
Chatter
The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness It
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Ethan Kross
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Ethan Kross
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National Best Seller
An award-winning psychologist reveals the hidden power of our inner voice and shows how to harness it to combat anxiety, improve physical and mental health, and deepen our relationships with others.
Longlisted for the Porchlight Business Book Award
“A masterpiece.” (Angela Duckworth, bestselling author of Grit • Malcolm Gladwell, Susan Cain, Adam Grant, and Daniel H. Pink’s Next Big Idea Club Winter 2021 Winning Selection)
One of the best new books of the year - The Washington Post, BBC, USA Today, CNN Underscored, Shape, Behavioral Scientist, PopSugar • Kirkus Reviews, Publishers Weekly, and Shelf Awareness starred reviews
Tell a stranger that you talk to yourself, and you’re likely to get written off as eccentric. But the truth is that we all have a voice in our head. When we talk to ourselves, we often hope to tap into our inner coach but find our inner critic instead. When we’re facing a tough task, our inner coach can buoy us up: Focus - you can do this. But, just as often, our inner critic sinks us entirely: I’m going to fail. They’ll all laugh at me. What’s the use?
In Chatter, acclaimed psychologist Ethan Kross explores the silent conversations we have with ourselves. Interweaving groundbreaking behavioral and brain research from his own lab with real-world case studies - from a pitcher who forgets how to pitch, to a Harvard undergrad negotiating her double life as a spy - Kross explains how these conversations shape our lives, work, and relationships. He warns that giving in to negative and disorienting self-talk - what he calls “chatter” - can tank our health, sink our moods, strain our social connections, and cause us to fold under pressure.
But the good news is that we’re already equipped with the tools we need to make our inner voice work in our favor. These tools are often hidden in plain sight - in the words we use to think about ourselves, the technologies we embrace, the diaries we keep in our drawers, the conversations we have with our loved ones, and the cultures we create in our schools and workplaces.
Brilliantly argued, expertly researched, and filled with compelling stories, Chatter gives us the power to change the most important conversation we have each day: the one we have with ourselves.
©2021 Ethan Kross (P)2021 Random House AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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“There’s something deeply mysterious, even awesome, about our inner voice, the means by which we make ourselves aware of who we are and what we think. Kross has good ideas about how to manage and control this voice.” (The New Yorker)
“Are there right and wrong ways to communicate with yourself, and if so, are there techniques that might usefully be employed by those with inner voices that are just a little too loud?... Kross has found answers to some, if not all, of these questions.... [Chatter] could hardly be published at a more opportune moment.” (The Guardian)
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- Master Hard Skills, Outsmart the Competition, and Accelerate Your Career
- By: Scott H. Young
- Narrated by: Scott H. Young
- Length: 7 hrs and 46 mins
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Future-proof your career and maximize your competitive advantage by learning the skill necessary to stay relevant, reinvent yourself, and adapt to whatever the workplace throws your way in this essential guide. Scott Young incorporates the latest research about the most effective learning methods and the stories of other ultralearners like himself - among them Ben Franklin, Judit Polgar, and Richard Feynman, as well as a host of others, such as little-known modern polymaths like Nigel Richards who won the World Championship of French Scrabble - without knowing French.
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I Thought I Already Knew Something About Learning
- By Tyler L on 09-08-19
By: Scott H. Young
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Take the Leap
- Change Your Career, Change Your Life
- By: Sara Bliss
- Narrated by: Will Blagrove, Ramón De Ocampo, Janina Edwards, and others
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
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Sara Bliss (yes, that’s her real name) tracked down more than 65 people who transformed their lives to learn how they did it so you can, too. Take the Leap is packed with inspiring profiles, quotes, and other pieces of creative advice from game changers, rule breakers, and side hustlers, including successful entrepreneurs like Barbara Corcoran, Bobbi Brown, writer turned actress (at 40) Jill Kargman, Black Crowes drummer turned sports radio host Steve Gorman, writer Simon Doonan, and NFL player turned artist/activist Aaron Maybin, and many more.
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Getting Unstuck
- By Sandra Mizumoto Posey on 05-09-19
By: Sara Bliss
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The Book of Mistakes
- By: Skip Prichard
- Narrated by: Skip Prichard
- Length: 4 hrs and 39 mins
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The Book of Mistakes will take you on an inspiring journey, following an ancient manuscript with powerful lessons that will transform your life. You'll meet David, a young man who with each passing day is more disheartened and stressed. Despite a decent job, apartment, and friends, he just feels hollow...until one day he meets a mysterious young woman and everything starts to change. In this self-help tale wrapped in fiction, you'll learn the nine mistakes that prevent many from achieving their goals. You'll learn how to overcome these hurdles and reinvent your life.
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Good points, corny story
- By Easy Rider on 04-17-18
By: Skip Prichard
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Emotional Agility
- Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life
- By: Susan David
- Narrated by: Susan David
- Length: 9 hrs and 21 mins
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The path to personal and professional fulfillment is rarely straight. Ask anyone who has achieved his or her biggest goals or whose relationships thrive, and you'll hear stories of many unexpected detours along the way. What separates those who master these challenges and those who get derailed? The answer is agility - emotional agility.
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Slow, Simple, and Easy to Comprehend
- By Jules on 04-21-20
By: Susan David
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The Serendipity Mindset
- The Art and Science of Creating Good Luck
- By: Christian Busch
- Narrated by: Gabriel Vaughan
- Length: 11 hrs and 13 mins
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In The Serendipity Mindset, Christian Busch explains that serendipity isn't about luck in the sense of simple randomness. It's about seeing links that others don't, combining these observations in unexpected and strategic ways, and learning how to detect the moments when apparently random or unconnected ideas merge to form new opportunities. Busch explores serendipity from a rational and scientific perspective and argues that there are identifiable approaches we can use to foster the conditions to let serendipity grow.
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Interesting idea but drags on and on
- By Tatyana on 02-05-23
By: Christian Busch
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Imperfect Courage
- Live a Life of Purpose by Leaving Comfort and Going Scared
- By: Jessica Honegger
- Narrated by: Jessica Honegger
- Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
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In 2015, Inc. magazine recognized Noonday Collection as one of the fastest-growing companies in America. Years earlier, as Jessica Honegger stood at a pawn-shop counter in Austin, Texas, and handed over her grandmother's gold jewelry, her goal was personal: to fund the adoption of her Rwandan son by selling artisan-made jewelry. This first step launched an unexpected side-hustle that would grow into Noonday Collection. She teamed up with her first artisan partner, Jalia, a Ugandan jewelry maker and saw the meaningful impact Noonday brought to Jalia's community.
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Too Church for me
- By Just a mom on 03-31-19
By: Jessica Honegger
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The Power of Giving Away Power
- How the Best Leaders Learn to Let Go
- By: Matthew Barzun
- Narrated by: Matthew Barzun
- Length: 4 hrs and 49 mins
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A few rare leaders have learned to embrace a new organizational shape and mindset: Constellations. Organizations designed as constellations are dynamic and flexible networks of distinct yet interwoven individuals. Each member of the team feels like a singular star and is also connected to others to form something greater. That is how Visa reimagined how we pay for things, how Wikipedia beat the richest company in the world and how Barack Obama and his grassroots team revolutionized political campaigning. These leaders did what most leaders dread - they gave away power.
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Not a very humble author, but what do you expect?
- By Eric on 06-20-21
By: Matthew Barzun
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On Self-Hatred
- Learning to Like Oneself
- By: The School of Life
- Narrated by: Rachel Lanning
- Length: 2 hrs and 54 mins
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Behind many of our problems lies an often ignored factor: we don’t like ourselves very much. We are sufferers of self-hatred. We tell ourselves the meanest things. It’s because of self-hatred that we tend to neglect our potential at work and get entangled in unfulfilling relationships, that we lack confidence in our social lives and suffer from anxiety, despair and imposter syndrome.
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Useful ideas to reflect on
- By Kevin on 08-14-24
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Reset
- How to Change What's Not Working
- By: Dan Heath
- Narrated by: Dan Heath
- Length: 6 hrs and 35 mins
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In Reset, Heath explores a framework for getting unstuck and making the changes that matter. The secret is to find “leverage points”: places where a little bit of effort can yield a disproportionate return. Then, we can thoughtfully rearrange our resources to push on those points.
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Accompanying PDF has chapter summaries
- By JOHN B SHRADER on 02-07-25
By: Dan Heath
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Mindwise
- Why We Misunderstand What Others Think, Believe, Feel, and Want
- By: Nicholas Epley
- Narrated by: Nicholas Epley
- Length: 6 hrs and 24 mins
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You are a mind reader, born with an extraordinary ability to understand what others think, feel, believe, want, and know. It's a sixth sense you use every day, in every personal and professional relationship you have. At its best, this ability allows you to achieve the most important goal in almost any life: connecting, deeply and intimately and honestly, to other human beings. At its worst, it is a source of misunderstanding and unnecessary conflict, leading to damaged relationships and broken dreams. How good are you at knowing the minds of others?
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Finally gave up - no real point
- By Thomas on 05-12-14
By: Nicholas Epley
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How to Have a Good Day
- Harness the Power of Behavioral Science to Transform Your Working Life
- By: Caroline Webb
- Narrated by: Caroline Webb
- Length: 13 hrs and 23 mins
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In How to Have a Good Day, economist and former McKinsey partner Caroline Webb shows listeners how to use recent findings from behavioral economics, psychology, and neuroscience to transform their approaches to everyday working life. Advances in these behavioral sciences are giving us ever better understanding of how our brains work, why we make the choices we do, and what it takes for us to be at our best.
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Who Doesn't Want to Have a Good Day?
- By Ariel on 02-04-16
By: Caroline Webb
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The Perfection Trap
- Embracing the Power of Good Enough
- By: Thomas Curran
- Narrated by: Sid Sagar
- Length: 7 hrs and 55 mins
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Today, burnout and depression are at record levels, driven by a combination of intense workplace competition, oppressively ubiquitous social media encouraging comparisons with others, the quest for elite credentials, and helicopter parenting. Society continually broadcasts the need to want more, and to be perfect. Gathering a wide range of contemporary evidence, Curran calls for both introspection and broader, societal change. He shows what we can do as individuals to resist the modern-day pressure to be perfect, and in so doing, win for ourselves a more purposeful and contented life.
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The Answers I Didn’t Know I Needed
- By John on 08-14-23
By: Thomas Curran
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The Forgetting Machine
- Memory, Perception, and the Jennifer Aniston Neuron
- By: Rodrigo Quian Quiroga
- Narrated by: Dan Woren
- Length: 4 hrs and 13 mins
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From Plato to Westworld, these questions have fascinated and befuddled philosophers, artists, and scientists for centuries. In The Forgetting Machine, neuroscientist Rodrigo Quian Quiroga explains how the mechanics of memory illuminates these discussions, with implications for everything from understanding Alzheimer's disease to the technology of Artificial Intelligence.
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Life Is What You Make It
- Find Your Own Path to Fulfillment
- By: Peter Buffett
- Narrated by: Peter Buffett
- Length: 5 hrs and 24 mins
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Which will you choose: the path of least resistance or the path of potentially greatest satisfaction? You may think that with a last name like his, Buffett has enjoyed a life of endless privilege. But the son of billionaire investor Warren Buffett says that the only real inheritance handed down from his parents was a philosophy: Forge your own path in life. It is a creed that has allowed him to follow his own passions, establish his own identity, and reap his own successes.
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My new all-time favorite book
- By K.Indira nagaveni on 06-06-17
By: Peter Buffett
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Happy Sexy Millionaire
- Unexpected Truths About Fulfilment, Love and Success
- By: Steven Bartlett
- Narrated by: Steven Bartlett
- Length: 4 hrs and 33 mins
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As an 18-year-old, black, broke, lonely, insecure, university drop-out, from a bankrupt family, I wrote in my diary that I wanted to be a 'Happy Sexy Millionaire' by the age of 25. By 25 I was a multi-millionaire having created a business worth over $300m dollars. Ironically, in achieving everything I set out to, I learnt that I was wrong about almost everything... The world had lied to me. It lied to me about how you attain fulfilment, love and success, why those things matter, and what those words actually mean.
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Non-fluff self help
- By Akhona Maqwazima on 01-30-23
By: Steven Bartlett
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- DT
- 04-09-21
Helpful insights
This book was both educational and helpful!
Understanding how our ‘head chatter’ is not only normal but has a purpose was helpful context. The tools are the reason I was drawn to this book and hoping I can make good use of these for myself and also potentially to help others.
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- Noula
- 02-26-21
A Book That Helped Me See The Bigger Picture!
It's quite amazing how things happen for a reason. Recently, I was bullied by rejecting a man from Facebook Dating saying we aren't a good match. I went with my inner voice or Chatter as this book calls it. That night I got an email book recommendation from Penguin and it was this book. I had a free credit on Audible and I made up my mind, then purchased it.
Little did I know that I would encounter a story told by Ethan. Normally when I encounter or come across books similar to this one I was expecting a whole lecture on our thought processes. This book is totally different! I will not give away spoilers for there are many that come to mind. But, what I can say is that if you are an introvert and also an over thinker then this book is for you.
I've always ignored my chatter, never went with it, my intuition etc. Recently, I went with it due to relationships in dating. Because of that I learned how to harness my emotions and to not react when provoked to do so by someone else who is angry. Trust me...this book gets 5 stars. Read it and learn about your own chatter. Recognize it and use it to the best of your advantage.
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- Mima
- 08-27-21
Essential
This book should be taught in high school. If students could learn how to navigate “Chatter” that goes on in their mind at a young age, I believe the result would be phenomenal for years to come.
At age 65, I wish I had these tools to process my “Chatter” through out my life.
Ethan is easy to listen to in this Audible.
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- S
- 06-17-21
Nicely done
Supporting fellow Columbia Alumna, I chose to listen to this book while experiencing really intense mind chatter myself. Ethan Kross explains relevant concepts and experiments really well and shares interesting stories that keep this both informative and engaging. Overall, a great book to those interested in understanding how to navigate our self talk.
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- Christina
- 04-29-21
Great book and helped to clear out the chatter!!!
I loved this book. The author is well educated and very credible. I enjoyed how he broke out each chapter in a way that I could apply the principles to my everyday life. I especially like the fly on the wall and the 3rd person dialogue. Excellent book. Easy to comprehend. And easy to apply in my day-to-day life. Well done!
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- John H
- 01-24-22
The information I needed
This book helped me understand what's going on inside my head and provided tools on how to control it. Ethan Cross did a great job narrating and his voice is easy to listen to.
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- Donna Meagle
- 10-09-23
Recommend.
The book left me with things I’m still implementing in my life and it’s helping. That is what makes a great book.
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- Christian Toni Tabares
- 09-29-23
Insightful and helpful
This is an indispensable tool for someone like me who is skeptical of and often plays mind games with my own inner voice. It puts into perspective what I have long suspected about my own chatter: that it is amusing, random and mundane, and that sometimes, I shouldn’t take it too seriously.
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- Adrian
- 12-20-24
I needed that
most of the things os this book is was doing but I was worried I might have been doing something wrong. this book showed me that I am on the right path to properly utilizing the voice in my head.
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- Amazon Customer
- 04-20-21
Essential Reading/Listening for the 21st Century Person
Ethan Kross’ timely book is full of important and exciting information and can be easily applied to understand our inner chatter. This is essential reading for literally everybody! I loved this book and have carefully written down the tools he so succinctly set out. Well done, Dr. Kross!! Your book helps us all find inner expansion to heal.
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