
Red-Hot Monogamy
Making Your Marriage Sizzle
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
$0.99/mo for the first 3 months

Buy for $17.19
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
David Cochran Heath
-
Randye Kaye
About this listen
With their trademark insight, humor, and candid personal perspectives, Bill and Pam Farrel reveal the truths about the sexual relationship in marriage and what husbands and wives need to know to keep the embers burning.
- Sex is like fireworks - why a little skill turns marriage into red-hot monogamy
- How sex works best emotionally, physically, and physiologically
- How to avoid the pleasure thieves that steal your chance for fulfillment
The Farrels present difficult-to-discuss topics and biblical truths in universal language with sensitivity, fun, and understanding.
For newlyweds, golden-anniversary celebrants, and all couples in between - this audiobook inspires the gift of romance and passion to fuel lives with love.
Contains mature themes.
©2006 Bill and Pam Farrel (P)2020 TantorListeners also enjoyed...
-
Married Sex
- A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life
- By: Gary Thomas, Debra K. Fileta
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas, Debra Fileta
- Length: 8 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Written by best-selling author Gary Thomas and licensed professional counselor Debra Fileta, Married Sex brings together biblical truth, fascinating research, real-life questions, and practical ideas to help you find greater spiritual and physical joy with your spouse than ever before.
-
-
Straight talk about married sex that’s grounded in Biblical Truth and wisdom!
- By Wesley W. Hartley on 10-12-21
By: Gary Thomas, and others
-
The Marriage Code
- Discovering Your Own Secret Language of Love
- By: Bill Farrel, Pam Farrel
- Length: 6 hrs and 35 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Laced with the Farrels trademark humor, The Marriage Code is packed with ideas for creative code-breaking so couples can connect at a richer, deeper level, enabling them to discover the real enemy of love, the pace that will energize their relationship, the plan that will get their lives in sync, the keys to creating great interactions, and the clues for discovering a satisfying sex life.
-
-
The truths in their experiences.
- By Joy Oostra on 02-06-24
By: Bill Farrel, and others
-
Sheet Music
- Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
- By: Kevin Leman
- Narrated by: Ron Turner
- Length: 5 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For married couples and those engaged to be married, Sheet Music is a practical guide to sex according to God's plan. In his characteristic style, Kevin Leman addresses a wide spectrum of people, from those with no sexual experiences to those with past sexual problems or even abuse. Using frank descriptions, this audiobook has a warm and friendly tone that will help couples overcome awkwardness in discussing an issue important to all married couples.
-
-
Christian sex advise, but he doesn't hold back
- By Rebecca Chauvin on 04-16-15
By: Kevin Leman
-
Men Are Like Waffles Women Are Like Spaghetti
- Understanding and Delighting in Your Differences
- By: Bill Farrel, Pam Farrel
- Narrated by: Bill Farrel, Pam Farrel
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Women are like spaghetti, because their thought process runs on and on in an interconnecting web, and men are like waffles because they compartmentalize and "sit" in sometimes blank boxes, just to relax.
-
-
Good content, annoying sound
- By Amazon Customer on 09-05-17
By: Bill Farrel, and others
-
The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
- Because Good Guys Make the Best Lovers
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Ronald Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Gregoire
- Length: 6 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A candid companion to the best-selling guide for women, The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex gives you suggestions for a fulfilling sex life for both you and your wife, whether you're just starting out or simply want to make your sex life what you've always hoped it would be and aren't sure how to get there.
-
-
Religion-based.
- By JR on 08-02-23
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It
- By: Patricia Love, Steven Stosny
- Narrated by: Laural Merlington
- Length: 6 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Men are right. The "relationship talk" does not help. Dr. Patricia Love’s and Dr. Steven Stosny’s How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It reveals the stunning truth about marital happiness: Love is not about better communication. It's about connection.
-
-
Must read if your on the verge of loosing it all!
- By Chris on 07-19-15
By: Patricia Love, and others
-
Married Sex
- A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life
- By: Gary Thomas, Debra K. Fileta
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas, Debra Fileta
- Length: 8 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Written by best-selling author Gary Thomas and licensed professional counselor Debra Fileta, Married Sex brings together biblical truth, fascinating research, real-life questions, and practical ideas to help you find greater spiritual and physical joy with your spouse than ever before.
-
-
Straight talk about married sex that’s grounded in Biblical Truth and wisdom!
- By Wesley W. Hartley on 10-12-21
By: Gary Thomas, and others
-
The Marriage Code
- Discovering Your Own Secret Language of Love
- By: Bill Farrel, Pam Farrel
- Length: 6 hrs and 35 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Laced with the Farrels trademark humor, The Marriage Code is packed with ideas for creative code-breaking so couples can connect at a richer, deeper level, enabling them to discover the real enemy of love, the pace that will energize their relationship, the plan that will get their lives in sync, the keys to creating great interactions, and the clues for discovering a satisfying sex life.
-
-
The truths in their experiences.
- By Joy Oostra on 02-06-24
By: Bill Farrel, and others
-
Sheet Music
- Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
- By: Kevin Leman
- Narrated by: Ron Turner
- Length: 5 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For married couples and those engaged to be married, Sheet Music is a practical guide to sex according to God's plan. In his characteristic style, Kevin Leman addresses a wide spectrum of people, from those with no sexual experiences to those with past sexual problems or even abuse. Using frank descriptions, this audiobook has a warm and friendly tone that will help couples overcome awkwardness in discussing an issue important to all married couples.
-
-
Christian sex advise, but he doesn't hold back
- By Rebecca Chauvin on 04-16-15
By: Kevin Leman
-
Men Are Like Waffles Women Are Like Spaghetti
- Understanding and Delighting in Your Differences
- By: Bill Farrel, Pam Farrel
- Narrated by: Bill Farrel, Pam Farrel
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Women are like spaghetti, because their thought process runs on and on in an interconnecting web, and men are like waffles because they compartmentalize and "sit" in sometimes blank boxes, just to relax.
-
-
Good content, annoying sound
- By Amazon Customer on 09-05-17
By: Bill Farrel, and others
-
The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
- Because Good Guys Make the Best Lovers
- By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Ronald Gregoire
- Narrated by: Sheila Wray Gregoire, Keith Gregoire
- Length: 6 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A candid companion to the best-selling guide for women, The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex gives you suggestions for a fulfilling sex life for both you and your wife, whether you're just starting out or simply want to make your sex life what you've always hoped it would be and aren't sure how to get there.
-
-
Religion-based.
- By JR on 08-02-23
By: Sheila Wray Gregoire, and others
-
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It
- By: Patricia Love, Steven Stosny
- Narrated by: Laural Merlington
- Length: 6 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Men are right. The "relationship talk" does not help. Dr. Patricia Love’s and Dr. Steven Stosny’s How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It reveals the stunning truth about marital happiness: Love is not about better communication. It's about connection.
-
-
Must read if your on the verge of loosing it all!
- By Chris on 07-19-15
By: Patricia Love, and others
-
Mating in Captivity
- Reconciling the Erotic & the Domestic
- By: Esther Perel
- Narrated by: Esther Perel
- Length: 8 hrs and 8 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Esther Perel takes on tough questions, grappling with the obstacles and anxieties that arise when our quest for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. She invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
-
-
Slices of life
- By Eric on 12-03-18
By: Esther Perel
-
Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 6 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
When you said, “I do”, you entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy. You never intended for it to be miserable. Millions of couples are struggling in desperate marriages. But the story doesn’t have to end there. Dr. Gary Chapman writes, “I believe that in every troubled marriage, one or both partners can take positive steps that have the potential for changing the emotional climate in their marriage.”
-
-
encouragement through another chance
- By Brookley on 09-19-18
By: Gary Chapman
-
His Needs, Her Needs
- Building a Marriage That Lasts
- By: Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr.
- Narrated by: Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr.
- Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Time after time, His Needs, Her Needs has topped the charts as the best-selling marriage book available. In this classic book, Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the 10 most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to make their marriage sizzle by satisfying those needs in their spouses. He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to conflict and even extramarital affairs.
-
-
Easy read! Every couple should read this book!
- By Derek Benson on 10-01-20
-
What Radical Husbands Do
- 12 Steps to Win and Keep Your Wife's Heart
- By: Regi Campbell
- Narrated by: Chris Arias
- Length: 3 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What Radical Husbands Do is a book written by a man for men. It gives people things to do not to be. No "psycho-babble", "religion", or "feel-good frills". Just straight up advice from a guy who has screwed up and learned how to make his marriage work through hard times. Marriage isn't a game of chance. Are you willing to put your chips on the table and go all-in to win and keep your wife's heart? This book shows you how.
-
-
Hits the nail on the head!
- By RP_Greenfield06 on 09-12-23
By: Regi Campbell
-
Habits of the Household
- Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family Rhythms
- By: Justin Whitmel Earley
- Narrated by: Justin Earley, Troy Simons, Ruth Simons
- Length: 6 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Discover simple habits and easy-to-implement daily rhythms that will help you find meaning beyond the chaos of family life as you create a home where kids and parents alike practice how to love God and each other. You long for tender moments with your children - but do you ever find yourself too busy to stop, make eye contact, and say something you really mean?
-
-
Phenomenal
- By Ashley E Martin on 07-13-23
-
The Dead Bedroom Fix
- By: D.S.O
- Narrated by: D.S.O
- Length: 3 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Men: Are you in a sexless marriage? Divorced and don’t want to go through that nightmare again? You're not alone. There are a lot of men out there not happy with their sex lives. What is going on? Is the tried-and-true stereotype of the undersexed husband and the cold, bossy wife inevitable? Are monogamous relationships doomed to such a pitiful state? Is that just the way marriage is? I don't think so.
-
-
Interesting
- By Ben on 04-24-20
By: D.S.O
-
God, Sex, and Your Marriage
- By: Dr. Juli Slattery
- Narrated by: Dr. Juli Slattery
- Length: 4 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Many Christian books talk about sexual issues within broader works on marriage, but few resources comprehensively and biblically guide couples specifically on sexual intimacy. God, Sex, and Your Marriage challenges the common assumptions couples have about sexuality and presents the richer biblical narrative of sex as a metaphor of God’s covenant love. Dr. Juli Slattery applies that biblical framework to the practical challenges in sexual intimacy. Godly sexuality extends far beyond sexual purity and calls us to sexual integrity.
-
-
From a sex addict: this book changed my heart
- By Amazon Customer on 07-21-22
-
Mama Bear Apologetics
- Empowering Your Kids to Challenge Cultural Lies
- By: Hillary Morgan Ferrer
- Narrated by: Hillary Morgan Ferrer
- Length: 9 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Mama Bear Apologetics is the audiobook you've been looking for. This mom-to-mom guide will equip you to teach your kids how to form their own biblical beliefs about what is true and what is false. Through transparent life stories and clear, practical applications - including prayer strategies - this band of Mama Bears offers you tools to train yourself, so you can turn around and train your kids.
-
-
Great book
- By Nathalie H. on 07-03-20
-
The Love Dare
- By: Stephen Kendrick, Alex Kendrick
- Narrated by: Adam Verner
- Length: 5 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
With more than five million copies in print, in nearly two dozen languages, The Love Dare has become an exciting, enriching journey for couples around the world. It can now become yours. Though unconditional love is promised at weddings, it is rarely practiced in real life. As a result, romantic hopes often fade into disappointment at home. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. Whether your marriage is hanging by a thread or healthy and strong, this 40-day journey (featured in the hit movie Fireproof) challenges husbands and wives to understand and practice unconditional love.
-
-
Do it! commit to it, no matter what!
- By cherish on 01-12-17
By: Stephen Kendrick, and others
-
Reconnected
- Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Marriage
- By: Erin Smalley, Dr. Gary Smalley
- Narrated by: David Cochran Heath, Ann Richardson
- Length: 7 hrs and 38 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Over time, the business of life creeps in and even the most deeply committed couples can feel like they're living parallel lives rather than enjoying life together. Their once happily-ever-after can quickly turn into an endless grind of work, chores, errands, and carpool. And the pull of social media becomes more compelling than engaging with one's spouse. In this book, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley offer practical ways to rekindle the passionate, intimate, heart-to-heart spark of connection between husbands and wives.
-
-
Not the best
- By Eden’s Branch on 10-31-24
By: Erin Smalley, and others
-
Making Your Marriage a Fortress
- Strengthening Your Marriage to Withstand Life's Storms
- By: Gary Thomas
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas
- Length: 7 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
How to keep your marriage together when the trials of life threaten to rip it apart. It's not a question of if your marriage will face trials. It's a question of when. Illness or injury. Job loss or financial burdens. Addiction. Anxiety. Infidelity. Loss of faith. Whether you've been married for five months or fifty years, it's within you and your spouse's power to ensure your marriage is prepared for those seasons and situations—a place of refuge and safety for both of you.
-
-
Practical
- By Jon M. on 06-03-23
By: Gary Thomas
-
Loving Him Well
- Practical Advice on Influencing Your Husband
- By: Gary Thomas, Lisa Thomas - foreword
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas
- Length: 8 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Women: you're not alone in your marriage. You never have been, and you never will be. While it may not always feel like it, God desires for you to have a relationally healthy, emotionally engaged, and spiritually mature husband with whom you can share your days. In Loving Him Well, Gary Thomas builds on concepts from his best-selling book Sacred Marriage to reveal the inner workings of a man's heart and mind. He delves into Scriptures that help women gain biblical insight to influence their husbands.
-
-
A must read for any wife!
- By James on 04-03-18
By: Gary Thomas, and others
What listeners say about Red-Hot Monogamy
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Mikelle Rappaport
- 03-17-22
Great content but the narrator sounded like Alexa
It took me a while to get used to the narrator and focus on the book. As someone who recently remarried, I found this book to be very helpful and thought provoking. My husband and I listened to it together. I would recommend.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Caleb
- 08-21-21
Meh…
Much of what this book claims is based on old tropes and stereotypes. There some useful suggestions and a great many poor/strange ones. I’m giving it a 2 for those few suggestions.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
1 person found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- KEB
- 02-10-23
Just plain terrible
This book is guaranteed to kill your interest in sex. The authors suggest spicing up your sex life by doing things like putting a fireplace in your bedroom, installing a double headed shower in your bathroom, decorating your bedroom to resemble an African Safari, or Tara (from GWTW), or a French boudoir. Yes, much of this book is about redecorating your house. For readers who don’t have an unlimited budget, they suggest some less expensive alternatives- like weekends away at fancy resorts, or shopping trips for jewelry and negligée’s. They have about a hundred suggestions for creating situations that are supposed to improve your sex life, a few of them are appealing and doable, but most are not. They assume you have an unlimited supply of baby sitters. And for a book that’s supposed to be about sex, they seem too embarrassed to even use the word. They substitute “red hot monogamy” for “sex.” It’s all quite childish. Even though they repeatedly tell couples not to be too embarrassed about their bodies to try some adventurous sex, and to ask for what they want, and to be willing to try something new - they never explain what “new and adventurous red hot monogamy” looks like. Aside from a very brief (and positive) foray into oral sex, they don’t actually touch on any “red hot” topics. Oh, and they repeatedly admonish readers that if you’re not married, don’t have sex, because it could not possibly be good. All the good sex is already being had by married christian couples. They have statistics to prove it. Which begs the question, then who needs this book?
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
1 person found this helpful