
Against Empathy
The Case for Rational Compassion
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Karen Cass
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Paul Bloom
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A controversial call to arms, Against Empathy argues that the natural impulse to share the feelings of others can lead to immoral choices in both public policy and in our intimate relationships with friends and family.
Most people, including many policy makers, activists, scientists, and philosophers, have encouraged us to be more empathetic - to feel the pain and pleasure of others. Yale researcher and author Paul Bloom argues that this is a mistake. Far from leading us to improve the lives of others, empathy is a capricious and irrational emotion that appeals to our narrow prejudices. It muddles our judgment and often leads to cruelty. We are at our best when we are smart enough not to rely on it and draw upon a more distanced compassion.
Based on groundbreaking scientific findings, Against Empathy makes the case that some of the worst decisions that individuals and nations make - who to give money to, when to go to war, how to respond to climate change, and who to put in prison - are too often motivated by honest yet misplaced emotions. With clear and witty prose, Bloom demonstrates how empathy distorts our judgment in every aspect of our lives, from philanthropy and charity to the justice system; from culture and education to foreign policy and war. Without empathy, Bloom insists, our decisions would be clearer, fairer, and ultimately more moral.
Bound to be controversial, Against Empathy shows us that when it comes to major policy decisions and the choices we make in our everyday lives, limiting our empathetic emotions is often the most compassionate choice we can make.
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- By: Paul Bloom
- Narrated by: Jeremy Johnson
- Length: 7 hrs and 1 min
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Yale psychologist Paul Bloom presents a striking new vision of the pleasures of everyday life. The thought of sex with a virgin is intensely arousing for many men. The average American spends over four hours a day watching television. Abstract art can sell for millions of dollars. Young children enjoy playing with imaginary friends and can be comforted by security blankets. People slow their cars to look at gory accidents, and go to movies that make them cry.
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Easy to understand, well read.
- By Robert on 06-15-10
By: Paul Bloom
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Thinking 101
- How to Reason Better to Live Better
- By: Woo-kyoung Ahn
- Narrated by: Lessa Lamb
- Length: 7 hrs and 32 mins
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Psychologist Woo-kyoung Ahn devised a course at Yale called “Thinking” to help students examine the biases that cause so many problems in their daily lives. It quickly became one of the university’s most popular courses. Now, for the first time, Ahn presents key insights from her years of teaching and research in a book for everyone. She shows how “thinking problems” stand behind a wide range of challenges, from common, self-inflicted daily aggravations to our most pressing societal issues and inequities.
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Frustrating
- By Helloimkale on 04-27-23
By: Woo-kyoung Ahn
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The Power of the Other
- The Startling Effect Other People Have on You, from the Boardroom to the Bedroom and Beyond - and What to Do About It
- By: Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: George Newbern
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
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Combining engaging case studies, persuasive findings from cutting-edge brain research, and examples from his consulting practice, Dr. Cloud argues that whether you're a Navy SEAL or a corporate executive, outstanding performance depends on having the right kind of connections to fuel personal growth and minimize toxic associations and their effects.
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Which Corner Are You In?
- By Jeffrey Wooten on 07-07-16
By: Henry Cloud
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Train Your Mind to Be Successful
- Attract and Get Anything You Want in Life
- By: Sayra S. Montes
- Narrated by: Mapuana Makia
- Length: 3 hrs and 4 mins
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Do you want to develop the habits you need to thrive and flourish in life? Looking for powerful, proven exercises to help you change your mindsets, manifest your dream life, and strive for achievement? Then this is the book for you.
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Common sense Rehash of another million books out there
- By DeAnn on 07-03-22
By: Sayra S. Montes
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After the Rain
- Gentle Reminders for Healing, Courage, and Self-Love
- By: Alexandra Elle
- Narrated by: Alexandra Elle
- Length: 3 hrs and 14 mins
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In After the Rain, celebrated self-care storyteller Alexandra Elle delivers 15 lessons on how to overcome obstacles, build confidence, and cultivate abundance. Part memoir and part guide, Elle shares stirring stories from her own remarkable journey from self-doubt to self-love. This soulful collection is filled with illuminating reflections on loss, fear, bravery, healing, love, acceptance, and more.
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Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
- By Anonymous User on 08-05-21
By: Alexandra Elle
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The Happiness Trap
- How to Stop Struggling and Start Living
- By: Russ Harris
- Narrated by: Russ Harris
- Length: 12 hrs and 19 mins
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Dr. Russ Harris provides a means to escape the epidemic of stress, anxiety, and depression, unlocking the secrets to a truly fulfilling life. Updated and expanded by 50 percent in its second edition, this empowering book presents the insights and techniques of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), covering more topics and providing more practical tools than ever before.
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Good book for people with anxiety and depression
- By Jagdeep S Sandhu on 01-19-22
By: Russ Harris
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The Expectation Effect
- How Your Mindset Can Change Your World
- By: David Robson
- Narrated by: John Sackville
- Length: 8 hrs and 45 mins
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Melding neuroscience with narrative, science journalist David Robson takes lstenersi on a deep dive into the many life zones the expectation effect permeates. We see how people who believe stress is beneficial become more creative when placed under strain. We see how associating aging with wisdom can add seven plus years to your life. People say seeing is believing but, over and over, Robson proves that the converse is truer: Believing is seeing.
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Every leader and teacher must read!
- By Myron Golden on 09-18-22
By: David Robson
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The True Believer
- Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements
- By: Eric Hoffer
- Narrated by: Fred Sanders
- Length: 5 hrs and 16 mins
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A stevedore on the San Francisco docks in the 1940s, Eric Hoffer wrote philosophical treatises in his spare time while living in the railroad yards. The True Believer—the first and most famous of his books—was made into a bestseller when President Eisenhower cited it during one of the earliest television press conferences.
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Enlightening and scary
- By Tyler Zudans on 06-27-24
By: Eric Hoffer
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- John Malato
- 01-03-17
Good Concept, Well, but not Rigorously, Executed
What did you love best about Against Empathy?
The concept is interesting and well cashed out with experimental results. Bloom provides good reasons to think empathy isn’t always useful (and is usually not useful).
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Bloom is not a philosopher and his philosophical arguments are weak in many spots.
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- Colin E Das
- 09-29-18
Insightful, Helpful, and Fun
Against Empathy and Pro Rationality. He covers a lot of ground: from politics to ethics to group and interpersonal relationships. A solid alignment with cognitive psychology books like Thinking, Fast and Slow and Drive.
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- Jason
- 10-10-20
Nothing You Haven't Considered
I wasn't expecting revelation, but I had hoped for interesting. I think my teenager my enjoy it, but in a 10 min Ted Talk form.
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- Erik van Mechelen
- 12-27-16
will make you reconsider your mental models
Paul Bloom's attention to detail in constructing his argument is careful and persuasive. For review, listen to his podcast with Sam Harris.
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- Walter J. Caywood
- 02-22-21
Provocative, witty and persuasive
This is a pleasure to listen to. He took detailed content about psychological theory and research and presented it in an accessible way. I did not think I would be so interested in this topic but the writing and argumentation made it very interesting.
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-08-17
read and learn. dont revel in your ignorance.
then try sam harris. stop being partisan and become a rational being. thank you paul bloom!
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- Greg Stanley
- 06-06-18
Great perspective worth hearing
It was a great perspective that I will continue thinking about and discussing with friends.
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- David
- 12-24-18
Not As Radical As It Sounds But Great Read
The Title is a bit of click bait but the book is engaging until even the final few minutes. Bloom doesn’t ‘debunk’ empathy but rather puts our understanding of empathy in the broader context of academic findings, leading to a more nuanced way to interpreting what does (and does not) make empathy matter
Very accessible (almost no jargon) without having to water down the science
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- Mark
- 05-12-17
Expose of ideological error, but not perfect
Highly recommend. Bloom does yeoman's work in a core principle that underlies much law and dramatic narrative.
It would be even better if he did not accept political factions as an immutable given. After all, he is shaking their foundations.
His advocacy, and compelling examples, of rational thinking is heartening in the current climate of postmodern dominance.
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- Yuval
- 08-09-22
Great book, not so great narration
A highly recommended book for everyone.
It's only too bad that it sounds like Siri is narrating it.
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