
Choosing Civility
The Twenty-five Rules of Considerate Conduct
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David Drummond
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P. M. Forni
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In Choosing Civility, P. M. Forni offers 25 rules for connecting effectively with others - at home, at work, and in our daily encounters.
In clear, witty, and, well... civilized language, Forni covers topics that include:
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- Elizabeth
- 10-12-14
Probably a better read
The information in this book is good, but I think it might be a better read than a listen. From the narration it seems that the actual book might be one of lists, highlighted boxes, and standard texts. This did not translate well into an audio book. I did finish the book, but am contemplating on getting a print version as reference and to skim over to see what I "lost in translation."
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- Master Grasshopper
- 10-11-23
Good information but poor performance
This book was so hard to listen to! It sounded like it was some sort of AI reading it. I made it through though! Lots of good points and reminders.
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- Gina
- 02-15-15
Taking the High Road
I enjoyed listening and reading this book. I have it on my kindle and audible. It didn't sync, but I didn't care. (Different editions)
I'm having my staff read because everyone should know how to be civil. Forni explains this in a easy to understand manner. Including the 'what's in it for me'.
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- p
- 11-25-16
Great reminders!
Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?
The paperback of this book has been is a fantastic read. This format is good, if you want to revisit the chapters.
Did the narration match the pace of the story?
The pace of the narration is a bit odd, it's not quite a story but more a series of do's and don'ts. So it's a bit weird to listen to.
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- Amazon Customer
- 09-24-24
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I loved the broad perspective of cilivity as a well rounded discussion across generations & topics.
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- Ariel
- 01-03-13
Great book
Where does Choosing Civility rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?
number 1
What does David Drummond bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?
I wish this book was mandatory reading for high schoolers
Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?
Yes
Any additional comments?
rudeness seems to be fashionable these days
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- Mandy Manmeet
- 03-04-24
Great book for all people
Good life lessons on ways to treat yourself and others to enrich yourself and them
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