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Fr. Joe Kempf
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Fr. Joe Kempf
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In this deeply personal and encouraging book, best-selling author and beloved pastor Fr. Joe Kempf takes an honest look at the complexities of forgiveness. With his signature heart and humor, Fr. Joe encourages us not to be too glib about forgiveness, even as he gently reminds us that, ultimately, “Forgiveness is not optional for those who want a joy-filled, meaningful life.”
Filled with stories of real-life situations of hurt and betrayal, Fr. Joe asks the difficult questions about what it takes to truly forgive someone, when to do so, and how to give ourselves the space to heal in the arms of our loving God. When the heartaches come, these reflections, prayers, and stories will help guide us toward the life-changing power of following Jesus beyond the cross to forgiveness and new life.
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- J Bogs
- 04-24-24
How to deal with hurt and when to forgive.
A great insight into the concept of forgiveness through the eyes of a wise priest.
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