to Maintaining Her Power and Sanity After a Breakup
- By: Leslie Braswell
- Narrated by: Brittany Goodwin
- Length: 3 hrs and 2 mins
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Unpretentious, upfront advice for perpetual man-pleasers who want to stop repeating the same mistakes over and over but don't know how. Have you ever cried, begged, and bargained for a man to take you back after a breakup? Have you been called the crazy ex? Have you ever had a breakdown after a breakup? If so, Bitch Up! Expect More, Get More is a must-listen to help you through a breakup to get you ready for a future relationship better than you could ever imagine.
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Misleading title- Do not waste your time reading
- By AE on 07-13-21
By: Leslie Braswell
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- Paul
- 12-13-04
We Are Pathetic
Women are taught, at a very early age, how to stay in relationships. They know how to connect interpersonally. Men, on the other hand, are taught, at an early age, how to get into relationships... and that's it. That is all they know.
As a guy, I have recommended this book to every single woman I know. It is painful, but it is the truth. If you want to know what goes through a guy's mind (or what isn't going through it) listen to this book.
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- Jenny
- 01-10-06
A good basic message.
In order to make this book more accessible, the authors often use easy maxims, such as "He doesn't call." to try to get the point across that "He's not that into you." This makes the book easy to criticize (and I have my own issue with "Women should never make the first move.").
However, after listening to the entire book, one realizes that the underlying message is that if the person you are dating (and I agree with previous reviewers that this book would help both men and women) is not treating you the way you want/deserve, you need to move on.
I do take issue with the previous reviewer who uses the example of a woman who talks of marriage before the salad; that is not who this book is for or about (perhaps he should FINISH the book before reviewing it).
Sadly enough, the examples used in this book include the woman who hopefully dates a married man for a year, or the other woman whose partner refuses to commit for whatever reason after many years. When years (and pride, I mean, please, a married person?!) are lost, "having fun" is no longer funny.
If anything, I do think this book PROMOTES dating, as it makes sure a woman doesn't get stuck on and "wait for" someone who is not good for her for the long run.
This book teaches me to spend my time with people who truly like me and who meet my standards of a decent human being. Not to much to ask for, is it?
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- Amber
- 08-25-08
knowledge to listen to over and over
very helpful should be used as a tool when in bad relationship or bad break up
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- Christopher Brown
- 01-20-05
MEN READ THIS BOOK
MEN do the the same things as these women do. If you think this book applies to women only you are sadly mistaken. Men can benefit from this book also. I can't tell you how many times I have gone out with or heard my friends talk about women who do these same things as Gregg says men do. Must read for anyone ( male or female ) who is dating. Or really in any social setting.
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- Dawn
- 04-18-09
Hilariously helpful
This is one of those books that you will not want to stop listening to once you start. It is hilarious in its presentation and painfully truthful in topics presented. The sting if the truth delivered with humor makes it easier to accept without beating yourself up for not seeing the patterns before.
GREAT book, worth listening to if you are single or have single friends who often discuss their dating life with you. Enjoy!
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- Chelsea McDuff
- 06-13-18
I NEEDED to read this
This book states some things that we would think would be pretty obvious, but after being in lots of unhappy and unfulfilling relationships this book hit me like a freight train. I listened to it twice just to be sure I took it all in. The narration can be a little annoying at times since they do comical voicing and there is music, etc, but the content is great. It really dives in to all the things we put up with in relationships and gives details to why we are better than that. This book was a much needed reality check for me.
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- Tiffany Sinden
- 01-06-20
39 and In the Dating World Again
If you are lucky enough to be 40 and dating again (I would NOT call this lucky at all), then you need to read/listen to this book! It’s absolutely amazing and spot on. I listened to this in my car every time I was driving and finished it in less than three days.
The way that Greg and Liz narrate this book is great, and the way the information is given to us is over-the-top, and hilarious too!
They go over every single scenario in dating you can possibly imagine, all leading to one important message: “He’s Just Not That Into You”.
Since reading this, it has made my life so much easier in determining silly thoughts and questions when dealing with men and dating. I highly recommend this book to us ladies. It has helped me move on much quicker and stop calling/texting.
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- Amazon Customer
- 08-22-17
pammy
It was an enlightening, affirming book for women who notice they keep making the same mistakes in relationships. Some of the tales were funny, but my favorite part was in the end when the topic turned to looking at how to do things differently.
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- This1ReadsBooks
- 09-30-21
This book was exactly what I needed !
I thoroughly enjoyed listening to read.! It was a confirmation and reminder to me of who I am and my worth. Had to bookmark several sections as references cause as I was driving and listening it was impossible for me to write them down. I'm hoping for a part 2!
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- Damaris
- 10-04-21
Excellent Advice just a bit dated
Great book, so happy to get a man's point of view I just found the "don't ask a man out, he'll ask you if he really likes you" kind of dated. Other than that, great book.
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