
Dating with Discernment
12 Questions to Make a Lasting Marriage
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Jim Denison
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Sam A. Andreades
About this listen
Done with dating? Don't know where to start? Wondering if your date is the one to marry?
Pastor-scholar Sam Andreades brings single Christians in that vulnerable life moment the practical, theological help to make the dangerous decision confidently. Bringing the Bible's wisdom on relationships to bear on the dating scene, he helps you lay a foundation for a love that lasts. This book will teach you how to:
- Confidently say good-bye to ill-suited suitors.
- Deepen your relationship with God as you date.
- Find, and make a lifelong commitment to, a worthy, compatible mate.
- Understand the role of gender in developing intimacy.
- Form a strong foundation for marriage in your dating as you grow into what marriage is about.
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- Porcha Simmons
- 04-09-25
Dating Advice + Christian
I absolutely loved this book. I think what was mentioned in the book was spot on. The book talks about dating in God’s image while backing that up with life example as well as quotes/parables/passages from the Bible. I also think, even though it is heavily Christian, if you aren’t Christian you could read this book and find faith in relationships and a path that works for you in identifying what you need to search for.
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- krpf
- 01-20-23
Great book!
Excellent book for any single considering dating and/or marriage. Very helpful for understanding the why. Highly recommend.
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- Amy Steeger
- 06-05-23
No!
I can’t believe the recommendations this book got from solid people. He quotes from very sexual R rates movies. He compares the Trinity to going to your boyfriends house for dinner… and lots of other bizarre things. There are some good takeaways but the bad outweighs the good.
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