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The BDSM Relationship Handbook
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Tobias Ezra Queen
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Michael Makai
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The definitive handbook on Domination and Submission (D/s) relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. A must-read for anyone considering or curious about non-traditional relationships within a fetish culture context. Funny, insightful, educational, and inspiring. Author Michael Makai goes in-depth on Dominants, submissives, switches, primals, and their relationship dynamics. Learn about BDSM activities, bondage, toys, groups, protocols, and safety. This book even dares to go where others fear to tread: The Gorean subculture, online D/s and BDSM, first meetings, religion vs. kink, and what could go wrong. You'll love Michael Makai's irreverent and humorous treatment of this subject as he gives you the benefit of his 35+ years of experience in the D/s and BDSM lifestyles.
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In The Dominance Playbook, kink educator and lifelong power exchange fanatic Anton Fulmen builds on the fundamentals he established in The Heart of Dominance to explore beyond the basics of dominance and submission in both scenes and relationships. The playbook includes inspiration and practical advice for a wide range of power exchange practices: administering effective punishments, providing useful service, navigating the delicate territory of sexual objectification, and other fulfilling but sometimes tricky areas of kink.
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Amazing!!!
- By Mr. B. Mitchell on 02-11-23
By: Anton Fulmen
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The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink
- Jungian and Archetypal Perspectives on the Soul’s Transgressive Necessities
- By: Douglas Thomas
- Narrated by: E.M. Burton, Bianca Drew
- Length: 10 hrs and 37 mins
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This fascinating volume investigates how the concept of soul is connected to BDSM and kink, exploring the world of alternative sexualities through the psychology of C. G. Jung and James Hillman as listeners are guided on a provocative, lively journey through darker aspects of the sexual imagination.
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Depth Psychology perspective on non-vanilla sexual practices.
- By Christina Osterman on 12-19-24
By: Douglas Thomas
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BDSM Training 101
- The Dom's Complete Guide to Submissive Training
- By: Adam Kane
- Narrated by: Nicholas James Welsh
- Length: 17 hrs and 40 mins
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Let me tell you what: Forget everything you thought you knew about BDSM. You're not just here for a basic introduction or a 101 on some boring rules you'll find in any random Google search. No, you've picked up the wildest, most thrilling guide on how to turn your bedroom into the ultimate training ground-where you command with finesse and dominate with confidence, all while keeping things fun and electrifying.
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Not bad
- By James Ramsey on 02-25-25
By: Adam Kane
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Conquer Me
- Girl-to-Girl Wisdom About Fulfilling Your Submissive Desires
- By: Kacie Cunningham, Jay Wiseman - foreword
- Narrated by: Alexandra Shawnee
- Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins
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Submissive women have needs just like anybody else. But how can a woman get her needs met when she's relinquished her power to her dominant partner? With warmth, wisdom, and a down-to-earth approach, experienced submissive Kacie Cunningham analyzes the realities of the dominant-submissive lifestyle and suggests ways in which both partners can experience the greatest possible growth and pleasure.
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Sexy & Steamy
- By Flicsha on 04-25-24
By: Kacie Cunningham, and others
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How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive
- A Practical Guide to Making Your Fantasies a Reality
- By: Kate Kinsey
- Narrated by: Alexandra Shawnee
- Length: 3 hrs and 55 mins
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Beyond Fifty Shades of Grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real-life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had. Erotic author Kate Kinsey brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.
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thoughtful, and understanding
- By james on 01-23-20
By: Kate Kinsey
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The Loving Dominant
- By: John Warren, Libby Warren
- Narrated by: Anastasia Watley
- Length: 10 hrs and 43 mins
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Previous editions of The Loving Dominant taught more than 40,000 people the fundamentals of safe, affectionate dominance and submission. Now, John and Libby Warren, two of the scene's most respected educators, have updated this seminal work for a new generation of practitioners. Includes an all-new chapter on partner-finding, plus new information on electricity play, ethical play with multiple partners, water sports, kinky digital photography, and more!
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I'm completely a novice, but this opened my eyes
- By Nismo240 on 05-09-19
By: John Warren, and others
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Brie Learns the Art of Submission: Submissive Training Center (Volume 1)
- By: Red Phoenix
- Narrated by: Pippa Jayne
- Length: 17 hrs and 29 mins
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Brie's life changes the day Sir comes to her tiny tobacco shop. His invitation to the Submissive Training Center is about to rock this young woman's world. The renowned school is famous for its elite submissive instruction. She has no idea what will be asked of her or the boundaries that will be pushed. One thing is certain: Brie is about to learn more about herself in six weeks than she has over the previous 22 years.
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Holy Hotness don't miss this book
- By Lia on 07-29-14
By: Red Phoenix
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Playing Well with Others
- Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities
- By: Lee Harrington, Mollena Williams
- Narrated by: Joel Froomkin
- Length: 12 hrs and 2 mins
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While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink culture - the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums, and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.
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Needs new narrator
- By Gillian on 01-24-21
By: Lee Harrington, and others
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The Warrior Princess Submissive
- By: Michael Makai
- Narrated by: Naughty Sound, Tobias Ezra Queen
- Length: 4 hrs and 15 mins
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Ever get the feeling, when you hear about all the "classic" categories of submissive, that there must be one missing? You know which one we're talking about. The missing submissive is the one that is the wicked-smart, strong-willed, uber-competent, ultra-competitive, synergistic, switchy, crusader. She's no one's doormat, never a victim. She is a kick-ass submissive for the 21st century. Think: Xena, the Warrior Princess, kneeling at the feet of Hercules.
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For submissive men too!
- By Bead on 07-28-15
By: Michael Makai
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Dom's Guide to BDSM Training
- Your Friendly Handbook on How to Train Your New Sub
- By: Mistress Dede
- Narrated by: Ambrose Essex
- Length: 47 mins
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Dom's Guide to BDSM is your secret handbook for methods of dom/sub activity, containing various strategies and must-know guidelines on how to get the most out of your BDSM experience. This audiobook serves as a friendly guide for the dom/master, including all of the imperative steps on how they can indulge in a dom/sub relationship, including some important terms and strategies about the basics of BDSM. This also includes a step-by-step blueprint and exciting know-how on how to train your sub and how to play with them.
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The narrator is monotone and forgettable
- By Eric Neratka on 09-28-18
By: Mistress Dede
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Vanilla to Kinky: The Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kink
- Discover the Keys to How to Be Dominant or Submissive in The Bedroom: BDSM Basics, Book 1
- By: Jonathan Wolf
- Narrated by: Zachary Zaba
- Length: 2 hrs and 13 mins
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Do you want to stay in the same vanilla sex routine forever? Or are you ready to bring more pleasure and excitement to your sex life starting today? BDSM is much broader than it seems and when done correctly, is completely safe and healthy. BDSM is a journey that can be truly rewarding every time but will take effort, patience, and self-examination. If you want to begin your journey then this is where you start.
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- By Crystal Johnson on 07-02-21
By: Jonathan Wolf
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- Anonymous User
- 06-14-19
Great resource!!
one of the most informative books out there!! I recommend this book for anyone that is starting in the lifestyle.
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- Miranda
- 01-11-19
Good basic intro for beginners
it is a good and informative guide for people just entering the lifestyle. Even though Ive been practicing for a while I even learned some new things from this book.
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- Natalie
- 04-15-15
Fantastic overview, entertainingly presented.
By chapter 2, I bought this audiobook for my own Dom. Even though I'm experienced and have been active in the BDSM lifestyle, this book was a great broad-brush overview that helped me to understand the drivers for kinksters who differ from me, as well as giving some great food for thought and some great conversation topics that have helped us to grow as a D/s couple. Listening to this book is like hanging out with someone who's "been there, done that" and normalizes an alternative lifestyle in a clear, positive manner, gratifyingly without the posturing that's all too common. My Dom and I have had some truly amazing and revealing conversations as a result of this book, and I'm so very glad I've had the opportunity to listen. Oh, and great narration too. :)
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- Phillip P. White Jr.
- 05-31-19
good info shouldn't be unabridged
The book has good information. the glossary, which was read in it's entirety could have been converted into a couple of chapters that went a bit more in depth on the subjects.
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- Tyson
- 10-03-19
excellent overview of DS and BDSM lifestyle
A personal view of the DS and BDSM that does provides a clear definition of the how, why and what it is all about. Wondering if you would fit into the DS lifestyle this is a must read.
Factual, humorous and easy to read.
Mike clearly knows and enjoys the DS lifestyle and his book will help you decide if it is for you
Phil 10-2-2019
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- R. A. Perez
- 07-18-18
Informative and funny
Enjoyable and funny listen. Very informative! Was actually disappointed when I finished the book! Wish he had more titles available.
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- michael byrd
- 10-23-20
Great introduction and view into the lifestyle.
Provide a look into the lifestyle and relationship advice for all types people. The book covers many topic and is very insightful. The reader had a great voice and diction, which allowed me to listen on 3x speed.
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- Tab
- 08-02-19
Be Wary
Loved the book until you Google his name. Prison term for underage solicitation to bring a 16 yo into a poly marriage. Learned alot, but damn.
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- G. D. Sullivan
- 08-30-18
Just one issue...
Ray Stanz was played by Dan Aykroyd, not Bill Murray. Pretty much the ONLY thing that the author got wrong.
Seriously this book should be required reading for anyone who has an interest in joining the BDSM community. It is delivered with the new player in mind, and can do a lot to keep players safe in what can be a risqué lifestyle.
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- Sharah
- 05-08-19
great insight
it was a great way to learn more about the BDSM lifestyle. I was really happy to read it and got great life lessons from it as well
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