
Adoption Trauma
Pain, Rejection, Fear! But There Is Hope
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Fiona Myles
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Fiona Myles
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The day that I believed adoption trauma was a thing was the start of my journey to a whole new me. Growing up I had been under the impression that I was just bad, naughty, and at one point in my childhood the adjective "evil" was applied. Of course I completely bought into the adjectives used to describe me. Even when the odd teacher spoke to me about my good attributes: caring, kind, and compassionate. Still I veered towards the negative. Adoption trauma is very real. Had it been recognized as a "thing" when I was a child, and if someone had picked up on it, things may have been different for me. I can’t change anything, but I can walk towards inner healing. So can you.
Do you want to take a step towards confidence, acceptance, and well-being? This audiobook is my inward look at adoption trauma with some helpful tips that I have used over the past six years to help me overcome the feelings of unworthiness, anger, fear, and rejection that plagued me for 50 years.
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- Matt Sorensen
- 01-12-25
Outstanding
I can't say enough great things about this book. As a 55 yr old adopted male, I've experienced similar feelings to what the author was describing. This book provided more context for me to explore these feelings. Thank you for sharing your experience.
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- Shannon
- 12-30-23
Very relatable and validating
I just started unpacking my adoption as trauma and it had caused such a shift in me I needed something like this to say “hey buddy this shit sucks and it’s hard but we can make it”. Im a licensed therapist and will be sharing this with fellow clinicians as adoption informed care is a pretty rare find. Thank you for sharing your story, it will help me share mine. ❤️
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- Mary Ellen Gambutti
- 07-30-23
Straightforward, honest
She tells the painfully honest story of her struggle for self. Non-judgemental, relatable. I highly recommend Fiona's 's soothing voice to adoptees and to our constellation of advocates.
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