
Acedia & Me
A Marriage, Monks, and a Writer's Life
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Kathleen Norris
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Kathleen Norris
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She writes of her and her husband David's battles with acedia and its clinical cousin, depression, and traces acedia's path through literary and religious history, exposing the damage it does not only to individual lives but also to our culture as a whole, as we are desensitized by ever more intrusive distractions and lose the ability to care about what is truly important. Thus, she finds that the "restless boredom, frantic escapism, commitment phobia, and enervating despair" that we struggle with today are "the ancient demon of acedia in modern dress."
An examination of acedia in the light of theo logy, psychology, monastic spirituality, the healing powers of religious practice, and Norris's own experience, Acedia & Me is both intimate and historically sweeping, brimming with exasperation as well as reverence, sometimes funny, often provocative, and always important.
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- D_r_D_a_n
- 10-11-12
Acedia and All the Rest of Us
Would you consider the audio edition of Acedia & Me to be better than the print version?
I have both. I don't think one can compare audio to print. They serve different purposes. Both are great in this case.
What did you like best about this story?
Norris' assessment and application of acedia's influence within our affluent American culture is spot on.
What about Kathleen Norris’s performance did you like?
She is bit academic. But it is honest and I always like the author to read. The story is personal enough that is right to have her read it.
Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?
The chapter "Acedia's Progress" is so sharp. Norris' application of acedia as the malady of our milieu is not shallow but solid and convincing. I was so impressed. I put it to journal attempting to make it as close as possible.
Any additional comments?
I believe this work is far more than a personal story. It is so throughly researched and cohesive that it more like a doctoral class at a seminary, taught by both the expert and the practitioner. I am have only briefly ran across the term "acedia" in my readings of early desert hermits, so I am no expert on the subject. But after hearing Norris I feel I understand the concept very well.
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- terry
- 04-14-15
New eyes to see distinctions I've missed
Any one of 100's of new ways to see how I have seen without seeing. Only one: depression can't see any possibilities; acedia sees and doesn't care that they exist.
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- Augustwind
- 08-12-15
Interresting
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I love Kathleen Norris' books. She has a great writing style. The reading was absolutely UNBEARABLE!! I had to stop. I will get the book on Kindle and read it myself. Wow, her reading style is awful!! I enjoyed the subject of the book and found it very interesting.
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- M. E. Donnelly
- 02-28-22
May be the one thing you needed to hear...
I can't say that I would recommend this book to everyone, but if you struggle with anything resembling anxiety, depression, despair, or procrastination (both spiritual &/or manual), the author may just say something about her battles with acedia that will help you embrace your vocation of living the quotidian (daily, day-to-day).
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- Jacques
- 05-23-16
wholistically enriching
this is exactly what I needed to listen to at this juncture of life. norris's voice as a poet is gentle and powerful.
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- T&V Dusso
- 08-17-24
The Demon of Our Times
Grateful for Kathleen Norris' insight into the relationship between acedia and the spiriual crisis of despair and control that is present in our world. I'm especially grateful to be able to listen to the author reading this for us.
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- 06-30-15
Acedia and Me and you and me...
Excellent book. I don't even know how I came across this book, but I learned more about myself and the author. I liked hearing the author's own voice too. Norris is smart and intense.
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- Tyler Julian
- 07-22-21
Not What I Expected, But What I Needed
A friend recommended Acedia & Me to me after we talked about the artistic dry spell I’ve found myself in as of late. As such, I went into this thinking it would focus much more on the writing process and applying “acedia” to writing—the book focuses much more on Norris’ faith journey. This was a surprise to me—not a bad thing, just a surprise—based on the way this book was marketed. I would recommend this book to people feeling stalemated in their faith and art. There are many great lines on poetry and it’s importance here, but this is not quite an “Art of Writing” narrative.
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- carolyn speshock
- 10-28-22
A gift of hope
Kathleen Norris explains acedia in a thoughtful and down to earth way. No overuse of academic jargon like many other books on this topic. There is just enough to give detailed examples, (from the fourth century up to modern times) from writers, poets and mystics sprinkled in with her very personal journey with acedia. This presentation is educational as well as hopeful for anyone experiencing depression, “the blues” or just feels stuck.
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- Edith
- 05-18-24
Inciteful
Written by a poet/writer who puts forth an understandable meditation on suffering and sin for the those of us whose minds work in a concrete fashion. She is not a victim and does not write in a maudlin way. Very refreshing.
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