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A Manifesto for Care and Liberation
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Sophie Lewis
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What if family were not the only place you might hope to feel safe, loved, cared for, and accepted? What if we could do better than the family?
We need to talk about the family. For those who are lucky, families can be filled with love and care, but for many they are sites of pain: from abandonment and neglect, to abuse and violence. Nobody is more likely to harm you than your family. Even in so-called happy families, the unpaid, unacknowledged work that it takes to raise children and care for each other is endless and exhausting. It could be otherwise: In this urgent, incisive polemic, leading feminist critic Sophie Lewis makes the case for family abolition.
Abolish the Family traces the history of family abolitionist demands, beginning with 19th century utopian socialist and sex radical Charles Fourier, the Communist Manifesto and early-20th century Russian family abolitionist Alexandra Kollontai. Turning her attention to the 1960s, Lewis reminds us of the anti-family politics of radical feminists like Shulamith Firestone and the gay liberationists, a tradition she traces to the queer Marxists bringing family abolition to the 21st century. This exhilarating essay looks at historic right wing panic about Black families and the violent imposition of the family on indigenous communities, and insists: Only by thinking beyond the family can we begin to imagine what might come after.
“Sharp, engaging, and bursting with intellectual energy, Abolish the Family is a triumph... It's a joy to read, and I cannot recommend it highly enough.” (Helen Hester)
“Sophie Lewis once again shines forth as one of the boldest thinkers of our current moment with this highly anticipated sequel to her groundbreaking Full Surrogacy Now." (Sianne Ngai)
“In her writing, Lewis shows us the kind of feminist care that is within our reach and the intellectual work we must do to actualise it." (Lola Olufemi)
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- 03-23-25
Necessary, unflinching account
Although many readers have knee-jerk responses to family abolition as it strikes at the heart of empire and neocapitalism, this account of why, and basic indications of how family abolition is necessary to address injustice is compelling and nuanced. Lewis draws on extensive philosophical and historical references, addressing a wide decolonial framework that takes race and queer politics seriously. Excellent work. I wish it were longer! There is still much to say about how we can actually embark on the necessary journey for justice in relation to the toxic operation of the family in terms of property.
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- Erin L. Nuckols
- 01-23-24
Thought provoking
Definitely an important and timely read. Highly recommend for those curious about alternative living structures to the current convention.
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- Chet Jackson
- 08-19-24
Family system as oppression
Powerful argument for remaking an institution so old as to be almost inconceivable. This sounds incredibly appealing and equally frightening.
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- Penelope
- 07-16-23
Challenging and hopeful
A provocative and engaging read, as well as an essential discussion for our restless time. I hope more people read it and give it's most challenging proposals serious consideration, with all the charity by which they humor their own philosophical principles.
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- Daniel Benedict
- 11-04-22
Mind-blowing ideas
Another excellent read from Sophie Lewis. Family abolition deserves serious consideration. I highly recommend checking this book out!
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- Simon
- 04-07-24
I would love to read a book about this topic that's not written solely for socialist academics.
It's weird to listen to a book and think I probably agree with everything in here if it wasn't going right over my head. It's constantly referring to academic ideas you'd need a master's in queer, women's or Marxist studies to understand. I know it's just a matter of audience. I was hoping especially with such a short book that it would be more digestible.
It might be better too if it wasn't being read to me by a British robot.
I'm really interested in the ideas in this book but it was a disappointment.
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