
Here for It (the Good, the Bad, and the Queso)
The How-to Guide for Deepening Your Friendships and Doing Life Together
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Narrated by:
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Amy Weatherly
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Jess Johnson
About this listen
Read by the authors.
Discover how you can build the deep friendships you crave…the friendships that will withstand whatever life throws your way.
We all long to do life together with people who really "get" us. But it can feel like there are so many obstacles. Let's be honest, making friends as an adult is hard! It's weird and it's tricky and it can feel overwhelming. But once you find real, authentic relationships maintaining those friendships and taking them to a deeper level can be even harder.
In Here For It (The Good, the Bad, and the Queso), Amy Weatherly and Jess Johnston, bestselling authors and founders of the wildly popular "Sister, I Am with You" online community, simplify some of the trickier aspects of friendship and give you practical ways to deepen the friendships you already have. Amy and Jess gave listeners a road map for finding real, authentic relationships with I'll Be There (But I'll Be Wearing Sweatpants), they now provide a toolkit for building up and building on those friendships and dig deeper into the ‘hows’ and ‘whys’ of doing life together in a culture that constantly tries to keep us separate.
You will learn how to:
- Distinguish between different types of friendships
- Recognize when a seasonal relationship has run its course
- Understand the importance of self-awareness, healthy confrontation, and differing love languages in friendship
- Maintain long-distance friendships
- Foster real relationships with your neighbors
- Establish traditions that strengthen your connections
Here For It (The Good, the Bad, and the Queso) will give you the tools you need to continue laying a strong foundation and building relationships that are steady, secure, and made to withstand whatever life throws your way. Whether you could use tips on setting boundaries or encouragement for working through conflicts, Amy and Jess give you the resources you need for showing up, speaking up, and offering grace to yourself and those you love.
The recipe can be found in the audiobook companion PDF download.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2024 Amy Weatherly and Jess Johnston (P)2024 Thomas NelsonListeners also enjoyed...
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